My cousin's girlfriend is the kind of person who likes to sell human feelings. She often said that what she should have done was to help me, which made me mentally unbalanced.

Second, know how to refuse others, whether it is good or bad. Anyway, if you feel uncomfortable and don't like it, try to refuse.

Third, don't be a soft persimmon. Since we can see through it, we must defend and even attack. Don't be embarrassed to go back when others treat you like this.