"Do You Know" The Misunderstood Young Master Qi Heng: Is it his fault for abandoning Minglan?

01 Who is the most misunderstood character in "Do You Know"? If you ask me, it must be Young Master Qi Heng.

The young father-in-law married the county lord and failed Minglan's passionate love. Many people scolded him for being cowardly, selfish and irresponsible.

He should do what Gu Er said, kidnap King Yong, or kidnap the county owner, use violence to fight violence, prefer death to surrender, and marry Minglan.

You may really be able to be with Minglan by doing this, but have you ever thought about the consequences?

The young master was right not to do this.

Actually, I didn’t understand the young father-in-law at first. I thought he was a mama’s boy and not worthy of Minglan’s liking at all.

But I gradually understood that abandoning Minglan was not his fault at all.

Strictly speaking, it is not considered abandonment.

It’s just that he chose to save his family and Minglan.

What really forced him to give up was that King Yong kidnapped his father Qi Guogong in the name of drinking tea. His mother was so anxious that she went to the Queen to beg him, but it was of no avail.

The young master had no choice but to go to Prince Yong’s Mansion for a showdown in person and threaten him with death. Prince Yong’s Mansion’s condition was that he sign a marriage document, thus condemning his love affair with Minglan to death.

Minglan was heartbroken and her eyes were red from crying.

Of course I feel sorry for Minglan, but does the young master have any other choice?

Does he really want to sacrifice his family and the entire Sheng family to fulfill his love with Minglan?

Taizui is really too selfish.

Who is King Yong? One person is inferior to ten thousand people, covering the sky with one hand. He is the most powerful person in the entire Tokyo city. There is nothing he cannot do.

At first, a girl from another family fell in love with the young father-in-law, but King Yong kidnapped her directly, causing the girl to hang herself.

I’m afraid it was not just a simple kidnapping, but also an insult to her. Otherwise, how could she have reached a dead end?

It is conceivable that if the young master goes against King Yong, can he really afford the price?

Prince Yong’s wife has already said that if the young master does not marry the county lord, she will not only destroy the Qi family, but also the Sheng family.

I believe that she is not just talking nonsense, she must mean what she says, and she can do it without leakage.

Even if the young master succeeded in fighting violence with violence and Prince Yong had no contact with his family again, would his family still be able to gain a foothold in Tokyo City? How would those powerful families view it?

If the young father-in-law is just the son of an ordinary family, that’s okay. At most, he will break up with his parents, and over time it will be fine.

But the young master is responsible for the entire family. Do you want him to block the lives of everyone in the family?

My young father-in-law can’t do it, and you and I can’t do it either.

02 Looking at it from another perspective, if Minglan really marries the young father-in-law, will she be happy? Minglan was a concubine, and the Sheng family was only a fifth-rank official. In any case, she was superior to the Qi family.

The young father-in-law’s mother is extremely strong and can even beat to death the close associates around him.

Minglan is indeed very smart, but can she really get a position in the Qi family?

My young father-in-law loves Minglan, but love is not a talisman, especially in a big family. If you are not recognized by your parents-in-law, the relationship between you and your husband will easily go into trouble over time.

Minglan has not had a mother since she was a child. What she longs for is a warm family. The love of her young father-in-law is very warm, but his family is very cold.

In those days, unlike now, you could move out if you couldn't get along with your in-laws. You had to serve your in-laws and husband.

In an era when the status of women is not high, why should Minglan jump into the fire pit?

However, Minglan did decide to go forward and retreat with her young father-in-law, but she also knew very well that this road was extremely dangerous and the possibility of success was low.

Actually, Minglan had known for a long time that there would be no results with the young father-in-law. It was just that who could not love such a beautiful young father-in-law.

In fact, Minglan and the young father-in-law are not suitable at all. Although they are both very good people, they may not be a good match as a couple.

It is not because of the difference in family background between the two, but because of the huge difference in their growing environment. Think about it, how did Minglan and the young father-in-law grow up?

Minglan has lost her mother since she was a child, and has only her grandmother to rely on in the Sheng family. In order to protect herself, she is careful at all times, keeping her voice low, and neither fighting nor grabbing. It can be said that Minglan understands the difficulties of life better than anyone else.

Surviving in the cracks, who knows the pain in Minglan’s heart.

The young father-in-law likes Minglan, perhaps because of her softness and well-behavedness. But, does he really understand Minglan? Even if you understand it, you may not be able to understand it.

The young father-in-law is the only child of the Qi family. He has been held in the palm of his hand since he was a child. He has enough food and clothing, and has everything he wants. How can a person who grew up in a privileged environment understand the pain of those struggling at the bottom?

Of course that’s not to say that the young father-in-law is not good. He is very kind and gentle, but he may not really understand Minglan.

Why can Gu Tingye and Minglan be happy together? Because their growth experiences are similar. They lost their mother when they were young, grew up alone, and matured and became independent prematurely.

In addition, both of them have seen each other's most painful side, and they are the ones who understand each other best.

No matter how you say it, it is destined that there will be no result between the young master and Minglan, and even if there is a result, it may not be a satisfactory one.

03 Is the young father-in-law really an irresponsible person?

Actually no, his mother disagreed with Minglan, and he also fought against it.

Even when his mother said that she must marry the county boss, he said that he could commit suicide.

Why commit suicide? Even if he dies, he must preserve the purity of his love with Minglan.

You said that a man would rather die for you. Isn’t this kind of love moving enough? The final compromise, let alone cowardice, I think is responsible.

Do not sacrifice the interests of the entire family for your own selfish interests.

In fact, the most painful thing is that the young father-in-law has to spend his life with a woman he does not love. But this kind of pain, he broke his teeth and swallowed it in his stomach. The love between children is a small love, but the preservation of the family is a great love.

What’s the use of love if you’re not even alive.

The young master is still a man with big ambitions. After a complete showdown with King Yong, he said in despair: "The kingdom of my country is going to fall into the hands of people like you."

Even if he is forced into a desperate situation, what he thinks of is not his own selfishness, but the country and the country.

Yes, he even considers not only the official family and the court, but also the morality and justice of the world and the people of the world.

He used to be an idealist, but this time, his ideals were completely shattered. In that general environment, you really can't blame him for not fighting. Personal power seems too small in the face of power.

Even your life may be like an ant. The young father-in-law is not like most of us. We are passionate and full of expectations, but reality crushes your dreams again and again.

You don’t want to compromise, but in order to live, you have to compromise. This is the most helpless thing. Since we can't change it, why bother letting the young man fight?