My boyfriend and I have only been dating for a few days. He is many years older than me. He is usually a humorous and talkative person, but we usually don't talk much. Usually he talks to me.

You said that your boyfriend is usually humorous and talkative, but he doesn't talk much at ordinary times. You want to talk to him, he is tired and asleep. I think there are two possibilities. First, your boyfriend is really busy and tired at work and has no calendar to chat with you. If so, it is right for you to leave him alone and let him have a good rest. He will love you when he understands your pain. So you don't have to worry. Another possibility is that you have no sparks at all. How happy he is to find his ideal girlfriend when he is old. If he loves you very much, he will have endless words with you, which means that he has feelings for you now. If so, you can take the initiative to communicate with him and see his attitude towards you. If appropriate, he will get together early and leave early.