Fu Hancheng and Lao Liu are also divorced. This seemingly happy couple, what are the pain points of marriage?

Goodbye Lover 3 is very popular these days. Unexpectedly, Fu Seoul, a famous emotional blogger, and Lao Liu divorced. They used to be a couple who received much attention. The news of their divorce instantly attracted widespread attention on the Internet. However, it was Lao Liu who finally filed for divorce, which was embarrassing.

Let me introduce this Fu Hancheng and Lao Liu first.

It should be said that "Wonderful Congress" has made 20 17 rich Seoul a married woman. With her marriage experience and understanding, married and unmarried people have different understandings of marriage. Fu Seoul's jokes are either her son or Lao Liu. It can be said that Lao Liu and his son became famous with her.

Fu Seoul, who came out of Wonderful Congress, took part in various variety shows with her jokes and sharpness. The content is still inseparable from Lao Liu and her son. It can be said that her career has made a qualitative leap. It can be said that everyone is envious of her marriage. Once she took Lao Liu to a variety show, during which she could see the kind of love transmission and interaction between two people.

I didn't expect this "Goodbye Lovers 3" to be really a different situation.

Fu Seoul, who taught us to wake up in the world, is divorced and divorced. With the rapid development of their careers, they moved from Hefei to Shanghai. Fu Seoul thought that when he arrived in Shanghai, the fast-paced life could earn more benefits and income for his small family and let Lao Liu and his children enjoy better living conditions. Unexpectedly, because his wife is too busy, Lao Liu goes home every day with nothing to do, creating a gap and wanting a divorce.

However, in fact, for Lao Liu, eating soft rice is not terrible. I'm afraid my partner will never catch up with him. In the program, Fu Seoul has been asking Lao Liu the real reason for wanting a divorce. Lao Liu asked Fu Seoul, "Do you regret marrying yourself after these years?" Fu Hancheng's hesitation made Lao Liu feel inferior.

Lao Liu said that his divorce was not entirely because of Fu Hancheng, but more because of his dissatisfaction with himself. And the determination to pursue change, he is eager to have time to pursue his dreams and do what he likes.

What are the marriage pain points of this stamp?

1. The marriage of a stay-at-home father or a stay-at-home mother is prone to conflicts.

The question raised by Lao Liu is actually a problem that every housewife and full-time wife is experiencing at present. They pick up and drop off their children every day, and their lives are very closed and there is no social interaction. What Lao Liu said is basically the feeling of every treasure mother, not only can't find a sense of security, but also has no sense of existence and value.

Lao Liu thinks there are serious problems in communication between them. If there is no smooth communication between husband and wife, there will be a fierce quarrel over trivial matters.

2. There are obvious differences in the pace of their career and life, which leads to a sense of distance.

As the gap between two people grows, the pressure that two people may feel will grow. In fact, whether it is a star or an ordinary person, the frequency of * * * between husband and wife is really too important. When the rhythm of one party can't keep up with the other, there will be a sense of gap, which has nothing to do with men and women.

Marriage is like drinking water, you know it very well.

Fu Seoul's analysis of Lao Liu's fragment is suffocating. "As a well-known emotional blogger, I am well aware of my own problems, but I can't solve them. I don't know how to solve them. " We can often analyze other people's emotions and even give advice to others, but we are "doctors don't treat themselves". In fact, feelings and marriage are not as simple as "because of science", and the combination of two good people is not necessarily a good marriage.

Here is a detail I want to mention:

Lao Liu feels that he has no sense of value. In this marriage, he didn't feel needed. Cleaning the house, buying food and cooking, sending children to school and tutoring them are all worthless in the eyes of men. No wonder so many housewives are engaged in such jobs at home, which are not recognized by men and our society, especially the law.

Through Fu Seoul's marriage, we should realize that there should be more men today with the continuous development of society and the continuous growth of women. Male thinking in mainstream society should catch up with marriage and family education as soon as possible and keep up with the pace of growth. It's not just women who are constantly trying to grow up. Nowadays, men can only live in the subconscious, and those old-fashioned marriage relationships are probably the reason why too many families have disintegrated.