How should older people chat with each other when they are looking for a second marriage partner?

No matter whether young or old, they will encounter the same problem when they are in love, that is: they cannot find topics for chatting. Whether we can open up the situation at the beginning of the relationship depends on whether our initial communication is Smooth, need to be able to "make calls". This requires us to find suitable topics in our daily chats, so that there will be excitement between you, so as to have a healthy emotional exchange. 1. The chat topic is mainly about retirement life, supplemented by imagining the future.

Topic 1: Retirement life. For the elderly group, retirement care has always been a mainstream topic because everyone is experiencing retirement life. When you are looking for a wife, communicating with each other on this topic is undoubtedly the best choice. You can discuss your experience in caring for the elderly and express your opinions on some of the current status quo. This can not only arouse cries, but also make the other person look at you with admiration. In this way, the chat will naturally become lively and the situation of love will also open up.

Topic 2: Recalling the past. When two old people stay together and chat, you can also reminisce about the past, talking more about the positive and interesting past and less about the sad journey. The reason why you say positive and interesting things is to prevent the other person from feeling depressed and falling into the sad past. If the other person is depressed, although you can offer words of comfort, it will do more harm than good to your future relationship. If you talk about something positive and interesting, it can make the atmosphere of your chat more joyful, and joy is exactly the key element in love.

Topic 3: Imagine the future. What are your plans for the future, whether it is to fulfill your previous ideals, do charity, or something else. These plans for the future can also become a chat topic between you. It not only allows you to find the goal of getting along in the future, but also allows you to understand each other better. It can be said to kill two birds with one stone.

In short, it is not difficult to find chat topics, it just requires us to relax and not be nervous to have a good chat. For the above three topics, the elderly group can choose the best based on the actual situation. 2. Explore the other person’s interests and hobbies, try to learn, and interact more

When chatting with the opposite sex, the elderly can also explore the other person’s interests and hobbies. For example, if the other party likes square dancing, you can also try it, which will liven up the atmosphere and strengthen the interaction between the two parties. You can even ask the other party to teach you square dancing, which is an excellent interactive mode. We can give an example to illustrate specific application details. For example: Lao Zhang just met his favorite second marriage partner, and the two are trying to get in touch. During the chat, Lao Zhang learned that the other party liked square dancing, but he was not good at it and couldn't get a word in at all. Lao Zhang had an idea and said to his second marriage partner: "I want to learn the square dance you mentioned, but I am so clumsy that I am afraid of being laughed at. Can you teach me?

This example is Two major highlights: First, Lao Zhang expressed his desire to learn, and the other party would definitely not refuse, which promoted the relationship between the two parties; second, Lao Zhang said he was afraid of other people’s jokes and asked the other party to teach him, instantly making the other party his friend. For "our own people". This not only reflects trust, but also brings us closer to each other. In short, we must know each other's interests and hobbies. Even if we don't know it, it doesn't matter. We can learn from it. In the process of learning. The relationship between the two people has also been enhanced, and it makes the other person feel that you are a person who lives and learns, and is more reliable! 3. Exchange sincerity for sincerity, avoid insincere words, and reflect sincerity

No matter you are young People or old people all have the same desire for emotional needs. This is human nature. In the process of interacting between two people, they not only need to be able to chat, but also need to treat each other sincerely. If you cannot treat each other sincerely during the relationship, your words will be false. So. This relationship itself is not worth continuing because it violates the moral code of "exchanging sincerity for sincerity". Being honest with each other and not saying anything that you don't mean not only reflects your personal qualities, but also reflects your cherishment and sincerity of this relationship.

A very non-intrusive attitude towards marriage selection is the basic principle for us elderly people to find a second marriage partner.

In fact, there are no profound skills in chatting skills. It is just a small method in the process of pursuing a partner. But sincerity is different. It reflects your overall personal quality in the process of pursuing a partner, as well as your attitude and ultimate goal of finding a second marriage partner.

In short, when the elderly are looking for a second marriage partner, they must exchange sincerity for sincerity, avoid insincere words, and reflect the minimum sincerity! When older people are looking for a second marriage partner, they should chat with the opposite sex like this: Retirement life, recalling the past, and imagining the future are the topics; take the initiative to explore each other's interests and hobbies, try to learn, and interact more; treat each other with sincerity and reflect the sincerity you should have!'