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Instead of being an interesting person, you should become an interesting person

Which do you think is more important, interesting or knowledgeable?

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An excellent author teaches people how to be interesting in detail and accurately. This fact itself illustrates several things. The first is that everyone feels that they are a little boring. ; The second is that fun seems to be very important, or at least it is very beneficial in social interaction.

This benefit starts in high school. Interesting boys are popular, but the popularity of most good students is lost because of their interestingness. They are dull, shy, and clumsy, which has become a weakness from that time on. Those interesting people not only dominate dinner parties and chat situations, but also make dating, dating, and TV shows their home.

Are you envious every time you look at those people who make everyone laugh with two sentences?

In essence, socializing is a typical "reduced to comparing who's popular" event. Because there is no clear purpose, the person who eventually becomes the protagonist is often a popular person, and being interesting is an important way to be popular. This raises a big problem: ordinary people's lives often don't have that much purpose, which means that what most people compete for every day is actually "popularity." Fun seems indispensable.

But how can fun be so important? Especially when “interesting” is narrowly defined as “humorous.” In fact, it doesn’t even cover the meaning of “fun”. Because "fun" often doesn't make people laugh, but makes people nod.

Ever since I realized that I was not an "interesting" person, I have been trying to find a methodological basis for my survival. My thinking can be summarized as follows: I think being interesting is much more important than being interesting.

The word "knowledge of interest" here should also be put in quotation marks. It refers to being able to see the "interest" in a person, a thing, or a thing. It's not just about being able to quickly understand the punchline of a joke, it's about being able to quickly discover the flavor of something and being able to accurately capture the beauty that is easily overlooked. A tiger is smelling a rose. This thing seems too simple at first. The tiger may have smelled a dozen things in a row, including stones, grass, hawthorn trees and rabbit excrement. But why does "the tiger sniffs the rose" Is that touching? This is to recognize the fun in it.

Why do we need to know our interests? It enlivens your own life rather than someone else’s. It can discover many details that are not easy to find in this messy world, and find wonderful fun in these details. Interesting people don't need interesting people at all, because interest can be found in anyone or anything. Sometimes this interest can be magnified into a career, or it can also pass on good things to others.

Fun is to make others happy. Learning "fun" according to the same content as a textbook shows that it is boring. And knowing interest makes oneself happy. If everyone had fun, our need for fun wouldn't be so high.

--Excerpted from "Rather than being an interesting person, you should become an interesting person" Text: Shi Xiangjun

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