Have you ever had the experience of completely recognizing a person because of one thing?

Yes. It is actually very easy to see a person clearly. By looking down on a person for one thing, I will find that this person is not who he appears to be and is deceived by his usual behavior.

Before my husband got married, I was not as sentimental as I am now. I always thought that my husband was a very good person, with a straightforward and straightforward personality, but he was also pretty good to me. They say it depends on whether you love someone or not. You will know it when you give birth to a child for him. After I gave birth to a child for him, I completely saw the character of my husband. I found that he was not what I usually saw. In my eyes, he had changed beyond recognition. He was not the same as when I first knew him. He was very strange. He was so strange that I almost didn’t recognize him.

Since I gave birth to a child, my husband has become particularly lazy. He always makes excuses that he is tired, and then falls asleep when the child needs care. I can't imagine how irritated I feel when it's very hard to bring a child, but no one is willing to help me, and the child's father is sleeping soundly beside me. I really want to throw my baby daddy away. I feel like he only knows how to sleep all day long. He doesn't do anything, and he complains about being tired every day. I take care of my children every day without stopping, but I never complain about being tired. Is this world right? Is a man's preferential treatment just to give me more things to do? Do women deserve to take care of children? For men, does having a baby make them feel tired? Is this a bit too much?

When I was young, the child was not obedient and always made noises at night, so my husband went to another room with pillows and quilts. For him, the child was too noisy, which affected his sleep and also affected his life. rest. After I finally put the child to sleep after all the hard work, I saw my husband in that room, playing with his mobile phone. And there is no worry or hardship of raising children, so everything is fine for him. Nothing can stop his enthusiasm for playing with his mobile phone, and the child doesn't know where he ranks him, and I may have become the last in his heart. I feel very unhappy because after giving birth to a child, he did not work together with me to raise the child. Instead, he left the child to me alone, but he lived a happy life. He never changed her because of the child. .

This is not what bothers me the most. What bothers me most is that every night, knowing that the children need the most care, he goes out drinking. And it is like this every day. Drinking may have become a daily routine for him. If he doesn't drink for a day, he will feel bored and sometimes sigh. When someone asks him to ask, he will go out happily, and then he will not come back until midnight after drinking, which makes me feel very annoyed. It is unimaginable that when a woman puts so much effort into her children, she suddenly discovers that her husband does not pay the same amount. At that time, I would feel like I had been abandoned by the world. The children have not changed anything for my husband, but they have changed too much for me. I can’t find anything new in my marriage at all. Returning home, I only feel endless fatigue.

After giving birth to my child, I saw my husband clearly. I found that he had no sense of responsibility at all. For him, when the child was born, he had completed the task and just left everything else to me. He just acts as his hands-off boss and instructs others to do what they do. What others do has nothing to do with him, which makes me see more clearly that he is not worthy of being the father of my children, nor is he worthy of being my husband.