Some people say that the "competition wind" in some rural areas is getting worse. To what extent has it reached?

Do you think the rural "competition wind" is serious?

First, your house is tall, and mine is definitely taller than yours.

Don't worry about whether there is furniture in it, whether there are railings on the stairs, and whether the water and electricity are connected. Is there a window on the side not near the road? Anyway, I'm going to build a house taller than you.

For this reason, there are many fights and even accidents in rural areas.

Second, as long as one family in a village has a car, other families must have a car.

Even two idiots in our village bought a car. You ask him if he can drive. How to drive without a driver's license? What should I do? Pull the donkey out of the house during the day; Go back to the yard at night.

In fact, the villagers can't see whether the car is good or bad. Apart from "BMW", there are not many other ideas. Now it is bigger, wider, higher and newer. More people can sit.

Third, weddings and funerals, which is also a big place for rural people to compete and fight!

The latest experience is that Xiaoli from the same village got married and started doing it three days ago. There are at least 40 tables in that scene (there are more tables). Each table has three seas (seafood, our inland), a turtle (tortoise), two chickens (boiled chicken, black-bone chicken soup), and at least a dozen other meat dishes. There are two floors on the table anyway. You can pack it if you can't finish it. But the problem is that my family of seven gave me 100 yuan, ate for four days and got back eight packs of cigarettes. The food in the refrigerator is estimated to last for a month.

On Xiaoli's wedding day, the family cried their eyes out; I don't know whether I am happy or unhappy.

Fourth, give gifts and keep up with the competition!

Although my family of seven only gave Xiaoli 100 yuan, five people gave it out in four days and helped until ten o'clock in the evening before dawn every day. You have to pay for this hard work, otherwise it will be converted into money! I forgot to mention it. Otherwise, how did my fifteen pig elbows come from? Of course, they helped. )

In the rural areas where comparison is made, the red and white affairs of 100 yuan are basically out of control. Or do something like my family. Basically, it depends on the distance and wealth. Of course, the poorer you are, the higher you get, because then your face will shine when others nag.

Fifth, play contrast cards and gamble on fighting wine.

In the countryside, it used to be a man; Now the main force is women (men basically go out to work). At the poker table, it's one piece and two pieces, and five pieces and ten pieces are sleepy; Five thousand one hundred is just right! Many times a year's money is lost or won overnight. I especially remember that a long time ago, two rural women insisted on playing mahjong with me, and they both lost 120. Then the next day, the two families quarreled so much that the chickens flew and the dogs jumped; Forgive me for being a teenager, but I haven't played cards or mahjong since I returned to the countryside. )

Because most rural men go out to work, they lose badly at the poker table; There are many women who don't love themselves, but lose to the person who sleeps there. This has also caused many marriages in rural areas to be unstable and the divorce rate has risen.

Sixth, the country has already banned the "wind of comparison", but there has been a new "comparison".

The state is not allowed to do great things, and red and white affairs must not exceed eight tables. Ok, we respond to the call of the country; When "home appliances go to the countryside" and "cars go to the countryside", home appliances and cars are almost bought. Well, don't fiddle with these two aspects. (Erlengzi in the village still uses donkeys to pull carts every day); Then how can you speak "better" than others by sitting down and nagging? We have the following tools:

When the children stop studying, I will buy a BMW for them. After graduating from junior high school, my family really borrowed money to buy a BMW! )

The son and daughter-in-law bought a house in the city. (Don't buy? ! Scold you to death every day! )

Look how filial my daughter is. She just bought this XX from a friend abroad. I just don't understand foreign languages anyway. )

My little grandson is in an international kindergarten. All of them were taught by foreigners. (80% of the son's daughter-in-law's working income contributes to the kindergarten. )

Although my third daughter was not so good in the village, she is now the manager of XX Global International Company, earning tens of thousands of dollars a month. (Actually, it's a salesman under a leather bag company with a monthly salary of 3,000. )

This comparison puts great pressure on young people coming out of the countryside. It also gave great courage to the children brought out by grandparents in rural areas (the courage to spend money blindly! )。

The countryside is very sad: "The old man is busy bragging; Middle-aged people work until they vomit blood; Half a boy paid for cigarettes. "phenomenon.

Why do many middle-aged people who have been working outside for many years are unwilling to return to the countryside where they were born and raised? Or why middle-aged people who return home would rather buy a house in the county than return to their ancestral home.

The countryside has lost its original simplicity and simplicity! Malfunction! Just a bunch of old people and a bunch of little boys with yellow hair.

I just want to warn some people, not to knock some people down!

I personally understand that the most serious comparison in rural areas is the bride price. Take Handan as an example. /kloc-when I got married in 0/2, it was more than 40 thousand, and those who were half a year earlier than me were all 38 thousand. I counted too much, and then I went up by 20 thousand to 30 thousand every year, but my salary didn't go up The bride price rose rapidly. Until recently, it was 18000, and the lowest was 12000.

Have you finished buying the house? Then you are wrong. The house is the premise of falling in love. That's not enough. You must buy a car that is not less than 10 million yuan. You feel inferior if you don't buy a car. Therefore, parents in our country are basically in debt when they want to get married for their children. This is the wind of comparison, which is too serious. I am worried about the future.

