On elegant longitudinal patterning materials

In the arena, losing and winning are always inseparable. People often give applause and flowers to the winners, but they often ignore the other side. In fact, a person's demeanor and quality can best reflect his attitude towards failure.

"Can't afford to lose" is not easy. This mentality is formed in the long-term tempering and needs to be accumulated on weekdays. Therefore, whether an athlete is mature and experienced can be read from his attitude towards failure.

Remember the farce of Japanese teenager Chen Gui in Kobe. He threw the racket and kicked the baffle, and was accused of losing the game and losing people, which caused a lot of discussion and thinking. In the arena, this is often the case. Beating, swearing and even fighting,

This is not surprising. However, after analysis, most of the "perpetrators" are still in the growth stage. They are often inexperienced but arrogant. It's rare for an uncle like Zidane to hit his stomach with a bald head. Veterans treat mistakes.

Most of the defeats are calm and calm. For example, Lao Wa failed to draw a perfect ending for her brilliant table tennis career after her 0: 4 fiasco in the last international competition, but she was still laughing and laughing at the press conference, which was unacceptable.

I don't appreciate his general demeanor.

A person's self-restraint and the spirit of a country can be clearly revealed at the moment of winning or losing. So is table tennis. That time, I met Bohr. In the seventh game 12: 13, Liu returned the ball and it landed.

In fact, the air in the Shanghai Gymnasium seems to freeze immediately-if it is out of bounds, it means that Liu is out. Just then, a man reached out and motioned to the referee: "The ball is passed!" " This man is none other than Bohr! 13

Ping, the referee raised his right hand. After two cheers from China fans, Liu finally turned the tables with 15: 13. Bohr lost the game, but won the favor. The whole world saw that he was better than the king.

Another move comes from Beijing's bid to host the Olympic Games. It is hard to forget that when President Samaranch announced that Beijing won the right to host the Olympic Games, representatives from all countries sincerely embraced and wished each other. Yes, when the game is over, whoever wins or loses will be gone.

More important; Winning without arrogance and losing without grace is the real gentleman's demeanor.

Success or failure is not all about winning or losing, but it can be vigorous and win the respect of others and even opponents. The Confederate army suffered a crushing defeat in the American Civil War. Proud Confederate soldiers refused to admit the reality, and they strongly demanded it.

General Li, the commander, went up the mountain to fight guerrilla warfare and vowed never to surrender to the Yankees. However, General Li, who has always been brave and extraordinary, advised everyone to surrender: "If you lose, you lose. We must admit that, more importantly, we must lose. "

Degree. "The commander-in-chief of the Union Army was deeply moved by Lee's demeanor, and he specially presented Lee's own favorite cigar. This is enough to show Li's "failure" style.

Losing gracefully is an ability, a quality and a wisdom. After the "game", the outcome has been divided, but the judgment of "losing" and "winning" is not limited to this.

Manner is the smelting of life taste, not a pretentious prude, but a character influenced by good atmosphere and integrating various virtues. From the heart, condensed in nature.

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Manners are not only dignified and elegant in front of people. It comes from personal knowledge and cultivation. Therefore, a knowledgeable person, even in rags and leather shoes, is personable, while an ignorant person, even in gold and silver, is petty, just like a famous contemporary scholar.

Gong introduced himself humorously with the classic three-character classic-middle school students and associate professors. His knowledge is not accurate, but his ambition is not clear. Although he is famous, he is not tall enough, but he is not low enough. He has turned to the "left" and sent one school to the "right". The face is slightly round and the skin is too thick. His wife

There is no afterlife. Mourning is fresh, but the disease remains the same. Sixty-six is not a long life. Babaoshan, gathering gradually, has a bad time, and its name is the same. A generation of grandmasters introduced themselves so humbly that people were on pins and needles.

But some people have a little knowledge of fur, but they are frivolous and show off their ridiculous cleverness. I have heard such a joke. When the graduates of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences came back to their hometown and saw the old gardener transplanting fruit trees, they said, "Your transplanting method is very unusual."

