Are your parents obsessed with health supplements?

1

China's health care products industry, which started in the 1980s, has rapidly developed into a unique industry in just a dozen years. The main reason why the health care products industry is booming is that people's living standards have improved significantly. Secondly, the changes in people's lifestyles are an important opportunity for the development of the health care products industry. The multi-level social life needs provide broad opportunities for the development of the health care products industry. space.

With social progress and economic development, humans are increasingly paying attention to their own health. Since the 1990s, the health consumption of residents around the world has increased year by year, and the demand for nutritional and health products is very strong. Among the 15 categories of international industries classified according to international standards, medicine and health care are one of the five industries with the fastest growing trade in the world, and the sales of health food products are growing at a rate of 13% every year.

The main consumers of health care products are retired elderly people. Among these elderly people lining up to receive gifts and buy health care products, are your parents among them? Are your parents obsessed with health supplements? How do you feel about your parents being obsessed with health care products?

2

The neighbor’s Aunt Wang and Uncle Zhang had a fight recently, and Uncle Zhang, who is nearly eighty years old, is clamoring for a divorce. The reason for the fight was that Aunt Wang did not tell Uncle Zhang and used her family's savings to buy more than 30,000 yuan of health care products. These health care products are a biological drink, and its effect is that drinking it will ensure that you are healthy. No cancer within ten years, inhibiting the growth of cancer cells.

Uncle Zhang said angrily: "Isn't this a fool? The older he gets, the more useless he becomes. This life will be impossible for him!"

Aunt Wang and Uncle Zhang's family backgrounds are not the same. It's very good. The two of them live on their pensions. Their children are away from home and rarely come back. 30,000 yuan should be a huge sum of money for their family. Aunt Wang bought these things without saying hello. It is understandable that Uncle Zhang was angry.

Knowing that I was working as a psychological counselor, Uncle Zhang came over and asked me to comment with him.

Let’s put aside the criticism and the identity of a professional counselor for the moment. As a neighbor, if I see something like this happening to two old people, I should give them some advice.

I asked Uncle Zhang: "Uncle, please calm down first. How did you find out that my aunt bought this health care product? Don't you usually ignore your savings? Aren't you happy to be free?"

Uncle Zhang said: "You don't know, the day before yesterday, we started working on it at twelve o'clock. Two young men helped move things home. There were a lot of gifts, and in the end there were only three boxes of biological drinks. More than 30,000 , What bowls from the Qing Dynasty, what porcelain from the Qing Dynasty, what kind of silver crutches! There are only six boxes of these things, so do you think it can cure cancer cells? If it can really cure diseases, don’t tell me. I won't feel bad for 300,000 yuan. You said that this old lady is a retard and has no brains. She is cheated when she goes out all day long and uses her hard-earned money to make money. You said that I still follow her. What are you going to do? Divorce!"

3

Aunt Wang was also very aggrieved, her eyes were red, she took my hand and pulled me aside and said: " Ignore this old guy who bites people like a mad dog. I'm in good health and I don't have cancer. Isn't it good for him? If he is sick, why should I take care of him?"

I said: "Auntie, how did you see this biological drink? Do you really think it is so good?"

The aunt said: "Oh, those two children are so good. Okay, so enthusiastic. This company took us on a free trip, went hiking and swimming, provided us with food and drinks for two days, and even chatted with us to relieve our boredom. They told us jokes in the car. They were so enthusiastic! Every time I go to their company, they get free health massages. The girls are so sweet and soothing. When I see them, I think of my own children, who are working outside to make money. It’s not easy, right!”

Aunt Wang continued: “It’s not a short period of time. I went there for half a month and got massages every day, and they didn’t get bothered.

How considerate are these children? Are there any mistakes in the products they introduce? By buying these products, you can enhance your own physical fitness and help increase commissions for those children. What a great thing? This damn old man. ”

Uncle Zhang rolled his eyes at her and said with a very contemptuous expression: “I cheated you out of money. If you didn’t have money, I would be so enthusiastic about you. I’d like to see if you can say a few nice words.” You're being coaxed, and your head is getting hot. You're said to be mentally retarded, but you still won't admit it? "

When talking to Aunt Wang, I found that this old man is actually very kind. What she considered was the considerate service of these children, talking to her, and what she saw in these little promoters The figure of her children.

