What do you think of "Mom, move back to the countryside, we can't afford you"?

What do you think of the sentence "Mom, move back to the countryside, we can't afford to support you"

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Looking at this sentence, many dutiful sons and daughters may come out to call names. Of course, all the virtues's filial piety comes first. As a child, it is natural to support his parents. This is also our obligation as children.

However, in this sentence of the subject, it brings people more than simply not caring for the elderly.

Let's not be in a hurry to call names first. The child's sentence "We can't afford to support you" has heard too much helplessness. This is a problem of "supporting", so it should not have much to do with the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Therefore, I made a bold assumption here.

This mother, since she moved from her hometown to the city to live with her children, means that before she came, the children thought that she could fully afford to support the elderly, otherwise she would not have taken the elderly over. However, why can't you afford it? Presumably, the mother's expenses in the city have exceeded the upper limit that her son could bear in his original plan.

If a child with an average income meets the following situation, his mother may not be able to support him!

1. Meet a mother who spends a lot of money:

For example, some old people, when they come to the city, broaden their horizons and have new social contacts, will buy a lot of things or health care products, or often travel with old people's groups, and some old people like to play cards and gamble a little money. Of course, if the son has money, then this is not a problem. If the child's income is only enough for basic living and he has to pay other expenses for the elderly, he may not be able to support it.

2. Lazy mom:

No one will ask the elderly for help whenever conditions permit, but if the children can go out to make money, they can help look after the children or do some housework as much as they can. However, if the old people come, they will not be able to help, and even have to let the younger generations eat and drink and wait on them, and they will also tell them what to do, which will undoubtedly bring a greater burden to the children. Of course, such old people are still relatively few, and more parents are doing their best to help the child.

Therefore, if we meet these two types of old people, we should also understand from the standpoint of young people. We should not slap a large piece and think that such children are not filial.

The child has no choice but to send his mother back to the countryside. However, this does not mean that we will not support the elderly. Therefore, we also hope that the elders will understand that it is not easy for some young people to pay off all kinds of loans. what do you reckon ?