Is it normal for my boyfriend to say I look like his mother and then call me mom?

Not normal, you may be the following types of boys:

One: Ma Baonan

It usually happens to mothers of single-parent families. Without her husband's love and support, women in single-parent families usually transfer their love for their husbands to their sons, pinning their life hopes on them, and even their daughter-in-law has become her mother-in-law's biggest "enemy".

And your boyfriend treats you as a mother and a caregiver, not a girlfriend. This is the imbalance of role positioning!

Two: Oedipus complex

Oedipus complex is very attached to his mother, and his son listens to her in everything. Oedipus complex refers to a psychological tendency of people and the feeling of being with her.

Oedipus complex is not love, but more from the appreciation and admiration of mother. It is a common social phenomenon, and both boys and girls may have Oedipus complex. So your boyfriend will be very close to his mother and will call you mom.

Psychologically speaking, this is the Oedipus complex, commonly known as the Oedipus complex. Refers to a psychological tendency of people, like the feeling of being with their mothers. Oedipus complex is not love, but more from the appreciation and admiration of mother.

Freud believed that children's sexual demands were met by close heterosexual parents at the stage of sexual organ development.

"Oedipus complex" is a kind of psychological consolidation in early childhood, and it is a period when children form self-awareness and self-family status awareness on the basis of initially knowing their parents and affirming their relationship.

Because the parents of "Oedipus complex" are not our parents in the physiological sense, but psychological images, and the images of parents are all virtual images preserved in the field of consciousness after processing. This kind of virtual image always combines many advantages, has surreal perfection and sublimity, and is the idealization of realistic individuals.

With the growth of age, children will actively modify these images to meet the psychological and practical needs of different periods.

Motherly love is an unconditional behavior for children. If the mother's love for her son is too strong and the boy is used to accepting his mother's love and care, he will form a strong sense of attachment. Their adult character and temperament, attitude towards people, especially women, all show his role as a "son".

Proper training can make children and fathers live in harmony. Cultivate some masculinity. Try to find time to communicate with dad. So your boyfriend may not be too partial to Oedipus.