Don't be a "Xiong Haizi" during the Spring Festival. Teach your children five social etiquette during the Spring Festival to avoid making jokes.

As the Spring Festival is coming, it is inevitable that everyone will visit relatives and friends. There may be many guests at home to pay New Year greetings, so it is even more important to have dinner with relatives and friends.

During these visits and walks, social occasions were formed. If children are impolite, they will certainly do a lot of things that embarrass their parents.

Xiong Haizi is like a "time bomb", which may cause an "accident", laugh it off, even become the talk of others, and even affect the normal social interaction between adults.

Therefore, parents must let their children know these Spring Festival etiquette in advance!

First of all, greet people and address them politely.

During the Spring Festival, whether visiting other people's homes or entertaining guests, children will meet many people, so parents must guide their children to address others.

If it is a rare relative, the child doesn't know what to call it. Parents should tell their children who they are, lest they be misunderstood and impolite because they don't know how to address people.

Some children are introverted and unwilling to talk. Parents can simply rehearse with their children at home and encourage them more.

Second, pay attention to visiting other people's homes.

During the Spring Festival, children will go in and out of many strange places. In the face of unfamiliar environment, many children will feel very excited, touch the east and touch the west, full of curiosity. Parents should pay attention at this time.

Some children are used to stagger at home, and it is the same to go to other people's homes. This is a joke in the eyes of others. Parents must cultivate their children's basic etiquette of "standing, sitting and eating" in peacetime.

We must pay attention to this, especially for many elderly people, who are very taboo about this. Parents should inform their children in advance.

Every year during the Spring Festival, there are many posts accusing Xiong Haizi on the Internet. Most of them were broken by Xiong Haizi rummaging through other people's things. Some hosts are embarrassed to say that they have no face, but they are very unhappy.

Don't disturb others during the Spring Festival. Children must be forbidden to rummage through other people's things. Parents should ban it in time. If the children don't listen, leave with them immediately to avoid being annoying.

When a child is unhappy and loses his temper, it will embarrass the host and make others feel that parents can't teach their children. Parents must tell their children not to lose their temper in public places or other people's homes.

Taking pictures is likely to reveal other people's privacy, so if you want to take pictures, you must first ask the owner's permission.

Children's meddling will embarrass adults and affect communication between adults. Let children know from an early age that it is very disrespectful for you to walk back and forth between them and interrupt when chatting with adults.

Third, pay attention to what you say.

In the traditional customs of China, there are many things to pay attention to when speaking during the Spring Festival. It is forbidden to say more auspicious words instead of unlucky words, such as "unlucky", "bad" and "death".

Parents must tell their children more. From the twelfth lunar month, if they are not good, they should talk less, especially after the New Year, and say more auspicious words. Especially when meeting relatives and friends, teach children a few words of congratulations on getting rich, happy New Year and all the best.

Don't let the children affect everyone's good mood because of a "slip of the tongue".

Fourth, you should know the rules of receiving gifts and red envelopes.

During the Spring Festival, children will inevitably receive gifts and red envelopes. These rules must be known.

When children receive red envelopes and gifts, they must pick them up with both hands and say thank you.

If the child is too young to do it, parents should hold the baby's hand, take the red envelope with both hands and say "thank you" with the child.

Some children, before the guests left, began to turn over the gifts brought by others; It is very impolite to open a red envelope in front of the guests as soon as you receive it.

Be sure to tell the children not to open it in front of the guests. If you want to know the amount of the red envelope, you can go to the bathroom and open it. But the best way is to put the red envelope in your pocket immediately and open it at home.

Some children will say the amount in front of everyone after reading the red envelope. In fact, this will make people who give red envelopes particularly embarrassed!

In particular, some children are particularly ignorant and will say "too little", which suddenly makes the atmosphere between adults very tense. So parents must tell their children in advance.

Even if you know the amount of the red envelope, you can't say it, let alone too little!

Table manners are very important.

When eating, the host or elder moves chopsticks first, and other people can move.

Don't turn the plate, shake the plate and knock on the plate.

Don't slurp when eating, and don't put chopsticks in a bowl.

You can't comment on the quality of food, especially when you are a guest at someone else's house.

Look at education at the dinner table, look at personality in detail, and don't let yourself and your children become the laughing stock of others behind your back.

Chen Danqing once said, "The so-called upbringing and politeness depend on small things. The so-called rudeness is not disrespect for people, but not knowing how to respect people. "

On the surface, children's "rude" behavior reveals children's innocence, but in fact it hides family education and parents' quality. I know that in social situations, children's every move represents their parents, and a "Xiong Haizi" may ruin a social interaction.

As parents, we must attach importance to children's etiquette education in peacetime, so that children can become polite and educated children.