Look at the problem from different angles, there will be different results, for example.

1. Father and son passed the gate of a five-star hotel and saw a very luxurious imported car.

The son disdainfully said to his father, "People who ride this kind of car must have no knowledge in their stomachs! 」

The father replied airily: the person who said such a thing must have no money in his pocket.

(Note: Does your view of things also reflect your true attitude? )

2. Students who are also in the third grade of primary school said in their composition that their future wish is to be a clown.

China's teacher denounced it as: "Without ambition, you can't teach a boy!" ! 」

The foreign church said, "May you bring laughter to the whole world! 」

(Note: As elders, we not only tend to demand more than encourage, but also have a narrower definition of success. )

After dinner, mother and daughter wash dishes together, and father and son watch TV in the living room.

Suddenly, there was a sound of breaking dishes in the kitchen, and then there was silence.

The son looked at his father and said, "Mom must have broken it. 」

"How do you know? 」

"She didn't swear."

Note: We are used to judging others and ourselves by different standards, so that we are often strict with ourselves. )

4. Beggar: "Can you give me one hundred dollars? 」

Passerby: "I only have eighty dollars. 」

Beggar: "Then you owe me twenty dollars."

(Note: Some people always feel that God owes them. They always think that God has not given them enough or good enough, and greed has replaced gratitude. )

Step 5 choose

A farmer saved his wife from the flood, but his child was drowned.

Afterwards, people talked about it. Some people say that he did the right thing, because children can have another child, but wives can't come back from the dead. Some people say that he did something wrong, because his wife can marry someone else, but the child can't come back from the dead.

After listening to people's comments, I feel very confused: if I can only save one person, should I save my wife or my children?

So I visited the farmer and asked him what he thought at that time.

He replied, "I didn't think of anything. My wife passed me when the flood hit. I grabbed her and swam to the nearby hillside.

When I came back, the child had been washed away by the flood. "

On the way home, I pondered the words of the peasants and said to myself: There are many so-called life choices.