Father left his house and money to his stepmother, but her stepmother asked me for a pension. Should I give it?

From June 5438 to October 2008 10, my mother finally lost to the torture of lung cancer and left this world.

Two months after my mother died of illness, my father brought Chen Yi to my brother and me and said that he would marry Chen Yi.

Aunt Chen used to be the nanny of a friend of my father's. She is younger than my father 18 years old and has no pension. Her husband died of illness, leaving a daughter in junior high school.

My mother was a prestigious middle school teacher before her death, and my father was a loving couple envied by relatives and friends. Even if my mother died of illness, my father would not give up. I didn't expect her father to find a new lover soon after her death, so his years of love with her mother was no joke.

Besides, my father is a businessman, and he is usually frugal. He has some money on hand. My brother and I both think that Chen Yi has a crush on his money, so even if he remarries, he should find a woman with a refreshing family background, so that he won't have to spend money to support children in Chen Yi when he is old.

Therefore, neither my brother nor I can accept my father's remarriage. I hope my father can wait a year to get to know Rola Chen better and then consider remarriage.

My father said to my brother and me, "Aunt Chen is very kind and diligent, which suits me very well. Don't worry about me, I know it! "

Father insisted on remarriage with Chen Yi.

My brother is very angry. He doesn't want to visit his father again.

I was angry, too. After calming down, I thought: My brother and I are usually very busy, and we only have time to spend with our father on holidays. It is not a bad thing for father to have a companion to accompany and take care of him.

However, my heart is still very heavy, thinking that my father is too fickle to my mother. Therefore, after my father remarried, I didn't visit my father very much. I just called to say hello once in a while, and my feelings for my father suddenly alienated.

02

Two months after my father remarried, it was New Year's Day in 2009.

New Year's Day, I think it's already New Year's Day. I haven't visited my father for some time, so I brought some gifts to visit my father.

Father is cooking in the kitchen. He is very happy and wants to keep me for dinner.

But I am very unhappy, because my father seldom cooked before my mother died. Then when Rola Chen called her sister, she boasted that the New Year gift her father bought her was a jade bracelet worth more than 5,000 yuan. I'm even more uneasy! -before my mother died, my father never gave my mother such an expensive gift, and my mother didn't allow my father to spend it like this, and how could Rola Chen actually let my father pay these?

On the first day of the new year, I don't want to quarrel, and I don't want to see Rola Chen's seemingly enthusiastic appearance again. I sat for a while and then left.

I came home, sulking, until about eight o'clock in the evening. I watched cartoons with my daughter, and my mood eased, but suddenly I got a call from Chen Yi, saying that my father was unconscious after falling in the shower and was being rescued in the hospital.

As soon as I heard this, I forgot my grievances and rushed to the hospital with my husband and daughter.

When I arrived at the hospital, my father had come out of the emergency room and was lying in a hospital bed. He can recognize me, but he can't talk or move.

The doctor said that my father had a bad fall and might be hemiplegic.

I was in a hurry and asked Chen Yi what was going on.

Rola Chen quickly repeated the process of his father's accident, his eyes wandering. Chen Yi's daughter was buried.

I vaguely felt something was wrong, so I quickly joined my husband and asked Rola Chen's father the truth about wrestling.

Chen Yi said tearfully, "My daughter and your father had a little argument. When she ran out of the house, your father chased after the stairs. My daughter was in a hurry and gave your dad a push. Your dad fell down the stairs ... "

I listened to Chen Yi's "Your Dad" and trembled with anger. If my husband hadn't stopped me, I would have hit someone!

Never thought, Chen Yi's daughter suddenly added another knife: "I'm not wrong! Your father was too old to stand still and fell down! You can't blame me ... "

I can't stand it any longer. I pushed my husband away and rushed to Chen Yi's daughter. Chen Yi slapped her twice before opening the bow and shouted, "What are you talking about?" ! Apologize to my sister quickly! "

Chen Yi's daughter cried with a "wow" and turned and ran away without an apology.