Learn, according to your dry method, seven apples can be harvested on this tree, which is enough for me to eat a catty. The old gardener looked at him and said slowly, "Not only you but also I am surprised, because this is a peach tree." . "

Quiet, there are reckless and arrogant people in any field now, and most of them are young people. As time goes by, wisdom and elegance come with age, but we can clearly see that sometimes age will return to independence.

People who come here. They carry forward the superficial manners, but they don't pay attention to the existence of inner manners. This self-righteous, actually thoughtless mentality can only serve as a container or seat for others. Therefore,

We should be proud, but we should never be proud. Arrogance is the condition for you to stand up, but there is no need to be arrogant when you are full. So should we always remind ourselves to be thoughtful, arrogant and carry forward the communication?

Inherit this virtue instead of being an arrogant person?

And demeanor is an absolute gentleman, keep your promise, something will not implicate others. When I was a child, my parents often let me eat a refreshing but dry vegetable-bitter gourd in summer. I am reluctant to eat every time.

It ... But my father told me a meaningful sentence-remember there is a Chinese medicine called Huanglian? Everything tastes bad as long as it is polluted, but the bitter gourd you are eating now is bitter but not polluted by other vegetables.

Taste, so it is also called "gentleman's dish". I think, isn't this "gentleman" demeanor of bitter gourd worth learning?

Looking at life, people are charming and have different manners. But we should follow this beautiful character and be a truly elegant person.

It is a refinement of life taste, not a pretentious prude. This is a virtue cultivated by a good atmosphere. From the heart, condensed in nature.

Manners are not only dignified and elegant in front of people. It comes from personal knowledge and cultivation. Therefore, a knowledgeable person, even in rags and leather shoes, is personable, while an ignorant person, even in gold and silver, is petty, just like a famous contemporary scholar.

Gong introduced himself humorously with the classic three-character classic-middle school students and associate professors. His knowledge is not accurate, but his ambition is not clear. Although he is famous, he is not tall enough, but he is not low enough. He has turned to the "left" and sent one school to the "right". The face is slightly round and the skin is too thick. His wife

There is no afterlife. Mourning is fresh, but the disease remains the same. Sixty-six is not a long life. Babaoshan, gathering gradually, has a bad time, and its name is the same. A generation of grandmasters introduced themselves so humbly that people were on pins and needles.

But some people have a little knowledge of fur, but they are frivolous and show off their ridiculous cleverness. I have heard such a joke. When the graduates of the Academy of Agricultural Sciences came back to their hometown and saw the old gardener transplanting fruit trees, they said, "Your transplanting method is very unusual."

Learn, according to your dry method, seven apples can be harvested on this tree, which is enough for me to eat a catty. The old gardener looked at him and said slowly, "Not only you but also I am surprised, because this is a peach tree." . "

Quiet, there are reckless and arrogant people in any field now, and most of them are young people. As time goes by, wisdom and elegance come with age, but we can clearly see that sometimes age will return to independence.

People who come here. They carry forward the superficial manners, but they don't pay attention to the existence of inner manners. This self-righteous, actually thoughtless mentality can only serve as a container or seat for others. Therefore,

We should be proud, but we should never be proud. Arrogance is the condition for you to stand up, but there is no need to be arrogant when you are full. So should we always remind ourselves to be thoughtful, arrogant and carry forward the communication?

Inherit this virtue instead of being an arrogant person?

And demeanor is an absolute gentleman, keep your promise, something will not implicate others. When I was a child, my parents often let me eat a refreshing but dry vegetable-bitter gourd in summer. I am reluctant to eat every time.

It ... But my father told me a meaningful sentence-remember there is a Chinese medicine called Huanglian? Everything tastes bad as long as it is polluted, but the bitter gourd you are eating now is bitter but not polluted by other vegetables.

Taste, so it is also called "gentleman's dish". I think, isn't this "gentleman" demeanor of bitter gourd worth learning?

Looking at life, people are charming and have different manners. But we should follow this beautiful character and be a truly elegant person.