How should parents deal with children who disagree and often "hum" when they lose their temper?

Today's children are spoiled from childhood, and they can't fight or scold. If they don't like his heart, they will cry there. Many parents really don't know how to deal with children who lose their temper when they disagree. In particular, we often see some children on the road, clamoring for toys and snacks as soon as they see them. If parents don't buy it, they will stay there. This situation needs a clever response, not a non-violent solution.

My brother's child, 3 years old, started crying for drinks as soon as he went to a restaurant to eat. Sure, what did he say? Wine? I think it's okay for me to go out for dinner, but all the people who invite me to dinner are guests, which shows that the children have no tutor. I tried to tell him to be quiet, but he became louder and louder and knocked on the table. It's a pity that the restaurant doesn't sell Tiandi No.1, which is in trouble. He didn't eat rice, so he lost his temper there until his father went out and bought a bottle.

This practice of his father is obviously wrong. This will only spoil the child, and he will become more and more lawless. Of course, there are also some impatient parents who will choose to scold or beat and scold when they see their children crying on any occasion, which is even more undesirable. The correct way is to take the child away, then communicate with the child patiently, give the child more understanding and less scolding. You can tell your children through rewards that this kind of drink is not sold here. After dinner, we will go to the supermarket to buy you a big box. Of course, when we go to the supermarket, children will be distracted and will not only pay attention to drinks.

Children are really used to temper. I often see adults chasing children. If I were you, I wouldn't do it. A very simple thing. If the child doesn't eat, it proves that he is not hungry. If you put away all the snacks at home, he will eat them when he is hungry. Of course, we should set a good example for our children from an early age. Children's personalities are mostly influenced by their parents, and the children brought out by gentle parents are also relatively docile.

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