What are the stories and famous sayings about tolerance (more than 3)

1 When Wu Zetian was in power in the Tang Dynasty, there was a wise minister named Lou Deyi, who was cautious. Because Lou Deyi once recommended the talents of Di Renjie to Wuhou, Di Renjie became prime minister smoothly. However, Di Renjie doesn't know who recommended him as prime minister behind his back. After becoming prime minister, Di Renjie always disliked Lou's morality and often wanted to crowd him out. It was not until the marquis of Wu showed the old paper that recommended the prime minister to the emperor and told him how much Lord Loude praised him that the emperor blushed and said shyly, "I might as well be Lou!" " Therefore, he admired Lou's generosity and tolerance, and they became friends from then on.

Master Hanshan said: "Bow and crossbow strings are always broken first, and it is easy to get hurt every time you see the steel knife mouth. Right and wrong don't have to argue with each other, so why talk to each other? " In fact, Lou's generosity is well known. He and Li Zhaode go to court at the same time every day. Because of obesity, he can't help moving slowly. Li Zhaode was impatient and swore at "Tian She House" (the swearing words of the Tang Dynasty, which means rude hillbilly). Teacher Lou was not angry, but smiled and said, "Yes, the teacher's morality is not Fu. Who is Fu?"

One day, Mr. Lou's younger brother was going to Daizhou as a secretariat. Mr. Lou said to his younger brother, "I am the prime minister and you are the state shepherd." How can we avoid being jealous? " His brother replied, "If someone spits in my face in the future, I won't be angry. Just wipe it off silently." On hearing this, Teacher Lou said, "No, people spit on you. If you do it, it will go against people's wishes and only make him more angry." You have to accept it with a smile and dry your face. " This is the origin of the idiom "do it yourself". Of course, this may sound a bit exaggerated, but it's no wonder that the country is rich and the people are safe, because Wu Hou has such a virtuous minister.

There is a female pianist in Russia who is very picky at the age of 9.

Once, she traveled across the ocean to the United States to participate in a large piano competition. This competition has high specifications, many listeners and many contestants. The invited judges are all very authoritative people.

However, this 9-year-old Russian girl felt that the piano stool was not suitable as soon as she took the stage and asked for a new one. Throughout the final, 10,000 spectators quietly looked at the bold and critical girl.

At this time, if the referee shows a little dissatisfaction with the girls' delay in the competition time, it may lead to the girls' failing grades.

I didn't expect those famous judges to tolerate the girl's picky and let her change the piano stool.

Unexpectedly, the Russian girl was so successful that the audience, including the judges, couldn't help applauding her.

It can be said that the tolerance of the judges in this competition is intriguing in the history of human art.

3 Xiang Yu's death

Xiang Yu is trapped in osawa, and it is estimated that he can't escape. He said to his men: "I have fought more than 70 times since I joined the army, and all those who resisted have failed;" Where they are captured, everyone obeys them, and now there is a hegemony. But today I'm finally trapped here. This is the fault that God wants to destroy me, not the war. " So he wants to cross the Wujiang River eastward. Director Wujiang supported the boat and said to him, "Jiangdong is a small place, but it is also Fiona Fang thousands of miles away, with a population of several hundred thousand. With it, you can be called a king. May the king cross the river quickly! Now only I have a boat, and Han soldiers can't cross the river. " King Xiang said with a wry smile, "Heaven is going to destroy me. Why should I cross the river back? " ? Besides, I went west with eight thousand disciples from Jiangdong, and now I'm the only one who came back alive. Even if the villagers in Jiangdong pity me and make me king, how can I see them? Even if they don't blame me, don't I feel guilty? "So he drew his sword and committed suicide.

