What if boys laugh at you behind your back?

1, the job introduced by acquaintances can be avoided as far as possible.

When someone gossips about others in front of you, it's best not to interrupt and find an excuse to walk away, otherwise the news will spread and others will think you said it.

Showing off wealth and being superior are two taboos in social interaction.

When you are in a weak position and have no right to speak, you should express your opinions less.

Many things you worry about are not as serious as you think. Relax, move forward slowly and solve it step by step.

6. Talk more about topics that others are interested in, and you will gain a lot.

7. Things may not be beautiful, but words must be beautiful. Just like when you went to a restaurant and ordered a Lamian Noodles, the boss said to the chef inside, would you be happy if you added two pieces of meat to this little brother? You will definitely want to come to his store again next time.

In fact, the master didn't give you more pieces of meat, and the boss didn't let him clip more pieces of meat, but this store and the boss will leave a deep impression on you.

8. In interpersonal communication, the first impression is often very important.

So when you meet someone for the first time, you must try to leave a good impression on others, which can be neat dress, calm talk, polite greetings and so on. In this talented society, swift horses are common, but Bole is not, so how to make Bole remember you in the vast sea of people and never forget you after meeting you is very important.

9. When others speak ill of you behind your back, don't talk back, because in the eyes of others, you are the same kind of people.

But inadvertently praised him and recognized him. Over time, others will naturally know that you and he are not the same kind of people, so few people will believe him.

10, when you make up your mind to do something, don't tell everyone in a big way.

Because few people expect you to succeed, many people watch your jokes.

1 1. It's best not to give any advice on two things: relatives buy a house and a car and fall in love and get married with friends.

Because these two things are important events in life, if you listen to your advice, the result will be good, everyone will be happy, and the result will be bad, so you will be fully responsible.

12. If you are angry with others because you are in a bad mood and want to apologize afterwards, don't just say "I'm sorry, I shouldn't be angry with you".

This will deepen others' impression that you are in a bad mood, and you will also feel uneasy about what just happened. You can say "thank you for listening and understanding just now", and the anger and grievance of the other party will be reduced by half immediately.

13, don't be a person with too much shame. The strong are lonely, without too much sense of shame. No matter what others say or think, he can eat and sleep, and the poor, the more they care about their face, the more they will be hurt. If others say one or two ugly words, they can't eat well and sleep well.

14, don't easily show others the most vulnerable and unwilling part of your heart. Friends gained by sympathy may not respect you in their hearts.

15, others treat you, not your friends. If you must bring your friends, you should be ready to pay the bill. You shouldn't let others pay for your contacts.

16, don't laugh at people who fail. People who dare not do anything are the most ridiculous.

17. No matter how close friends, no matter how close family members, no matter how small, they will leave you unconsciously. It's not that the relationship has deteriorated, but that everyone's growth path is different. It's lucky to be with you for a while. Leave the rest to fate.

18, just the right silence, sometimes more popular than chatter. Don't say anything when you don't know what to say. Sometimes the more you say, the more mistakes you make, especially when you don't understand.

The reason why a person can't say a lot of sharp and useful ideas and opinions is essentially that he doesn't have enough knowledge reserves, so there is nothing to express. Spending 1-2 hours reading every day can greatly help you broaden your cognition and broaden your horizons.

19, others have said a lot, but what really needs attention is the content after "but", "so" and "however", which is what he really wants to express.

20. Don't easily offend anyone who lives at the bottom or has a low status, because there is always such a survival rule in their life options: mutually assured destruction.

So respecting them is protecting yourself.

2 1, a common social rule of adults: I look like you, so a good attitude can solve many problems.

22. In the workplace, whatever you do is comfortable. This is not a skill. It is a skill to make leaders feel comfortable.

23. When you go home for the New Year, you don't need to answer many questions from your relatives and friends, just answer "yes" or "no", "good" or "bad", because they don't care whether you live well or not, but want to gain a sense of superiority from your failed life.

24, others laugh at themselves, you must not follow suit. Because people who like to laugh at themselves often have a painful past, and once you agree, maybe a word will touch the pain of others.

25. Come to the person who solves the problem with emotion, first solve the other person's emotion and then solve the problem. It is difficult for people to listen to other people's opinions when their mood fluctuates irregularly, so the best way is to let the other person vent their emotions, wait for him to calm down, and then help him analyze the situation carefully and find a solution.

26. After entering a circle, you must first find your own position and do what you should do in your own position. Over time, your position can be gradually stabilized, and then you can make friends with others.

27. When a friend is in pain, don't keep asking him why he is in pain. This is undoubtedly to let him experience the pain again. Just stay with him quietly and let him know that someone is with him when he is sad.

28. Remember to set the screen lock password for the work computer, remember to back up important files, and remember to talk to the customer total recall.

Many times, if you take precautions against risks, you can get away with it in your work and interests.