Chen Yi didn't go after her daughter either, and said to me, "Please forgive the child for not being sensible. I will take good care of your father. Don't worry! "

My anger has not subsided, and I don't believe Chen Yi's promise. I gave her a good scolding, scolding her for not being able to discipline her children, and scolding her for wanting to marry an old man nearly twenty years older than her because she was greedy for my father's house and money. ...

I vented all the insults I could think of, and didn't stop abusing Rola Chen until I saw my husband's dumbfounded eyes.

Chen Yi bowed his head in silence, didn't refute a word, just kept wiping his tears.

At that moment, I suddenly wanted to cry, but I couldn't. I prayed to my father not to be hemiplegic, otherwise my father's remarriage would really block my heart!

03

However, as the doctor said, my father is really hemiplegic.

Later, when my brother learned of the situation, he still refused to visit his father, saying it was his own fault.

And I can't let go of my father, and I'm worried that Rola Chen and her daughter will do something bad to my father, so I have to suppress my resentment against my father and visit him from time to time.

Aunt Chen's daughter has chosen to live on campus since my father's accident. I don't know why, and I don't want to ask, and I hope the child will stay away from my father.

So, every time I go to my father's house, I only see Chen Yi and my father.

Aunt Chen always looks very busy, taking care of her father while cleaning up the housework. It seems that my father's clothes are clean, his spirit is good, and his home is bright and clean.

Once, in front of me, Rola Chen dug a stool for her father with a hard stool, and then massaged her limbs. She was very calm and patient, without any disgust.

I once suspected that Chen Yi knew I was coming and deliberately created an illusion in front of me. So, I suddenly changed the date to visit my father twice, but both were the same as before.

I thought my father would stay in bed for at least a year, but after half a year, my father could talk and walk out of bed.

One day, I went to visit my father and still gave Chen Yi a cold face. My father suddenly said to me, "I can get better so quickly because of your careful care." Although her daughter is disappointing, she is very nice. Don't be prejudiced against her ... "

Kind? If my husband and I hadn't forced Rola Chen to tell the truth about her father's fall, and if I hadn't visited her father from time to time, who knows how "kind" she would be?

I don't want to hear my father's praise for Chen Yi. My resentment against my father still lingers in my heart and I don't want to argue with him. He is so stubborn that arguing will only consume my mood and time.

So I laughed evenly, waved and got up to leave, but I vaguely heard a sigh behind me.

Later, my father didn't mention this topic again, and I don't want to discuss it again.

I think: He chose the road himself, as long as he feels good, there is no need to compare my mother with Chen Yi.

04

After this robbery, although my father was able to walk and take care of himself, his health was not as good as before. In the next ten years, he suffered from three serious illnesses in succession, went in and out of the hospital many times, and gradually developed brain deficiency syndrome.

On February 25th, 20 18, 18, my father was hospitalized again. This time, the doctor said that my father might not live.

This is my father's fourth serious illness. Besides severe brain atrophy, I was also diagnosed with lung cancer like my mother.

Rola Chen has been with her father, and I have never heard her complain about her father.

To tell the truth, my brother and I were surprised and puzzled by Chen Yi's persistence.

One day, my brother said to me, "Sister, she must be nice to my dad in front of others in order to get his house and inheritance." My father's house and inheritance, we both have a share, we must look carefully, and don't let her take them all. "

Brother and mother have a good relationship, but they are as obsessed with one thing as father. He really hasn't visited his father once in ten years.

I sighed and nodded silently.

Yes, my brother and I are not saints, and when a person loses trust in his family, there may be nothing to grasp except property interests.

However, less than a week after my brother said this, my father's condition deteriorated sharply. The doctor informed me that I might not last two days and asked me to prepare for the funeral.

Finally, under my persuasion, my brother followed me to the hospital.

Aunt Chen is not in the ward. Her father's patient said she went to wash her father's urinal.

My father looks in good spirits. He personally took out a big envelope from under the pillow and gave it to me, saying it was his notarized will. The house was left to Chen Yi, and the remaining 300,000 yuan was disposed of. Chen Yi, my brother and I each had 6,543,800 yuan.

