The husband always suspects that his wife is unfaithful to him, and he doesn't trust her.

Many people are very concerned about the loyalty of a relationship, especially after marriage, they should have their own sense of responsibility for this family, but the affair of emotional infidelity is still inevitable.

Husband always suspects that his wife is cheating.

1, men are afraid of their wives

Men are more unbearable than women for their partners' infidelity. It is a great shame for a man to wear a cuckold. From a psychological point of view, this is a kind of "insecurity" hidden in men's hearts. On the surface, this kind of "insecurity" is afraid that his wife will make peace with other men behind his back, and the deep reason is anxiety about male identity and male charm.

2, rich in imagination, into a psychological cycle.

Show a strong dislike for the men around his wife. Colleagues, classmates, friends and even relatives, as long as they are men and often get along with each other, especially if their wives have more opportunities, will be blacklisted. With this "blacklist", I spend my time studying and sorting out the frequency, place and time of my wife's contact with these "suspicious objects"; My imagination is very rich. I only need a small detail to expand my imagination. The theme is "She cheated". Being on high alert and alert for a long time, I always feel that there is such a thing, but I can't grasp the handle (I feel that the other party is too cunning, so I have to be vigilant and keep an eye on it to get the "clues"). On the other hand, the thinking is stubborn, and the logic is flawed but firm. Making love will inevitably leave a lot of secretions on the clothes inside. Therefore, the presence of secretions indicates that the wife has had sexual behavior. The husband's "chastity test" can be described as straightforward, but he forgot that this reasoning lacks the necessary conditions: the increase of female secretions comes from many aspects, except sexual activities (including sexual imagination), gynecological diseases, strenuous physical exercise and so on. For the husband, "secretion" becomes the body body double of his distrust mentality, forming a psychological cycle of "secretion" = "infidelity", which makes it difficult for him to jump out of his own psychological cycle.

A husband's distrust of his wife

1, virgin complex

When she got married, her wife was "suspicious" or clearly not her first lover.

2. Emotional trauma

Being cheated or abandoned in previous love or marriage, it is difficult to trust women, forming unreasonable beliefs such as "women are all bad", "women are all sons of B" and "women like strong men". Another situation is that I once cheated, thinking that others would change their minds, so I was worried that others would treat me like this.

3. Family problems

There is infidelity in the family, for example, parents or grandparents had an affair in marriage, and parents or siblings of their partners had an affair or a third party, so they are worried that their marriage will make the same mistake.

4. Remarried couples

Both of them have a history of marriage and have different degrees of "re-love experience"; Or one is a mistress.

Step 5 feel inferior

This situation is generally that the woman is extroverted, her career is much more prosperous than that of the man, and there is a phenomenon that women are stronger than men.

6. rumors

Being teased by people around you, but also beware of your own people everywhere.

Husbands always suspect that their wives are having an affair. Is this a disease?

1, my husband always suspects that his wife is having an affair, which is a bit paranoid. Delusion means being paranoid all day, worrying too much, and making arbitrary inferences and judgments, which is commonly called paranoia. Not to the point of mental illness. Wives should care more about their husbands, be honest with each other, communicate more, don't do things that make the other side suspicious, speak and do things aboveboard, and let their husbands participate in their own activities together, thus eliminating mutual doubts and promoting the harmony between husband and wife.

2. Excessive suspicion affecting normal life and work is paranoid personality and needs psychotherapy. This may be related to the influence of family background or past experience, and further communication is needed to explore the root causes behind it.

Hello, according to your description of your husband's situation, I think you can initially think that the enemy lacks effective communication. This may be because when you get along with your husband, you don't communicate with him effectively, and it is easy for you and your husband to have many unnecessary misunderstandings and even complaints about each other. Coupled with practical reasons, your husband can't resolve the misunderstanding about you, and it is easy for your husband to have doubts about you, including an affair. So I suggest you, at present, you need to consider making efforts to adjust your self-psychology, learn how to communicate effectively with husband and wife, and let yourself establish a husband-wife relationship of mutual trust with her husband. If through your efforts, your husband still suspects that you are having an affair for no reason, then you need to consider sending your husband to the hospital psychiatric department for further examination and diagnosis.

The situation you mentioned is psychological disorder. I suggest that you can adjust your mentality and have psychological counseling.

5. Hello! You always suspect that your husband is having an affair, which may be a manifestation of your inner inferiority, self-confidence and insecurity. Such psychological characteristics are projected on your husband, which leads you to distrust him and be suspicious. Love is based on mutual understanding and trust. Doubt is the killer of feelings. You always doubt and distrust your husband without foundation, and your husband will be very uncomfortable and upset, which will affect the stability of feelings. I suggest you know more about your husband, enhance your feelings with him and trust his character.

When a husband does these five things, it is most likely to hurt his wife's heart.

1, think that women can do anything.

After marriage, I take women for granted as free nannies, and take it for granted that women can do everything, such as having children, taking care of children, washing clothes, cooking, cleaning up housework, and so on! How many men think that family is a woman's job and they just need to earn money? Do you really have to ask such a man? With what? Why do two people always have to pay for a woman alone? Besides, would a woman starve to death without you?

My mother is right about everything and my wife is wrong.

No matter what happens between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or some contradictions arise, men will always stand on the mother's side, criticize his wife righteously, and even make her apologize to her mother indiscriminately. If it is true that the wife has done something wrong, it is understandable, even if it is extreme, but if the woman has done nothing wrong, why should she endure such injustice for you just because she loves you? Will she be hurt by you because she loves you?

3, the wife should be poor.

If a woman spends a little, she will be scolded by a man immediately, and what a man usually says is, you are married, who are you dressed so beautifully for! Instead of support, it was a slap in the face. What's more, men are reluctant to let their wives dress up, but they dress themselves up beautifully every day! Isn't a married woman a person? Can't you start your own business after you get married? Dude, stop making excuses for your incompetence.

4. I always think other people's wives are good.

When it comes to other people's wives, men always blow their own horn, and in front of their wives. What position did you put your wife in? When you praise other people's wives, have you ever thought about your wife's feelings? To say the least, even if someone else's wife is good, it has nothing to do with you! Is it something a smart man can do to hurt his wife for an outsider?

5, the wife knows nothing! You don't need to understand!

"What can you understand!" This sentence may be familiar to many people. Yes, what happens in this sentence is mostly the usual expression of impatience when a woman asks a man something. Impatience is impatience. Don't forget to satirize a woman when you are impatient. Didn't you know everything from birth? I admire those who don't understand more than pretending to understand!