"Don't be silly, your efforts and efforts are just worthless in his eyes. Don't be persistent, forget it.

Are you talking about feelings? If so, life is like an endless sea, and man is a boat on the vast sea. The sea is not calm, and there are always joys and sorrows in life. In the face of setbacks and failures in life, in the face of all kinds of disappointments in life, we should learn to give up and give up those meaningless pursuits in life. Learning to give up means knowing how to have it. Life sometimes needs to pursue and pursue dreams, but at the same time, life sometimes needs to learn to give up, give up meaningless efforts and fruitless pursuits. It is a spirit to persist in ideals and be brave in pursuit; Dare to give up, learn to give up is a realm. When your persistent pursuit is fruitless, when your efforts are futile, you should learn to give up, give up meaningless pursuit and futile efforts. Perhaps, life is different from now on, and life is more exciting from now on. A philosopher once said, "Life is like climbing a mountain. The definition of success is not only reaching the top, but perhaps the success of life lies in enjoying the scenery on the mountainside." Learn to give up on the bumpy road of life. When you are at a loss, learn to give up. Success is not only reaching the top of the mountain, but also the scenery on the roadside is beautiful and wonderful. Learn to appreciate another kind of beauty in life when you give up. Learning to give up doesn't mean quitting without principles and conditions. The world is colorful because of pleasant pursuit. Give up when it's time to give up, and persist when it's time to persist. Blindly retreating and compromising is not really giving up, but a sign of cowardice. Learning to give up means knowing how to have and know your true strength. Learning to give up means retiring from what you are not good at and focusing on what you are good at. Only by taking and giving can we adapt to a successful life. Is to learn to give up and let Levin Hooke discover the microbial world; Learn to give up, let Mr. Lu Xun abandon medicine and join the army and become the spiritual backbone of the Chinese nation; Roentgen discovered X-rays and shook the classical soft science system, which is learning to give up. Learn to give up, give up your weaknesses, and let your strengths and advantages come into play. On the road to success, learning to give up is both a booster and a catalyst. In the voyage of life, learn to give up guiding you out of the fog like a lighthouse to success, and learn to give up guiding you out of the desert of life like a morning star to an oasis! Learn to give up and win a wonderful life! There are two kinds of personalities in my mind. One is to ask me to continue to be patient, persist and persist. But now another character is eager for a wonderful life, eager and reckless. These two views often conflict. I think I will have mental problems if I go on like this. I always feel that responsibility is greater than everything. I always try my best to do everything I want to do, even if it is a small thing I want to do in my heart. If I don't do it or I don't do it perfectly, I will feel uncomfortable and have a thorn in my heart, which will make me very tired. I know that I can have a happy life by learning to choose myself, but I know that it is not enough to know how to choose, and I also need to know how to give up, because most of the time, knowing how to give up can make me get more. How to learn to give up, how to learn to give up without any bad feelings in my heart? If it is love, please choose the person you love the most. If it's a career, you can only say sorry. If it's a career, 1: Don't be greedy, take it step by step. 2. Sometimes don't be too anxious. Perhaps this will be the most difficult obstacle for you to overcome. You should have a normal mind, because a normal mind can help you see everything clearly. If it is life, there is only one sentence to warn you, that is: no matter what you choose, you have a choice. No one can live a smooth life. This life is destined to be one. If you choose to give up, don't think about it First of all, you should remember that you are not perfect, that is, you can't be extreme in everything. You must know yourself. But everything has its disadvantages. As you said, you often make yourself very tired. First, when dealing with anything, we must first remember whether it is beneficial to ourselves, just as doing too many meaningless things is also a waste of our spirit. You have to consider which way to deal with the best effect and achieve the best efficiency (remember that it is not perfect! ), it would be better if you could get twice the result with half the effort. Remember that it is useless to do too many meaningless things, and wasting your spirit is also an annoyance. Second, some things, such as your second personality, may have unexpected surprise effects, such as things you have never done or even touched, but you have the confidence to do and try! Then you have to think about what will happen if it fails (if there is not too much loss), and then try your best to fight. On the one hand, you can get what you want, on the other hand, you can do what you should do. I think this is human nature. What you should cherish is often what you have now, but it is often ignored by us. When you lose it, you will feel sad and sad. But then we can't get it back. Because time has turned them into the past, we have so much sadness! What we should give up may not belong to us from beginning to end, but what we can't get in our eyes is what we try our best to get, but in the end we understand that what we have been pursuing is not our own, so we are very hurt and helpless to give up! Many people are injured to cherish and give up, but only when they are injured can they learn to