The girl WeChat said that she was not feeling well.

Wechat girl's high emotional intelligence replied that she was unwell.

I. Companionship and comfort

Many times, my boyfriend and I complain about physical discomfort and don't expect any advice. I just need to know what I'm saying when he listens, and don't skip the topic of physical discomfort and continue talking about him. Seeing a doctor when you are sick is not seeing your boyfriend. It is to complain to your boyfriend about what you expect when you feel that someone is with you, instead of stopping the pain immediately. Therefore, when a girl is sick, it is good to accompany her silently.

Second, practical nursing method.

1. If you know why a girl is uncomfortable and you can help her relieve the uncomfortable symptoms, then you can also give her some practical suggestions (besides drinking more hot water). If you are close, you can buy her painkillers or something. When you arrive, say "open the door" to her and it will be perfect. Remember, don't reason with girls. What do you mean, don't eat ice or stay up late at night? You don't believe ... Barabara. Even if a girl has a stomachache, it's best to suggest ways to nourish her stomach when she doesn't have a stomachache, otherwise it's easy to jump into the street.

Third, psychological care.

In fact, the girl knows very well that when she tells you that she is uncomfortable, you can't help her solve this terrible uncomfortable state. The reason why she told you that it was uncomfortable to know that the result was useless was to get your psychological comfort and concern. So we should care about her psychologically.

1. You can say, "Well, if you are uncomfortable, I can't help you. I wish I were a doctor. "

I can't help you solve your physical discomfort, but I am willing to help you relieve it (this applies to the discomfort you can bear).

In fact, to tell the truth, if you say "then I'll take you to the hospital", generally speaking, girls will refuse to go to the hospital if they are not uncomfortable for a while, but why should I tell you that they are uncomfortable? The girl's answer is of course to get your attention.

Fourth, divert attention.

If you are really not good at telling girls what you care about, you can also use distracting methods, such as: "You are so upset, why don't I tell you some jokes to distract your attention, so it won't hurt so much." Then you can collect jokes and tell them to her. ...

When a girl says she is unwell, it actually reflects her dependence on you. At this time, boys have to behave well. As long as they behave well, your relationship is unnatural and they will naturally be together.