Tai Shi Gong said, "Xiang Yu captured the city, thinking Chu, expelled the righteous emperor and became king on his own. Instead, they complained that various governors betrayed themselves, and bring disgrace to oneself boasted about his exploits, but he was headstrong but did not imitate the ancients. People think that the cause of the emperor must be conquered by force. After five years of hard work, he finally lost his country. When you died in Dongcheng, you still didn't realize and reflect on yourself. All wet! He also said,' God damn it, it is not a crime to use soldiers.' Is it too confusing? "(The Wujiang River Ferry mentioned earlier is the general cloud and the copper bridge. They all swallowed their humiliation because of the defeat and fled across the river from here. Why can't Xiang Yu stand being a little ashamed? Let's watch Liu Bang go to the toilet to escape alone at the Hongmen banquet. What will happen? Indeed, we should believe Su Dongpo's comment that "Liu Bang won and Xiang Yu failed because of the difference between tolerance and intolerance. " )

4 forgive others and sublimate yourself.

When the Buddha was alive, there was an "Asherie" king who killed his father "Dance King" in order to seize the throne and stand on his own feet as king. Soon after, after learning of the crime of killing his father, he began to feel remorse, which led to his whole body fever and sores. After treatment, his condition has not been alleviated, but has become more and more serious. Although he was persuaded by others to ask the Buddha for repentance and rescue, he was still ashamed and unwilling to go.

Although Wang Piluo was killed by his son, he believed in Buddhism before his death and knew that his body and mind were illusory and impermanent, so he didn't have any resentment, but after knowing his son's situation, he appeared to persuade him and told him that he was a disciple of the Buddha and was willing to forgive him with compassion. Besides, the Buddha is dying. If he doesn't leave soon, he will never see the Buddha again, because only the Buddha can save him and keep him away.

Wang Piro's tolerance is really touching. He showed the true meaning of tolerance. With this rare tolerance, he not only forgave his son, but also sublimated himself!

Therefore, tolerance is not only an idea, but also an essence that can be practiced, because it is an infinitely broad "empty" essence that everyone has.

When we return to our pure self, learning to be tolerant of others means learning to be tolerant of ourselves, and giving others a chance to change is to give ourselves a broader space!

Therefore, learning to be tolerant is a process of constantly learning to surpass oneself and persist. The more tolerant you are, the more you purify yourself and make yourself more sublimated.

So, each of us; Should make a deep wish:

I hope I can tolerate all those who have slandered, envied, despised, humiliated, deceived and even hurt, killed and killed me in the past!

I am also willing to tolerate. At present, all those who slander, envy, belittle, insult, cheat, even hurt, kill and kill me!

I prefer to be tolerant. All those who slander, envy, despise, insult, cheat, even hurt, kill and kill me in the future!

May you be tolerant from generation to generation, forever.

5 tolerant song dynasty emperor

Zhao Kuangyin was born in 927, died in 976 and lived for 49 years. In 960, at the age of 34, he became emperor. On 17. Immediately, Song Taizu and Zhao Kuangyin unified China and released military power through a glass of wine, thus realizing the transition to civilian rule. The Song Dynasty paid more attention to literature than martial arts and Confucianism. It also opened the beginning that there was no minister usurping the throne after the Song Dynasty. Not only did Zhao Kuangyin not kill the active minister, it was better than Liu Xiu's. What is particularly rare and valuable is that the emperor tasted the Yaodian and sighed: "In the Yaoshun era, the crimes of the four murderers stopped at desertion. Why is the modern constitutional program secret!" Zhao Kuangyin has made laws. The law stipulates that ministers cannot be whipped in court. Don't abuse your officials. The liegeman shall not kill anything except rebellion. And established a system of speaking officials. Since then, the Song Dynasty has become the second period of academic freedom in the history of China since the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period. During this period, the emperor either allowed different opinions, or just demoted foreign officials, or dismissed them, and was not killed or persecuted by the Rightists. Song dynasty did not advocate literary inquisition, but was more tolerant of literati. Therefore, many poets and poets have written arrogant poems that have been told for generations. And the prosperity of Song Ci.