When it comes to comparison, there is a phenomenon of comparison in both rural areas and cities, but in recent years, rural development has become faster and faster, farmers' lives have become better and better, and comparison has become more and more serious. So how serious is the wind of comparison in rural areas now?

First of all, whose house is better than others. In the past, rural areas were bungalows, and the object of comparison was whose house was better decorated. In recent years, more and more buildings have been built in rural areas, and the comparison object has increased from the previous interior decoration, that is, whose house has been built higher. I remember a few years ago, only a few wealthy families in the village built two floors. In recent years, all the new houses in our village are undoubtedly two-story, and several households have built three-story and four-story ones. Judging from the specific living conditions, the bungalow has far satisfied people's living conditions, because now the young couple will live separately from their parents after marriage. A family of three or four with two bedrooms and one living room or three bedrooms and one living room is enough, and most of the extra houses are idle. Idle houses are used for dust removal except for sundries. In fact, people also know that building so many houses will be idle, but they will still build two or three floors for their own face.

The second is to compare private cars. In recent years, there are more and more private cars in rural areas. Our village is not rich, but the number of private cars is almost half. To tell the truth, it is much more convenient to have a car at home, but some people buy a car to save face. The neighbor's daughter didn't buy a car when she got married, so she didn't ask the man for a car. In recent years, many young people in the village have bought cars, but the neighbor's daughter can't sit still and let her in-laws buy cars. In fact, there is nothing wrong with buying a car to make her travel more convenient in the future. The mistake is that the neighbor's daughter and her husband don't have a driver's license, so even if they buy a car, they can only follow suit. My parents-in-law didn't buy a car, and my neighbor's daughter later divorced. We learned the reason, because the neighbor's daughter saw that all her friends had cars, felt that she didn't have a car, and was looked down upon by others, so she pestered her parents-in-law to buy a car.

The third is the comparison of bride price. It is difficult to marry a daughter-in-law in the countryside now. Not only must you have a car and a house, but you also need a high bride price. The reason why the bride price is getting higher and higher has a lot to do with people's comparison psychology. One of my primary school girls and her boyfriend have been in love for many years, and both of them know each other's family economic conditions. When they got married, they asked for a bride price of 20 thousand yuan. A girl who used to be very reasonable was told by the villagers that she would pay back the money when she got married, and her parents were poked by the villagers. Many women's parents think that the higher the bride price, the greater the face, so the bride price money will rise steadily.

In fact, there are many comparisons in rural areas besides the above three, but the above three are more serious. What other rural comparisons do you know? Welcome everyone to reply to the discussion.

Some people say that in some rural areas, the wind valley is becoming more and more serious. To what extent has it reached? .

This problem, people keep up with the joneses, has existed since ancient times. Why does he earn more than me? Her family bought a TV! This phenomenon is not only reflected in rural areas. No comparison, no ambition. For example, isn't this a comparison?

That is to say, the countryside! For example, I don't agree with the new house next door this year. I want to build a better and bigger house than her house in the new year.

There is also marriage. Someone in the village wants a building and a car. Next, they will start asking for a building and a car. Her family wants 50 thousand bride price, and I want 80 thousand The more you compare, the more powerful you are.

Nowadays, many young people in rural areas can't find a partner, and they are single to more than 30.

I feel that with the passage of time, this phenomenon will decline and the psychological quality of rural people will gradually improve.

Coordinates: A rural area along the coast of Guangdong. The real situation.

Summarize some rural comparison phenomena:

1. It's taller than the building. More than 5 floors. The highest private house in the same county 19 floor. No mistake, 19-story mansion. Ask if you are afraid!

2. wine. There were no abalone, lobster, sea cucumber and hairy crabs in the banquet, and others laughed. But the money is generally only 200-300 yuan per person.

3. Example of the year. Once a year, like a feast. If you do not do well, your relatives and friends will laugh at you. Ah ~ left poor sad tears ~

4. Better than a car. Buy a luxury car to bask in. I don't know where I got so much money. I envy it.

5. It's not just architecture. From the county/Guangzhou/Shenzhen/buy, especially keen on buying land.

Get married. The bride price is pitiful, but I like renting luxury teams. What kind of operation is this? I don't understand ~

7. Compared with children. I'm so proud that my child goes to a prestigious school in the county ~

I have a deep understanding of how serious the "competition wind" is in rural areas.

1. It's taller than the house.

No matter where, the money spent on houses is very high, so many rural people like to compare houses, whose houses are built higher, who built new houses and how much they spent on house decoration. These are the things that farmers like to talk about most in their leisure time.

Compare cars

With the development of economy, farmers' income has also increased a lot, roads extend in all directions, and means of transportation are becoming more and more a part of people's lives, and rural areas are no exception! I heard that someone bought two cars. That one is more excited than the man with the car. Talking about how much the car costs is more exciting than getting married!

Step 3 compare red envelopes with human feelings

This is especially serious in some remote places. If there is something at home and someone gives a gift of 1000 yuan, the next gift will definitely increase the money.