Even if children wear uniform school uniforms, teachers can easily distinguish "family", and the gap is obvious.

Clothes make the man, and horses depend on the saddle. They can see through the appearance and support the scene by temperament.

Although all children wear school uniforms, everyone seems to be the same. But some children look "expensive", and some children are particularly "shabby".

What's going on here?

The gap between poor children and rich children is so obvious that it is easy to distinguish them.

A class teacher said that letting children wear school uniforms is to prevent children from comparing with their families.

However, poor children at home, like rich children at home, can see the difference in family background at a glance even if they wear the same clothes, which can't deceive people at all.

For example, these three aspects are easy to see through.

Poor children use sleeves and rags to wipe their noses.

Children usually wipe their noses and have different behavior habits. Poor children come from ordinary families, and parents may be used to wiping their noses with "clothes sleeves", and children have learned this method.

Parents of poor children may also prepare some rags to wipe their noses, which can save toilet paper.

Rich children at home may wipe their noses with toilet paper, form a good habit, put them in small bags and throw them into the trash can.

Poor children sometimes go to school without socks.

Children wear socks in summer, and their ankles are easily exposed. Outsiders can see the difference at a glance.

Poor children at home may go barefoot without socks. It is also possible to wear old socks, that is, parents wear leftover socks, which are too long and cover the ankle bones.

Children from wealthy families have many kinds of socks, and they may wear boat socks and socks. The style of socks is also very beautiful, and the style elements are also very popular.

The ornaments of poor children are not very valuable.

Children's accessories are also very different. For example, the hairpin in the hair, the bracelet on the hand and the necklace on the chest have obvious price differences.

Generally, children from poor families hardly wear ornaments. Some poor children only wear wood products and iron products, which are cheap and can be seen at a glance.

Poor children and rich children wear the same clothes, but they can still see the gap at a glance. Then, if the gap between the rich and the poor is too large, will it have an impact on children?

The teacher asked the poor child: Do you feel inferior when you are poor at home? The poor child's answer made the teacher blush.

At the beginning of school, a teacher found that a child was completely unsociable when he was free to move on the physical education class, sitting alone on the steps of the playground. The teacher talked to him and asked the child, "What's the matter with you?"

The child was shy, turned red and white, and said to the teacher falteringly, "I feel someone is laughing at my broken shoes."

At this time, the teacher noticed that the child's shoes had been glued and there was a small hole in the front toe.

The teacher continued to ask the child, "Will you feel inferior if you are poor at home?"

Seeing this, the child looked even more unnatural and hurriedly bowed his head. For a long time, the child stammered "hmm" and then burst into tears.

When the teacher realized that he had asked the wrong question, he immediately blushed and felt very guilty. Before this, the teacher never thought that poor children would be so sensitive.

Poor children have a sense of inferiority in their bones, and they are afraid that others will say that their family is poor and have strong self-esteem. The poorer children are, the prouder they are, and they pay great attention to dignity.

As parents and teachers, it is most important to guide and encourage children and let them exude the "aristocratic" temperament of poor families.

How to make "poor" children exude "aristocratic" temperament?

1. Cultivate "noble" temperament, and children should be polite.

Children with aristocratic temperament are not necessarily rich children, but many are poor children.

Children can be polite, respect teachers and be friendly to their peers. Children know how to be humble to others and have a grateful heart.

Such a child exudes charm and makes people want to be close.

2. Cultivate "noble" temperament, and children should pay attention to hygiene.

Children with "aristocratic" temperament must be clean and tidy. If you want your child to stop being in rags and look "sunny and lovely", you must help your child develop a good habit of loving cleanliness and hygiene.

For example, nails should not be too long, clothes should be changed frequently, and nose should be wiped with paper.

Being born doesn't mean being poor in the future is only temporary. When children were young, there was no such complicated interpersonal environment. As long as he pays attention to personal hygiene and is a civilized and polite child, he will naturally emit positive energy and give people a very expensive feeling.

To cultivate a noble child, the class teacher will have a great sense of accomplishment, which is the luck of parents and the happiness of children.

There is a cloud in the Book of Changes: the terrain is Kun, and the gentleman carries things with morality.

The aristocratic temperament of rich children focuses on external accessories. The "aristocratic" temperament of poor children focuses on connotation and virtue, living habits and thoughts.

It's okay for children to be poor at home. As long as children have aristocratic temperament, even if they are regarded as poor children, they will not be laughed at and despised.

Because the child is noble and has a distinctive aristocratic temperament, right?