At the same time, the Song Dynasty was also the dynasty that promoted Confucianism the most. Zhao Pu, the founding prime minister of the Song Dynasty, said: Half of the Analects of Confucius ruled the world. Here, I have to say that Zhao Kuangyin was the first emperor with both achievements and morality. Compared with the world more than 1000 years ago, does the west have to go through the medieval stake to deal with different opinions? The Song Dynasty initiated by Zhao Kuangyin was really great.

Later, Song Taizong and Zhao Guangyi completed the great cause of reunifying China, but failed to recover sixteen states and defeated the Khitan after repeated wars. Therefore, the unification of the Song Dynasty cannot be compared with that of the Han and Tang Dynasties. Zhao Guangyi is very kind, caring for the people and the corporal. He has no other hobbies except reading. Many scholars have taken up their posts one after another, and they can be described as persistent English masters.

His sons, Song Zhenzong and Zhao Heng, and their descendants all followed Zhao Kuangyin's enlightened and tolerant policy and respected Confucianism. After defeating Liao, he signed a Covenant to reward the defeated with property. Its essence is: I hate war and don't want to lose my life. At this point, the Song Dynasty concentrated on cultural construction rather than military expansion. This is a historical blessing for all the people of China. Zhao Heng reigned for 23 years and appointed a number of villains in his later years.

Song Renzong Zhao Zhen, son of Song Zhenzong Zhao Heng, succeeded to the throne. Zhao Zhen likes to learn and worship Confucian classics. For the first time, Zhao Zhen put The Analects of Confucius and The Doctrine of the Mean in Mencius University together for students to learn. And opened the first four books. An envoy to North Korea once reported that North Korea's tribute was getting less and less, and asked to send troops. Renzong said: this is just the sin of the king. If we send troops now, the king may not be killed, but countless people will be killed. He is lenient in dealing with difficult cases. In history, it is said that "in the world of Renzong, the suspected prison is subordinate to the light" (Xuan "Yesterday is not a Japanese series"). He doesn't like literary inquisition and is more tolerant of literati. At that time, a scholar in Sichuan presented a poem to the magistrate of Chengdu: "Burn the broken sword door to the pavilion, and Chengdu will be dry." Isn't this blatant sedition? Chengdu magistrate tied him to the capital and handed him over to the emperor for severe punishment. But Renzong said: "This is an old scholar who is eager to be an official. He wrote a poem to vent his anger. How will he be punished? It is better to give him an official. " He was awarded to join the army as a flight attendant (ditto). Injong reigned for 42 years and died with an obituary to Liao. "People on the Yan border, no matter how far away, will cry." Even Lu Ye Hongji, the emperor of Liao, held the hand of the messenger and lamented, "I didn't know about the military revolution for 42 years." ("Shao Hearing Record") is really a veritable "Renzong". Zhao Zhen of Song Renzong is one of the most outstanding monarchs in a generation of virtues.

Tolerance creates the beauty of life.

Rousseau, a French writer, fell in love with Miss De Filsson, who was just 11years older than him, and was deeply attracted by her unique purity and beauty of mature girls, and De Filsson seemed to like Rousseau. So, the two fell in love with a bang.

But Rousseau soon discovered that what De Fei Sen did was just to arouse the envy of another man she secretly loved, and in her words, "just to cover up some other business activities". Rousseau's precocious and sensitive heart was greatly hurt, and he vowed never to see this woman playing with other people's feelings again.

Twenty years later, Rousseau, who was already a minor celebrity, returned to his hometown. On the sparkling lake, he saw De Philson sitting in another boat. She was dressed simply, gaunt and dull, and completely lost her former style. If you are a petty person, he will definitely come up and reminisce with her, making her regret and shame. What a good chance for revenge! Even if you just say hello in the past, it is also a good demonstration for the extremely proud Defelson. But Rousseau quietly rowed the boat away. He thinks it is meaningless to settle old scores with a woman in her forties.

Rousseau is a happy man. He is relaxed because of tolerance and happy because of relaxation. Tolerance is a dexterous hand that can untie the knot of hurt.

