When you help a friend, will you let the other person know the time and energy you put behind your back?

Basically not, because I am a very low-key person. However, very few cases are not excluded.

I am the kind of person who promises to help a friend and tries his best to do it. No matter how much time and energy I spend, I can accept it, and I won't let the other party know about my efforts during the period. It can be understood that I am a low-key, unassuming and grandstanding person.

A person's personality will determine a person's behavior. I have such a personality, so I will be a person who is consistent with my personality. Since we are friends, try to help if you can, but don't tell your friends directly. Sincerity is the most important thing among friends. You have helped a friend, and you may need your friend's help next time.

If you do me a favor, you don't have to act as if you have done something great for others and feel like a savior and hero. It is normal for friends to help each other. You promise to help, you just need to bring the results to your friends, and keep the process for yourself, because your friends want your help, not the process of asking you to help.

Even if you spend too much time and energy to help this, it is your responsibility, because you promised your friend, you must keep your promise.

You helped a friend, and his friend will remember you. All right. If you deliberately let your friend know how wronged you are and how much time and energy you have devoted to helping him, then I think your friend will appreciate you for the first time, but if you do this every time, your friend will be disgusted and may not contact you more in the future.

You can put yourself in others' shoes. If you ask others for help and they always tell you how difficult it is to help you, what do you think at this time?

If I am really wronged and encounter great difficulties to help my friend, and my friend tells me everything, then I may let him know once, and I won't let him know next time.