Why do many girls say they are tired of playing and find an honest man to marry? Should honest people be bullied?

I often see many girls on the Internet saying that if you have had enough fun and find an honest man to marry, should an honest man be bullied? In fact, I think most of this is just talk. Actually, there are not many successful cases. Nowadays, marriage is just like the result of mutual choice between buyers and sellers in a market economy. Honest people who really accept girls who are tired of playing are mostly incapable honest people. He will accept girls who are tired of playing, not because he is honest, but because he is incompetent. It is not easy for him to marry a woman. As for the number of calls before, to be honest, he really doesn't care. So I married an honest man. It is definitely impossible for an honest person with high quality to accept a girl who is tired of playing. Only honest people who are incapable can be accepted.

So, why do you always like to find honest people to take over?

1, honest people have no ability and little psychological pressure.

Nowadays, the word "honest man" seems to be a derogatory term, equivalent to a fool and a bookworm. A good horse is ridden, and a good man is bullied. Those girls who have had enough fun finally find an honest man to marry because they can't count on those dishonest men at all, so they can only find an honest man in the end. After all, these women don't like honest people in their bones. Honest people don't sweet talk. Honest people don't understand amorous feelings and romance. It's really boring These honest people have little skill and can't give much material enjoyment. Marrying an honest man is only the second best. In the eyes of these girls, an honest man is a big defective product, which is essentially no different from his own ruined flowers. Marrying you with the beauty of an old lady is your boy's luck, and there is not much psychological pressure.

2. Pursuing a stable and happy marriage

A happy marriage is a woman's permanent harbor. Many girls work outside when they are young, young as flowers and pure as jade. After many years in the city, it is impossible to meet many charming boys without being tempted. Young and ignorant, more eager for love, a person is lonely outside, and it is easy to be deceived by sweet words. But when most people get married, they choose to go back to their hometown to find an honest man, because an honest man will not cheat, will not flirt, and can live together. In fact, not only girls like a stable marriage, but also boys. Do men like girls who play around outside? He must also like an honest girl. At least he will live a down-to-earth life and not be green on his head. Therefore, men and women are the same, and they definitely like a stable marriage.

3. Honest people are easy to compromise and accommodate.

All an honest man wants is stability. They know that love is hard to come by. Therefore, they will cherish it more, and often choose to compromise and accommodate. Many honest people are incompetent. When I am old and my family is poor, it is especially difficult to find a wife, and I am often laughed at. Many honest people know that they are taking over, but because they are not good enough, they can only endure and have few choices. If they have, they will be fine. Where is the right to be picky?

My neighbor is an example. Male 35, female 30. I met her on a blind date. The woman got pregnant a few months ago and is going to get married soon. The point is that the man knows that the child is not his own. In fact, the elderly in rural areas have no jobs, are not married, and have average abilities. Poor ability won't be teased, but if you don't get a wife when you are old, you will definitely be laughed at by your neighbors, and you won't be able to lift it at home, so it's better to have a wife than to be single all the time, and some women mixed outside look normal, so it's not surprising that you can live a good life as long as you have fertility.