Father said slowly, "You both have houses and regular jobs, and your life is good in all aspects." . But there is no house in Rola Chen. After her daughter got married, she was alone. After I left, she had a place to cover her head, so I left with confidence. You two must never compete with her for a house. There is also a letter in it, which I spent several days writing. Ever since I was with Chen Yi, you have been unwilling to listen to me or see me. This time in the hospital, I knew I couldn't take it anymore. After thinking for a long time, I still have to write down what I want to say with a pen, and I beg you two to have a look. "

Hearing this, my brother looked at me with a black line on his face and gave Chen Yi a hard stare. I just want to say something. I patted my brother on the shoulder and realized that he shouldn't lose his temper in a hurry.

I pulled the letter out of the big envelope, buried myself in reading, and then shed tears.

Surprised, the younger brother took the letter and looked at him slumped in the chair beside his father's bed, saying nothing.

At this moment, Chen Yi came in with his father's urinal and greeted my brother and me with a friendly smile.

I wiped my tears and smiled at her. She was cold and a little at a loss. My heart was sour and I didn't say anything.

05

That night, that is, 2065438+February 25th, 2008, my father left.

When my father left in the middle of the night, only Chen Yi accompanied him. Chen Yi was in the emergency room when my brother and I got the news from the nurse. The doctor said that when his father was announced dead, Chen Yi suddenly fell to the ground.

A week later, Chen Yi was discharged from the hospital and his father's funeral was over.

I went to the hospital to pick up Rola Chen, went back to her father's house with her, showed her the real estate license, and told her that this house was left to her by my father and hers, and neither my brother nor I would rob her.

Aunt Chen cried and said, "Your father is really a good man, a good man ... When my husband was ill, your mother lived in the ward next door to him.

At that time, although you hired a nurse for your mother, your father was worried that the nurse was not doing well, and sometimes he personally gave your mother shit and urine. I was very moved when I saw it. ...

At that time, my husband suffered from leukemia and his medical insurance was not high. Some medical insurance cannot be reimbursed. I took care of him when I did odd jobs near the hospital. In order to save money for my husband, I often skip breakfast and lunch, but only have dinner.

Later, I heard other patients mention that I often skip breakfast and lunch. Your father came to me specially, gave me 2000 yuan to eat well, and also had the strength and spirit to take care of my husband. ...

Later, my husband felt that he was always dead, and he didn't want to drag my daughter and me down any more. He committed suicide ... After my husband died, I went to be a nanny, but I didn't expect that the owner of the nanny was your father's friend. ...

One day, your father visited that house and recognized me. Then I know that your mother died of illness, too. I thought a good man like your father, I must catch him. ...

I sincerely intend to spend my life with your father, but I didn't expect him to be ill. ...

Now that the house price is so high and the house is valuable, I'd better give it to you and your brother. I just need that 10 million yuan pension ... "

I cried too.

Yes, my father also said all this in that letter. The father's last sentence was: "Her daughter has problems with remarriage, so she doesn't accept me very much. I wonder if her daughter will accept her after I leave. But anyway, dad hopes you and your brother won't rob her of the house. She has taken care of me for so long, I should give her a little sense of security! "

I said to Chen Yi, "This is my dad's decision, so just accept it! My brother and I are fine! Also, whether your daughter supports you or not, I will support you in the future! "

Chen Yi cried even louder, but held my hand tightly.

This year's Spring Festival, that is, the Spring Festival on 20 19, I took Rola Chen and her daughter to my house for the Spring Festival.

My younger brother also came over and respectfully shouted "Aunt Chen". Rola Chen, who insisted on working in the kitchen, replied cheerfully. And Rola Chen's daughter sat in front of the TV, immersed in playing with her mobile phone, saying nothing.

Looking at all this, I can't help thinking that ten years is not a long time, but for a person's life, it is earth-shaking changes. In this world, how much fate, mutual help and love is needed to make the onlookers complete and understand the sunset fate in the past ten years?

Maybe in another ten years, Rola Chen's daughter will understand some human reasons after social and personnel polishing, and will gradually accept her mother's remarriage like my brother and me!