My wife is always picking on me all day, and she doesn't want me to go home or call her. What's the matter?

There must be something wrong. Normal couples will quarrel, but no matter how noisy, they will not let each other not go home or call. Even if they do, they will be angry. It will be fine in a few days. But as you said, the problem is not small. Either you are too timid to meet your wife's normal needs, or you can't earn enough money to support your family. Either your wife's heart is too high, she doesn't want to live lightly, and she won't let you go home and make a phone call. There's probably something wrong. That's it. Think for yourself.