I am a college student. Is it right to say that a poor family is hard to have a baby? Why?

I don't think it's right to say that "it's difficult for poor families to have expensive children". Because this is not only related to our own choice, but more importantly, our definition of it.

People have different definitions of "your son" and "poor family". Some people may think that earning a lot of money is your son, but some people think that they have achieved something, and some people think that as long as they surpass the older generation, they are your son. Therefore, it is foolish to listen to what others say about us. Whether we can give birth to a "baby" depends on our own definition.

First of all, we should know that the key to deciding "your child" is family education, which is not only a matter of money, but also an attitude of parents towards education. There is no denying that a good family can provide more educational resources, but without parents' attention, children can't use these resources to call them "your children"

Secondly, I have heard people around me discuss the problem of class solidification more than once. But what I want to say is that this problem is a problem in itself. No matter what class, the competition is extremely fierce. Some people will go to by going up one flight of stairs, others will be eliminated, so opportunities always exist. And all we have to do is seize the next opportunity before it comes.

In other words, it is not the so-called "cold door" that makes it difficult to get a "noble son", but this rapidly developing era. In this era of rapid development, people's requirements for themselves and others are getting higher and higher with the development of economy, but their own ability can't keep up, so most people can't meet the high requirements, which is what others call "baby children". So in the final analysis, it is not outstanding, but not outstanding.

Finally, the most important reason is. Whether you can become a "noble son" has nothing to do with whether you are "poor". The most important thing is that you are yourself. As long as you have your own goals, make unremitting efforts and do your best in your class, you are already the "baby son" of his population. In other words, don't care about other people's opinions, you have successfully achieved your goal.