How to be a competent baby daddy?

In the past, mothers might take care of children after they were born because mothers would be more attentive. But now, many fathers are willing to be dads, thinking that they can take good care of their children. However, it is often easier said than done, especially for first-time fathers. Because they are inexperienced, they often make mistakes or make jokes, or often get themselves into trouble because of certain problems. In fact, some people should learn it before becoming a baby daddy, so that they will not panic when they become a baby daddy. So what should expectant fathers do to become qualified wet dads?

I am a dad with two children. One is about to enter the rebellious period of youth, and the other is entering the first rebellious period of life. I live between them every day, and I will record it on video every day. , sometimes painful, sometimes happy, but looking back on the days and nights we have passed, these scenery make our lives colorful.

I also missed a lot in Dabao’s education, but I believe that it is never too late to educate Dabao. I am also constantly learning and changing now.

First, we must change ourselves. No one is born a good dad, we must continue to learn and enrich ourselves. Nowadays, parenting knowledge is everywhere, in books, TV, self-media, etc. We must study hard.

Secondly, children of each age group have different physical and psychological characteristics. We must master them in advance. Once we miss it, it will be much more difficult to make up for it. For example, one-year-old can guide reading, two-year-old will have the first rebellious period, three-year-old is the prime time to set rules, etc. We should do different things at different times.

Third, every child is different. Less comparison with others, more companionship, less irritability, more understanding, and more understanding of the child's characteristics. Teach students in accordance with their aptitude and vary from person to person.

Fourth, there should be less big principles and more words and deeds. Parents are the best role models for children. We must consciously overcome our own shortcomings. What do you want for your children? You must first achieve it yourself.

Fifth, creating a harmonious and happy family atmosphere is also a top priority.

As a stay-at-home dad, I can’t even speak of being “competent”. Everything is done with the baby at the center. After breastfeeding, the bottle should be rinsed with cold water and then boiled at high temperature to achieve disinfection. When changing diapers, the baby's buttocks should be washed with warm water. Clothes should be changed frequently, and bathed frequently to keep the baby dry! Don't use prickly heat powder, because the plunger will clog the baby's sweat pores and hinder the baby's heat dissipation! Will cover up eczema. You can apply some essential oil appropriately! When can you eat salt and how much salt should you use? It is recommended that after 1 year of age, one-third of the beer bottle cap should be consumed. For oil, buy olive oil or walnut oil and a little bit too! Eat more fish soup, it is recommended to buy mandarin fish, sea bass, deep sea fish if possible, snow fish is the best, supplement protein! Then buy nutritional supplements. DHA' probiotics' supplementary food only eats egg yolks and not protein. Because of baby's body differences, some babies are allergic to protein! Don’t eat sugar, especially when your baby starts teething! Buy a teething stick or a teething stick! The most important thing is not to let your baby eat food that has been in your adult's mouth, because adults' mouths contain bacteria, and these bacteria can cause great harm to your baby. I think every parent doesn't want to see their baby pass it through their mouth before feeding it because they are afraid that the baby will be burned or the baby won't chew it properly. This will only harm her, not love her! Especially grandma and grandpa.

Because my baby is only five months old, whenever I go back, I will take the baby to feed him milk powder and change his diapers, so that my wife can have more rest. I feel that if I want to be a good nanny, I Here are a few points: 1. Before becoming a qualified baby daddy, you must change your mentality and accept this new baby from your heart. 2. The next step is to be a good partner. This partner must be a partner not only to his wife, but also to his children, so that he can accompany the other party to a greater extent. 3. As a partner, you should accompany your children to grow up and let them have their own presence in the process of growth. Long-term separation will make children lack father's love, and it feels that the lack of love will have defects in shaping the children's personality. 4. To be a qualified nanny means to keep the daily housework completed, to play with the children but also to tidy up the children. Only by being considerate of a mother's difficulties can you be a better nanny. 5. Record the child's growth every day, and continue to teach the child about the outside world during the growth process, develop the child's brain development, and never miss the opportunity to take care of the child both materially and spiritually.

If you want to be a qualified wet nurse, in addition to being good to the baby, the most important thing is to be good to the mother.

You must know that it was your wife who gave birth to you. , the cutest little angel baby in the world, she went through a lot of pain in order to give birth to a baby

And after giving birth to the baby, the mother also needs her father very much. Of concern, when the father tells the baby I love you, please don’t forget to say the same to the mother (I love you! Thank you for your hard work).

Then coming back to how to become a qualified baby daddy, I think dads should do the following things

Firstly

In addition to providing the baby with material food and clothing, fathers also need to provide spiritual satisfaction. A qualified nanny, in addition to making milk, cuddling and changing diapers, also talks to the baby more, regardless of whether the baby can Understand, what the baby needs is the father's voice and happy smile

Secondly

As the baby grows, he has different needs at different ages. , as a qualified baby daddy, you should read more books and learn relevant knowledge in this area, including books on diet and play education, from which you can learn a certain amount of knowledge

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You can also learn some experiences from senior fathers among friends or neighbors, and ask them more about some parenting matters, what should be paid attention to, various issues, and communicate more , and then strive to become a qualified nanny

I am the nanny of a one-year-old and eight-month-old baby. Let me give you a brief summary of my experience in raising babies.

1. Love from the heart is better than any parenting skills.

When you really put your heart into him, you will love him more and more. At this time, raising a baby is not a job, but a natural flow of love. Don't worry, the process of giving is also the process of enjoying love, and you will be very happy.

2. Babies are very simple and will not cry if their needs are met.

Children are really, very simple. As long as their needs are met, everything is OK. Children’s needs are nothing more than: enough food, good sleep, lukewarmness, and the older ones (over one year old) have company. need. That's easy, feed him when he's hungry, put him to sleep when he's sleepy, and play with him when he's bothering you.

3. Find reasons for children to cry.

Babies will never cry for no reason. Babies cannot express themselves. The crying is actually talking to you, telling you that he has needs. Check whether it is time to feed him. I feel uncomfortable peeing. Is it time to go to bed? Is there any discomfort on my body (children tend to have fevers, so pay more attention to their body temperature). If you rule it out one by one, it will definitely be solved.

4. Really put effort into seeing the world from a child’s perspective.

He is an independent little life and a simple and beautiful little world. He hopes to spend more time with you. If he is not hungry, sleepy or sick, you will find that he actually loves to laugh and spend time with you. No matter what you do, he is very interested in accompanying you and will never leave you. With such a simple and loving little life, your world will become particularly simple and beautiful. This is more fun than playing any game, watching any TV, or making any friends.

I am also a new baby daddy. I am learning parenting methods, how to coax the baby to sleep, how to observe the baby's various discomforts, and how to change the baby's diaper. I find that I am a primary school student and need to learn. There are too many places, and I am quite tired, but I feel very happy

Do not get angry under any circumstances

Complete every assignment your child leaves for you carefully and submit it to your wife for review.

To become a qualified baby daddy, you must first become a qualified housekeeper and spend a lot of time with your children. When learning how to coax children, looking at the knowledge related to parenting, and the issues that you want to pay attention to at each stage of your child's life, only long-term companionship is the best pampering.

The summary is that only those who can cook, tell stories, change diapers, crawl on the ground and pretend to be a horse, and stand up as an all-around nanny can protect themselves from the rain.