Do some people look down on others because they are excellent?

Many times people who look down on others do not look down on others because of how good they are, but because their mentality is bad and distorted. A person who looks down on you will often have the following symptoms:

1. Like to make sarcastic remarks

Some people prefer to use lip service and see you doing it If they don't like a certain job, they will sarcastically laugh at you, but if you actually ask them to do the same thing, they will show disdain.

But if you make it clear to him whether you look down on him, he will deny it and use it to ridicule you for not knowing how to joke.

Actually, it’s not that we don’t understand humor and jokes, but that in most people’s eyes, such jokes are already a personal attack.

So, when facing this type of people, don’t try to change their inherent impression of you. Their subjective ideas are often paranoid. No matter how hard you try to prove yourself, you won’t be able to gain their approval. .

2. Like to speak ill of you behind your back

A person who likes to speak ill of you behind your back has two thoughts in his heart. One is that you are excellent and excellent. It makes him jealous of you, so he wants to use this to discredit you.

The second is that he looks down on you in his heart and thinks that some of your actions are very low-level behavior in his opinion, so he will tell others what he thinks of you.

As for the first idea, you don’t need to pay attention to him. It is precisely because he is not good enough and narrow-minded that he does this evil behavior. This is a reflection of his small structure, and your "disagreement" "Fools judge the merits" is a manifestation of your overall situation.

As for the second idea, if you really have behavior that makes people feel disgusted, it is your own fault. You can use this as a warning to judge yourself. If he put it on you for no reason, If it's a crime, then you don't have to worry about it.

3. Like to show his superiority in front of you

Really excellent people are those who know how to be self-effacing. They will not show their own superiority in front of others. Because their strength is already there and there is no need for him to spread it.

However, some people begin to swell when they achieve a certain type of achievement. They appear to get along well with you, but in their words and deeds, they feel that you are inferior to them in order to show their superiority.

As everyone knows, sometimes it’s too cold to be at a high place. A moment of expansion may push you to a high position. If you fall, the price may be ruined.

Life is not a label that can define a certain person. It has ups and downs. Precisely because of its uncertainty, we must stick to our words and deeds and do not look down on others.

At the same time, if you meet someone who looks down on you, don’t get angry at him because of it. Do your duty, tolerate him for a while, and wait for a few years to see him again!