When her children are not around, she transfers her feelings to these promoters. What Aunt Wang buys is not biological products, she spends money to buy her children. A concern for our children and a longing for the family affection of our children.

We are all children. We are usually busy with work and cannot be with our parents, so the phone calls and heart-warming words should come often. To understand the inner loneliness of the elderly and the hidden inner fear when their lives come to an end.

From a psychological perspective, it is not so much that they are buying health care products. They say they are buying a hope of life to relieve the loneliness and fear in their hearts.

4

My friend is 45 years old. Her health is not good and she has just retired. Procedure. She reluctantly told me the story of her mother.

Her mother is a retired cadre at the division level. She is eighty years old and has constant ailments. She has headaches and fever all day long, but she still lives a good life. Able to take care of herself. With a retirement salary of nearly 7,000 yuan, she has nothing to do, spends all day in the health care market, listens to those people's lectures, and brings home a lot of mess.

As soon as she comes home, her mother will. He came over and said, "Normally I can't help you. Do you need money?" Well, you are not in good health and have retreated. Don't be too burdened. You can live with your mother and I will take care of your food and drink. Raising me is better than raising a pig. "

My friend was very annoyed. He was angry and helpless about his mother buying health care products. What's more, he felt distressed: "You said her legs and feet are not good yet, no matter it's cold or hot, she just follows the devil and says She didn't listen and was so angry that he just ignored her. "

An eighty-year-old old lady doesn't care about food or clothing. She only has one child, my friend. As for my friend, she doesn't really need her mother's money.

So my mother’s money was used to buy a lot of health care products, fitness equipment, various blood pressure monitors, physical therapy equipment, as well as electric ovens, cupping machines, massage chairs, and massage tables. All of these equipment occupied 3 rooms and 1 room. The house of more than 100 square meters is so full that I can’t even put my feet in.

My friend said: "Our house has almost become a health care products wholesale market. I have to move some things back home and use them." No need. It was a cold day, so she went to queue up to get those things, which were distributed for free, such as oil, rice, noodles, and a handful of leeks. Then she listened to those people talking, and she didn't listen no matter what they said. You are so old, what are you talking about? All day long, I wanted to confiscate her salary card. "

I said: "Auntie doesn't spend your money. The money is her own pension. She can spend it how she wants, right? In fact, you should see it. Can you see the helplessness in your mother's heart? She wants to help you but can't. She is afraid that she is a useless person and has no value.

When she went to the health care product market to get the rice noodles, everyone was shouting, "Auntie, Director, Director, Auntie, Director, Auntie, Director, Auntie, those little girls and boys came to tell me if they had anything, auntie, do you think this is okay?" There, your mother felt that she still had some use and some sense of worth. If you can see this, then when your aunt asks you if she needs money, just take it and say, Mom, you are great, I need you so much and love you so much. , praise her and her behavior will be alleviated! "

5

My friend said: "As expected of a psychology major, it is good to have a psychology friend, and his analysis is thorough.

"

I said that I am not analyzing. Although I am a psychological counselor by profession, in life, I am still the daughter of my parents, the mother of my son, and an employee in the workplace. , He is also a person who is also playing his own role in society and reflecting his own value.

I just want to understand some elderly people more. It is undeniable that there are still some health products. It is effective, but if you are obsessed with it regardless of your family conditions, use all your savings to buy it, and affect the quality of your daily life, then the gain outweighs the loss.

These two short stories are worth it. Examples happen all around us. So, dear readers, are your parents buying health care products? Do you understand why your parents buy these things?

In fact, what you usually don’t do is the companionship, the attention you don’t give, the love you don’t give to your children, the countdown to their lives that you don’t understand, and the attachment to life.

Go home often. Look, what are the regrets in their lives? What do they love most in their lives? Don’t wait until your children want to be filial but your parents are gone. At that time, what’s the use of your sorrow and pain? It's a fate, cherish it, listen to your parents' voices more often when they are alive, call mom and dad twice more, don't let us send them away with regrets

When you. When parents were obsessed with health care products, they called for the love of their children. Did you hear it?