Our previous relationship was like a joke.

You look more and more like a joke. You agreed to get married, but it didn't happen

One. It is easy to fall in love, but difficult to get along with. It should be natural for two people to get along together, so that they will feel more suitable for marriage.

Two. Understand each other, understand each other's character and disposition. Are they the same? Are they willing to change themselves for each other?

Three. Two people can't get married because they want to get married. There should be two people here. Get married if you want. So, if you find that two people are not suitable, break up early and get rid of it early, otherwise you will really feel that it is not appropriate to separate after marriage, that is divorce. If we divorce again, our requirements and standards will be lowered, because unlike the first marriage, we will get the attention of the other party. So you made the right decision. There is no joke that doesn't make jokes. Break up when you are together. Don't waste each other's feelings