give up what they know. So how to cherish and give up depends on whether we care about the people around us who love us and whether they know how to let go of the so-called unattainable shackles and let them love themselves. In fact, we all know it, and only we know it in our hearts, but in the dead of night, we still ask ourselves whether to cherish what we are looking for or give up what we are pursuing. If you are persistent, don't be afraid to give up something or someone. However, as long as you work hard, there will be no bad feelings in your heart, and you will not regret it. In everyone's inner world, there will be two shadows, one is decent and the other is negative. They will disturb your thoughts, so you will hesitate and overcome everything with your own beliefs. I see. Some things can't be done even if you want to give up. If giving up is so easy, what should you do? People's joys and sorrows, ups and downs, are all feelings of life. Don't be too persistent. A happy life does not mean that everything is perfect. How can people do that? Happiness contains many things, including those abandoned memories. Being too persistent will only make things worse. Enough is enough. Since there is no hope, why bother? There is not an old saying, don't hang yourself from a tree. You still have a lot to deal with. Only by letting go of hopelessness can we have the energy to devote ourselves to the next goal in life. Giving up is easier said than done. Only those who have experienced countless hardships in life can see that all love is right or wrong. If you think it is wrong to love someone you love, is it true that you love them? Will you love him/her while thinking about this question? Even if others think it is a mistake for you to love him/her, you should first think about why you loved him/her in the first place. Since you have done it, don't give up easily, because you really love him/her, and love itself is selfish, and the injury is inevitable. If you can't stand these injuries, don't say love. If you are at odds with him/her for various reasons, don't get angry for the time being. It is a mistake for you to love him/her because you hurt him/her. There is no right or wrong in love. As long as you love seriously, you will love with your heart. Only those who have been hurt emotionally know how to give up. In fact, there are many things that you won't know until you have experienced them. Only when your feelings are painful will you know how to protect yourself. Only when you are stupid will you know how to persist and give up in time. In fact, we don't need to get to know ourselves slowly in the gains and losses. Learning to give up will make life easier; Learn to give up, turn around and leave before crying, leaving a simple figure; Learn to give up and bury yesterday in your heart; Leave good memories; Learn to give up, so that we can have a more relaxed start. Black and blue love is not necessarily unforgettable. It is not easy to come over with deep feelings. Gently pull out your hand and say goodbye, so you don't have to hurt yourself again. Every gratitude is beautiful, and every companionship is charming. Too bad we can't have it. Will missing make us miss it more? There is no answer in the questionnaire. Hard pursuit does not make life more complete. Maybe a little bit of confusion and sadness will make this answer sheet longer. Pack up your mood and go. If you miss the flowers, you will reap the rain. Who says you must have something you like? Sometimes, some people go to extremes to get what they want. Maybe he understood. Actually, if you like something, you don't have to have it. Sometimes you are exhausted in pursuit of it. Is this not cost-effective? Moreover, some things are only seen from a distance, and you can't observe them at close range. Although you get them, once you have them, you will know their value. Therefore, what you get is not necessarily the best, and what you give up is not necessarily the worst. There is a song that unrequited love is also very happy, at least not without choice. No matter whose heart you are, I will not be frustrated, just want to be a quiet passerby. Therefore, no matter what you like or who you like, it is better to give up and face it easily than to increase the burden on yourself. If you like something, you must learn to appreciate it, cherish it and make it more precious. If you like someone, you must make her happy, make her happy and make that relationship more sincere. If not, let go and learn to give up, because giving up is also a kind of beauty. Only after experiencing everything can we give up a lot of things, and we always know that after experiencing it, the gains and losses are not something we can decide. Like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up at the right time. Many times, we feel that earth-shattering love is just a joke in the eyes of others. Remember this, never love someone who doesn't love you. People who don't love you, no matter how much you sacrifice for TA, TA will only show sympathy at most, and may be a little sorry, but it will never be love, which is unfair. Perhaps love is an unreasonable game, and the person who is loved can always control the power of life and death of love, even if he is arrogant and lawless, he is tolerated and spoiled. In this world, if you don't love TA, TA will love you, and if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you, you are doomed to be the only one who gets hurt. . . . If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to wander in front of it, otherwise you will never wake up after hitting the wall. You should learn to give up, and then turn around and look for a skylight that is open for you, where you can also see the stars all over the sky. . . . Love a person, to understand, but also understand; To apologize, but also to thank; Admit mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate; Is to accept, not to bear; It is tolerance, not connivance; It is support, not domination; It is to talk, not to blame; It is unforgettable, not forgotten; Communicate with each other, not explain everything; Pray for each other silently, instead of making many demands on each other; Be romantic, but don't waste it; You can hold hands at any time, but don't let go of loving someone until eight points is just right, and the remaining two points should be used to love yourself. Women, don't touch love with tears, don't love without dignity, that's not love. Love a person for a long time. We can love a person a little longer than his life. But you can't love someone longer than your life. What is love in .................? Love has a wide meaning, which can be friendship, affection, love ... among them, perhaps people are most interested in love. Then I might as well talk about love. Love is the most beautiful and good word, and many people are struggling to pursue it. Sometimes people regard love as more important than life. But what is love? How many people really have eternal love? How many people have been looking for it all their lives? Love may be the feeling of love at first sight, love may be the feeling of mutual commitment, love may be life and death and * * * … Love is an endless topic. When you have love for someone, your heart is full of fear and anxiety. You don't know how the other person feels. You should hide your feelings, because you are a reserved person. Maybe your first love is the shadow in your heart. You dress him in dream clothes. You are intoxicated with the illusion of dreams and don't want to wake up. You have been wandering for a long time. When you know each other's feelings, everything is gone, because you have come out of his shadow, his coat is no longer gorgeous, the love you embrace has lost its luster, and your life is full of gray. When I have no experience of loving others, I think, "loving others is a kind of enjoyment." When I am loved, I think, "Being loved is a kind of happiness!" " But whether you love or be loved, it is so sad, because the human heart is always so unpredictable, and the desire is always something that can only be passed on by her. Nothing can go deep into her heart. Just like a decadent and gloomy flower, it has a desperate attitude but looks up with its true face, smiling at all the disabilities and humiliation. Dark green without tears. Such a flower that blooms in the dark forever, who doesn't believe in tears, is doomed to be lonely all his life. Often in a crowded sea of people, I feel that the extensions, sounds and smells of many strangers are chaotic and noisy. And calm down to see, listen, and find it difficult to fill in. There is love and being loved, and there is a struggle in the emotional whirlpool. With love and being loved, the emotional world will be revised. Love and being loved took the wrong train, love and being loved are indissoluble, love and being loved are limited, and love and being loved are helpless ... The vast land is different for a person who is disappointed with the world and has no love in his heart. Walking on the road forever, all love will suddenly find nothing here. Empty and silent. There are many people who have no souls. Ordinary life has no purpose, I don't know why I live and I never think about what I live for. There may be more and more such people in this world. He has been looking for someone who feels the same as him (her). Even if it is far away, even if it is crowded, you may feel that kind of blank loneliness, and then know that the same kind as yourself is not far away, and feel each other with him. ................... used to be a man who couldn't let go of the past. Keeping her in your heart is an important part of your life. Also, knowing how to love yourself can better handle problems. Don't be too persistent ~ it's hard to get lost if you give up. Many things are forced, but you must be restrained and persist. Sometimes giving up is not a bad thing. There is nothing wrong with persistence. If you really think, do you just want to give up your sincere good friends? A friend who really cares? In everyone's life, it is difficult to meet a few friends who really know themselves. Do you want to give up so easily? I never want to give up my friends, but losing friends is what I have experienced the most. Don't always think about how to give up friends, think about how not to lose friends, how to cherish good friends, and how not to regret! At that time, the light was gone, and you didn't want to give up and there was nothing you could do, so please think about it. Don't give up your friends easily. It's hard to make friends first! There is no need to be persistent, just let nature take its course. Some things are like sand. You can only get a little if you clench your fist, but if you let go, you will get more! In fact, you have realized your own problems, just to see if you can let go. . . . . . It's hard and easy to give up, depending on your mentality. There is nothing wrong with adjusting your mentality and pursuing details! Because such people will make progress! However, blind persistence is actually telling you to stand still! Think about what you said and know how to give up! Giving up is actually not a sign of cowardice, but a person who knows how to think and how to be flexible. It is irrational to work hard when you know what you can't do! Because people will say narrow-minded! I don't see where you should work hard! ! So the two personalities you are talking about are actually complementary! When can I use them reasonably in my life! Then I think you will be a person who knows life. Let time fade away those who should or should not. Time is a good thing, believe it! Everything is different from your choice and giving up.