Generally speaking, there are several reasons why a family becomes rich. I hope you know.

As the saying goes, "There are blessings at home". People in a big family live together and help each other in a friendly way. No matter how difficult it is, they can easily cross that hurdle. It is said that wealth can only prosper, which is the reason.

However, if a family lives together, with their own ulterior motives and mutual calculations, even if they encounter a little difficulty, it is difficult to cross over.

Because everyone puts their own interests first, they can't bear to suffer, and they can't hide the good of others. The life of a family is naturally going from bad to worse.

In fact, many times, the life of a family is not good, in other words, the material level of life is not high, which is really not only because of the bad external environment, but also closely related to every member of this family.

In the final analysis, a family wants to be rich, harmonious and loving, not by the external environment, but by the efforts of every member of the family.

For a simple example, in some family choices, everyone focuses on the future development of this family and manages every relationship in this family with heart. I think it is really hard to make a bad life in such a family, and it is also difficult for family members to fight for personal interests.

So, generally speaking, there are several reasons why a family becomes rich. I hope you know.

There is an old saying: "Fight tiger brothers, fight father and son". The real reason for making a family rich is that a family can live wholeheartedly. Simply put, it is a family thinking in one place and working hard in one place.

For everyone, all kinds of difficulties, big and small, will be encountered at any age. Similarly, a big family will have all kinds of difficulties.

In the face of difficulties, a family can get together to help each other and understand each other. Don't haggle over their own efforts and returns, and take the initiative to think more about each other. In such a family, there is more empathy, more empathy, less complaints and quarrels, and even the biggest problem becomes a simple matter.

On the contrary, if faced with a difficult problem, no one in the whole family is willing to come out, and relatives can only calculate each other, take into account the gains and losses of their own interests, and will not be happy if they touch their own interests a little. They especially like to dig up old scores between relatives and make fun of each other's past sufferings.

People who boast that they have come forward to solve problems have a good life. They are nice and honest, but they are complacent in their hearts and laugh at each other's stupidity. In other words, he is willing to take the initiative to lose self-interest, which is his stupidity. He should. It's none of my business.

No one wants to be the one who suffers, only thinking about some petty advantages. When a family encounters a little problem, they habitually complain and be cynical. I think it is difficult for such family members to get rich even in a good external environment.

Because, a part of a big family is always everyone.

In fact, no matter how shabby and declining it was before, as long as every member of this family can get together, take the initiative to think more about each other, face problems together and solve them together, this family will soon become rich.

As the saying goes, "fish begins to stink at the head", in a big family, people who are elders behave badly and don't want to do practical things all day, so young people will naturally follow suit. As a result, a vicious circle and no matter how rich the material conditions are, they can't stand such consumption.

A few days ago, a reader friend shared her in-laws with me:

"I didn't know that my mother-in-law was a prodigal son until I got married. In the early years, her father-in-law lost all the money she earned. I knew I played mahjong every day. Over time, my father-in-law was also poorly educated by her, but he felt rich when he didn't have much money.

The moral conduct of the two old people is not good either. Even if they don't help us share the financial pressure, they won't help us look after the children. They have never paid or contributed in the past few years. "

Perhaps, in my reader friend's heart, she hopes that this family can be as good as possible. After all, "water flows downwards, people go upwards", but her inactive parents-in-law never considered the hardships of her children and the fatigue of being a younger generation.

In fact, as long as one person in a family has no bottom line and no principles, then no matter how hard others in this family try, it will be futile, and this family will never get rich.

Because in the barrel effect, it is not the longest board that determines how much water a barrel can hold, but the shortest board.

Although the backbone of the development of a big family will always be the younger generation, if we lose the navigator, even if we are strong, it will be useless. Just like a ship, the elders will always be at the helm. Without the helm, there is no direction, and it is naturally difficult for the ship to dock.

Therefore, when a family gets rich, there must be a well-behaved elder behind it to take everyone to do practical things. In other words, everyone knows what they want to do, and life will naturally get better and better.

I have read such a sentence: "Morality has been passed down for more than ten generations, followed by farming, poetry and wealth, but only three generations."

There is also a saying that "three generations are poor and three generations are rich", which is the same: the wealth created by the older generation, no matter how much, needs to be kept by the younger generation.

Generally speaking, it is impossible for a family to get rich without a good family education. As a younger generation, they can learn correct values from their elders and know what to do and what not to do, so as to keep their wealth.

Although Fu Lei's love for his son can be seen in every word of A Letter from Fu Lei, he still does not forget to give his children a comprehensive education in music, philosophy and literature while loving his son.

He loves his son very much, but this kind of love is not doting, not bottomless.

Indeed, every parent loves their children, but if they lose their due limits, lose their bottom line, spoil their children too much, and do everything according to their ideas, for a long time, they will form a wrong three views, and at the same time, they will lack basic morality and rules, and eventually harm others and themselves.

Therefore, the real reason for making a family rich is that the younger generation has correct values in their hearts, can clearly understand their responsibilities and know what to do for the future development of this big family, instead of idling and being confused.

Summary:

Still the same sentence: home and everything. If it is difficult for a big family to get along with each other even in the most basic way, it is not a family prosperity. Because only when the family is harmonious, everyone will concentrate on their work and life will be better.

Therefore, it is impossible for a family to get rich without family support and elders taking the lead in doing practical things. At the same time, with good family education, it is impossible for this family to go from glory to failure by not doting on their children from generation to generation. # Emotion #

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