Before entering the park, if children have these three abilities, they will not suffer, and parents will feel more at ease.

When children reach the age of 3-4, they need to enter the kindergarten to live with them, which is very beneficial to their growth.

However, some parents don't know if their children can adapt and dare not send their children to kindergarten rashly. Some children have no adaptability after entering the park and have to give up halfway.

In fact, children need to make some preparations before going to kindergarten, otherwise even if they enter kindergarten, the situation is not optimistic.

Ma Bao Yang Yang intends to return to work in the near future and wants to send her children to kindergarten as soon as possible.

It happens that my cousin is a kindergarten teacher. She deals with children every day. After listening to her cousin's plan, she shook her head again and again: "Don't be busy with work. I don't think the child is suitable for kindergarten yet, because he still lacks several abilities and doesn't make corresponding preparations, otherwise he will suffer. "

Cousin also said: there is a boy in kindergarten, 5 years old, who looks taller than his peers. As a result, his self-care ability is poor. Not only can't tie his shoelaces, but he eats slowly and cries at every little thing, so he is often laughed at by other children and looks isolated. Because it has been difficult to integrate into the collective life, the garden has no choice but to suggest that it temporarily withdraw from the park.

My cousin's clear analysis made Yang Yang feel enlightened.

First, have basic self-care ability.

After children leave their full-time parents to take care of them and enter kindergarten, a teacher often has to take care of more than 10 children, or even more. It is inevitable that there will be poor care.

This requires children to have basic self-care ability, such as eating by themselves, going to the toilet by themselves, dressing by themselves and tying their shoes by themselves.

If these little things need the teacher's help, the teacher may not be able to cope with them at all, which is also unrealistic. If you can't finish it independently for a long time, it will not only affect the arrangement of the whole class, but also be isolated and discriminated against by your classmates, and your children will not be happy.

Therefore, before children enter the park, they should be guided to learn to wear clothes, carry schoolbags, tie buttons and tie shoelaces in their usual play, and master the necessary knowledge of life to prepare for adapting to the new life as soon as possible after entering the park.

Second, have the ability to take a conscious nap.

When sleeping at home, some children need their mothers to coax them to sleep, and they don't have the habit of taking a nap independently, so they will be very uncomfortable when they arrive at kindergarten.

This is because there are so many children in kindergarten that it is impossible for teachers to put every child to sleep. Once they don't have the ability to take a nap consciously, it will affect the rest of other children.

In the long run, it will cause resentment from other parents and teachers. Therefore, before sending children to the park, parents should let their children develop the habit of taking a conscious nap, which is also the requirement of most kindergartens for their children.

Third, have the ability to control their emotions.

Many children have been spoiled by their parents since childhood and have developed the habit of being spoiled and willful. They have a bad temper, even if it is a trivial matter, they will have an emotional outburst and even fight with other children.

Although the situation of some children is not very serious, they will cry when they encounter problems and difficulties and clamor for their parents to accompany them.

These are all manifestations of lack of self-control. Without this ability, it is not only difficult to make friends, but also isolated by other children, which leads to a vicious circle and makes it more difficult to adapt to kindergarten life.

Therefore, parents should guide their children to do emotional management, give advice to their children from the aspects of speaking well and not losing their temper, and help them establish a correct understanding.

Children can be properly encouraged when they behave well, and criticized in time when they behave badly, so that they can gradually form self-control ability.

Letting school-age children go to kindergarten can help them form the habit of collective life from an early age and adapt to the life in primary and secondary schools in the future.

But before entering the park, it depends on whether the child has the above three abilities. If not, it is necessary to train and exercise as soon as possible, make necessary preparations, let the children suffer less, and parents can rest assured to work.