7 "Evergreen Tree" in Politics —— Canadian Prime Minister Chretien (Excerpt)

Born into a civilian family, Canadian Prime Minister Jean? Jean chretien is ugly and deaf, and he can't even speak English well, but such a small person can rise to the top in politics, and he has ascended the throne of the Prime Minister three times, becoming an "evergreen tree" in Canadian politics. His experience really corresponds to a sentence by China: "All that glitters is not gold, and the sea can't compare with it."

Chretien's success also lies in not making enemies, being helpful, and having the mind of "a prime minister can punt in his stomach" 1993, the Conservative Party suffered a crushing defeat in the general election, and Campbell, the chairman of the Conservative Party who lost the prime minister's throne, was forced to resign as party chairman. The victorious Premier Chretien allocated an office and a secretary to her former opponent who lost asylum, so that she could arrange documents calmly. A year later, Chretien prepared two positions for the unemployed Campbell-ambassador to Russia or consul general in Luo, and Campbell chose the latter-a job with an annual salary of 6.5438+0.2 million Canadian dollars and ministerial treatment. In this way, Chretien turned his old enemy into a friend with his extraordinary tolerance.

Picasso didn't care about fake paintings pretending to be his works, and he never investigated them. When he saw a fake painting, he just obliterated the forged signature at most. "Why should I make a mountain out of a molehill? Picasso said. Fake paintings are not poor painters or old friends. I'm Spanish. I can't embarrass my old friends. Moreover, those experts who identify the original work also want to eat, and I have not suffered. "

Forgiveness is waiting on the other side of the bridge

Hemingway described a father and son living in Spain in his short story The Capital of the World. After a series of events, their relationship became extremely tense. The boy chose to leave home. Father looked for him anxiously.

When I couldn't find it anywhere, my father published "Looking for You" in the Madrid newspaper. The son's name is Paco, which is a very common name in Spain. "Looking for You" wrote: "Dear Paco, dad will wait for you in front of Madrid Daily tomorrow. Let bygones be bygones. I love you. " Hemingway then showed the reader an amazing scene. At noon the next day, more than 800 "Parks" waiting for forgiveness came to the door of the newspaper.

There are countless people in the world waiting for forgiveness. The beneficiaries of forgiveness are not only the forgiven, but also as many people as possible-those who forgive them. Forgiveness is a bridge that keeps us away from pain, heartbreak, despair, anger and injury. At the other end of the bridge, peace, joy and peace are waiting for us.

At 10, Liu serves left and Dai Zhide serves right. Everyone respects Liu and despises Dai Zhide. At that time, an old woman submitted a statement, and Dai Zhide was about to write an explanation. The old woman asked the people around her, was this taken by Liu Pu or Dai Fu? The subordinate told her that it was the servant who shot. The old woman hurried forward and said, "This is a servant's business. Give me back the complaint. " Dai Zhide smiled and asked people to return the complaint to her. During his tenure, Dai Zhide had no obvious political achievements. In front of the emperor and his colleagues, he was also not good at words. After his death, Tang Gaozong regretted it. He said, "I haven't heard any opinions since I lost Dai Zhide. When he was there, I was wrong and never let go. " Emperor Gaozong took out the memorial of Dai Zhide Chen Shi and had a box full of it. Emperor Gaozong wept while watching, and everyone knew that Dai Zhide was such a respectable person. Taiping guangji

1 1 Dai Taizong-Zhenguan's achievements will last forever.

Emperor Taizong reigned for twenty-three years. Although his dominant position in China was far inferior to that of Kangxi and Qianlong in Qing Dynasty, his achievements were the most outstanding in history. Thanks to his efforts, the Tang Dynasty was in a leading position in world politics, economy and culture at that time. The politics and economy of ancient Japanese society are almost copies of the Tang Dynasty. Up to now, the central provinces of Japan (equivalent to the ministries of China) originated from the three-province system in the Tang Dynasty. Therefore, later generations used "the rule of Zhenguan" to express their affirmation of Tang Taizong's political achievements, as well as their admiration and yearning for the peaceful and prosperous times in Zhenguan period.