Save unhappiness (save all your unhappiness in four sentences)

Tell me a little story:

Marx’s daughter Jenny asked historian Victor: “Can you use the most concise language to condense human history into a booklet? ”

Victor said: “No, just four German proverbs are enough.”

These four sentences are:

God. Whoever is allowed to perish is always allowed to expand first. Time is a sieve that will eventually remove all debris. Bees steal flowers, only to make them flourish. It's so dark that you can even see the stars.

Life has ups and downs, joys, sorrows and joys are always intertwined with our experiences. It may not always be as good as we imagined, but it is often not as bad as we fear. Sometimes we are overwhelmed by negative emotions. To get rid of it, all it takes is one word of guidance.

If you understand, things will not be difficult; if you take it lightly, your heart will not be tired.

When you can’t think about it, just read these four sentences.

01.

Whoever God wants to perish will always expand first

This sentence is said to have been first said by a Greek tragic poet, which means, When a person indulges himself more and more and even starts to do whatever he wants, he is not far from destruction.

I remember reading a message from a gambler backstage.

He said he had forgotten when he became addicted to gambling. Gambling made him bloated, made him crazy, and also made him completely defeated and lost everything.

He was very lucky that day. He won a lot of money at the beginning, but he just wanted to win more and refused to give up when things got better. His wife, who was more than eight months pregnant, begged him to come home with a heavy belly, but he ignored her. When he finally lost all his chips, he felt that it was because his wife came to him to get bad luck that he lost completely.

He pushed his wife aside angrily and even kicked her several times.

The child was gone, his wife divorced him in frustration, he lost all his family property and owed a lot of foreign debt.

Now he is working several jobs, hoping to repay the money he owes early, but the unborn child, the woman who left him after despair, and the solid life he once had will never come back.

He said: "I am too self-righteous, so I deserve to lose everything I have. People cannot swell. Once they swell, it means that the fun is over. You have to eat one bite at a time and walk step by step. There are really no shortcuts in life.”

Yes, people are most afraid of inflation.

If a person always stays in good times, he will easily lose his guard and self-discipline, and slowly lose the ability to deal with adversity. He can only keep calm and speak out all the time. Only by being cautious in doing things can you try to avoid mistakes and leave less irreparable regrets for the rest of your life.

It is really important to guard against arrogance and impetuosity, and to be prepared for danger in times of peace.

02.

Time is a sieve, which will eventually wash out all the debris

I often receive comments from readers on WeChat, maybe it is their experience Sentiment may be caused by things that are not going well in your life, or you may be suddenly unhappy and feel that there is no hope in life.

I always say: "You have to believe in the healing power of time", and I often get asked back: "How long will it take?"

How long will it take? This is destined to be an unanswerable answer,

But looking back, we met so many people in the past, how many of them can still accompany you now? Think about the many things we have experienced, how many of them have really had a substantial impact on us?

Too many people and things that we thought we would never forget throughout our lives were forgotten in the days when we never forgot them.

Time is like a huge sieve, washing away the sand in people's lives. Good things and bad things will eventually become things of the past.

So, if you encounter any obstacles that are difficult to overcome in a short period of time, don't be discouraged, don't be discouraged, remember, time will eventually wash away all the debris.

Think more openly, look more broadly, let go more. For the rest of your life, don’t invite too many people and too many things into your life. Only leave your time and energy to worthwhile things, and Someone who loves and cares about you too.

03.

Bees steal flowers, but they make them flourish

Buddha said: No matter who you meet, he should be in your life People are no accident, they will definitely teach you something.

The good thing is luck, the bad thing is growth. Whether it is a person or an event, it is inevitable that it will happen. The current result is the only ending that can be realized.

Don’t always focus on the past that you can’t go back to, and don’t blindly look forward to tomorrow. In the present moment, believe that everything is the best arrangement, do what you should do, and try your best. Be who you want to be.

People always have to lose something, but in the same way, when someone comes, someone will leave. If there is loss, it means there must be something gained.

Just be kind, just work hard, and just run forward. Leave everything else to time and fate. They will never let down everyone who runs hard.

May you always believe that all separations are just to meet the right person; if things go against your wishes, there must be other arrangements.

04.

It is so dark that you can see the stars better

Tagore said: If you cry because you miss the sun, then you will also miss it. The stars are up.

People with a bad mentality are always prone to be sad for spring and autumn because of a little dissatisfaction. They miss it endlessly, but this continues the regret and makes the length of sadness even longer.

People who can remain optimistic in the face of sadness and adversity are often more likely to be treated gently by life.

Because life is like a mirror, if you look sad at it, it will also look gloomy on you, and if you smile at it, it will smile back at you.

In the same darkness, some people saw loneliness and helplessness, while others raised their heads and looked up at the starry sky.

The changes between people and the gap between life and life are opened up through choices and trade-offs.

Only with a good attitude can you live a good life.