What do you think of "grandma, if you steal my money again, move out"?

They all say that "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are more right and wrong." A few days ago, Qian Qian almost got divorced because of her mother-in-law problem. When asked, I realized that it was Qian Qian who drove her mother-in-law back to her hometown while her husband was working outside.

Qian Qian said that although everyone thought she was wrong, she thought she was right and had reason to drive her mother-in-law out.

Qian Qian said that she and her husband have a very good relationship. She runs a small supermarket in the county and has a good life, but everything has changed since her mother-in-law came.

When my mother-in-law said that she would come to the county to help, I was actually very moved, because she thought about her age and wanted to help us. But it was not until my mother-in-law came to my house for three months that I accidentally discovered her secret, because she actually stole money. And stole a lot, because I carefully calculated the income and expenditure, and found that after my mother-in-law came, the income was actually 4000 yuan less than last month. After careful calculation, I understand that my mother-in-law should have taken it all.

But my mother-in-law denied it at all, saying that she didn't steal it at all, so she just took it this time. Because of this, my husband also said: maybe business is not good, and he also believes that his mother will not steal money. Because I have been managing the supermarket, it is normal for my husband not to know, but I am angry that my husband doesn't believe me at all. So I privately warned my mother-in-law, "Mother-in-law, if you steal my money again, you will move out." But I don't know, my mother-in-law is not ashamed, but proud. Said to me, "These are her sons. "

In fact, I also know that she took the money not for herself, but for her abrasive little son, but what does all this have to do with me? I have no obligation to help her raise her son.

It was also after that that I had the idea of secretly installing a secret camera without telling my mother-in-law and husband. It is because of this camera that I found that my mother-in-law would take money from the till every two days, ranging from one hundred and twenty to three or four hundred at a time.

So after this time, I couldn't bear it anymore, so I asked my mother-in-law to come to the store to watch the surveillance video, and then let her move back to her hometown. But after watching the surveillance, my mother-in-law was not afraid at all. She said that I had the ability to let my son drive her back. I was angry when I heard that my mother-in-law was unscrupulous, so I spread the story of her stealing money from her daughter-in-law to her youngest son all over the neighborhood. It was also because of other people's gossip that her disgraced mother-in-law ran back to her hometown.

It is precisely because of this that my husband and I almost divorced, because my husband not only didn't understand me when he came home, but also scolded me, saying that I made a mountain out of a molehill and that I shouldn't have done that. What should I do if I am angry with the old man? Besides, even if she takes the money, you can't help it, because after all, she raised me alone, and it's not easy for her.

Her husband's words chilled Qian Qian so much that she almost got a divorce. Qian Qian was very confused about this matter, and then asked me: Is it really her fault?

Bian Xiao has something to say:

In my opinion, although Qian Qian was not the biggest mistake in this matter, Qian Qian did something wrong.

As the saying goes, "Wash your dirty linen in public", this is actually Qian Qian's biggest mistake. Even if the mother-in-law makes more mistakes, it is only a family matter, which can only be solved by the family themselves and will not spread to the outside world. Although Qian Qian drove away her mother-in-law, it was not worth the loss, because outsiders couldn't tell right from wrong and would only see jokes, so Qian Qian herself would be the object of gossip, and it would also destroy the feelings between husband and wife and make her mother-in-law hate you more.

It is said that the biggest problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law lies in men. In fact, the biggest mistake in this matter is Qian Qian's husband.

Because Qian Qian's husband, as a man, has no responsibility, does nothing, not only favors his mother, but also despises his wife, so the problem of her mother-in-law is getting bigger and bigger. Because of his partiality, his mother became more and more unscrupulous and intensified. Because of her contempt, her wife is more and more wronged and naturally hates her mother-in-law, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will naturally get worse and worse.

If Qian Qian's husband can handle all this fairly and honestly from the beginning, there will be no problem between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.

Psychologists say that putting the relationship between husband and wife first is the foundation of a happy marriage. Therefore, as a man, if he wants to have a happy marriage, he must put his wife first, because only in this way can the family live in harmony.

Of course, Qian Qian's mother-in-law also has a big problem. If Chichiwa's husband divorces, the culprit is her mother-in-law, because her mother-in-law is too careless and stretches her hand too long, which will lead to various problems. A brother has no obligation to raise his brother, so from the beginning, Qian Qian's mother-in-law was wrong.

In my life, I often warn my parents around me that after their children get married, they should know how to be measured, keep their distance and mind their children's affairs, because these things are doomed to be thankless and even ruin their happiness and should be avoided.