Taboos on personal name changes

A name is a person's name. Hearing his name is like seeing him. A good name can make people unforgettable, fresh in memory and endless aftertaste. As the saying goes, a person with a right name can achieve success, and a person with a right name can achieve success. A good name can make you confident, happy, joyful, and smooth.

20 taboos on personal name changes

1. Avoid using words that make people famous, such as: Governor Song, Gao Gan

2. Avoid using derogatory words, such as: Wu De, Ye Guang

3. Avoid using arrogant words, such as: Tianyi Chaojie

4. Avoid using crude words, such as: Hu Nili belly

5. Avoid Use tongue-twisting words, such as: Hu Fu, Zhang Changshang

6. Avoid using ugly words, such as: Dong Hu Niulao

7. Avoid using vicious words, such as: Huang Tianwohuhu

8. Avoid using bad words, such as: Ye Guangbizuxian

9. Avoid using suspicious words, such as: The couple of Jin Guiban

10 , Avoid using disabled characters, such as: Sun Bin Su Yuwen

11. Avoid using complicated and difficult characters, such as: Wang Fu

12. Avoid using weird characters, such as: Rare characters

13. Avoid using excessive words, such as: Li Muyu

14. Avoid using mixed words, such as: Mao Tieqiao Lin Senhuo

15. Avoid being shallow , such as: Huangshan Arhat

16. Avoid vulgarity, such as: Chinese solemnity

17. Avoid alienation, such as: confusion between men and women

18. Avoid Use the word "depressed", such as: Chen Qiucao, Sun Mo

19. Avoid using the names of great people and sages, such as: Confucius

20. Avoid straightforward words, such as: Thank the world, Peng merchant

Below, Yi'anju Zhouyi.com elaborates on some of these taboos:

1. Changing names with complicated and difficult characters is a lot of trouble

Some parents like to name their children with complicated and difficult characters Changing the name is to show that he is knowledgeable, but as everyone knows, this will cause a lot of trouble for the children. Think about it, if you change your child's name, most people won't know it, can't recognize it, or even make it a joke. What an embarrassing thing it would be.

So, what are complex characters?

Traditional characters refer to characters with a messy layout and many strokes. Such characters are troublesome to write and difficult to read. If a child is renamed with traditional Chinese characters, not only will it be difficult for the child to understand, but it will also be too difficult to write, which may easily cause him to lose interest and confidence in writing. Whether it is written or printed out, if there are too many complex characters in the name, it will become dark, causing an imbalance between right and wrong, making people feel depressed and suffocated.

Difficult words refer to words that are not often used, that is, words that are difficult to recognize and read. Most people don't know this word. I can’t read it, let alone what it means. Changing the name with this kind of word will affect the communication between people and prevent the normal function of the name. Even if the name is elegant, artistic and entertaining, in front of most people who don't understand it, no matter how good the name is, it can only be a literal symbol, or even become a joke, cause misunderstandings, and bring unnecessary trouble. Therefore, when changing the name of the child, the adoptive mother should use common words instead of complicated words.

A name is a symbol for a person to communicate with others. If others do not know it, this kind of communication will be very inconvenient. And from a psychological point of view, when a person cannot recognize or pronounce another person's name, he will inevitably have an unpleasant feeling and may even be unwilling to interact with him. A psychology professor has calculated that people who change their names with complicated characters generally have poor social skills, and 80% of them are withdrawn. From this point of view, the practice of changing names with complicated and difficult characters is indeed impossible to change. Therefore, when parents change their children's names, they should avoid using complicated words and make them consistent with the interests and needs of the majority of people. In this way, talents can carry forward the normal function of names and facilitate communication between people.

2. Uncivilized names are uncivilized

Parents should not use rude words when renaming their children, because the name should be a delicate and delicate work of art, not only civilized, but also elegant. . And rudeness is incompatible with it.

Thickness and fineness are relative, and wildness and writing are relative. The so-called crude words are rough, unprocessed words with a primitive flavor.

There are two main manifestations of using crude words to change the name:

First, the wording is unprocessed, rude, and vulgar. Such as Goudan, Wild Cat, Cowboy, Stone, Heihai, Maomei, etc. Most of these are nicknames, and some are also used as nicknames.

The second is that although certain text processing has been done, there is still a kind of wildness in the words, giving people the impression of being stubborn and unruly. Such as Lei Gong, Yong Jiu, Hu Ni, Li Fu, Tong Ho, Pei Yue, Lei Jian, Xuan Xiao, Gu Ya Ya, Bei Guosao, Liu Shagui, Wu Dalie, Yu Leiwa, Ren Maoxiao, Ling Zhendian , Liu Heijiao, He Xianqi, etc.

Some of these names are fierce, some are humble, some are noisy, some are gloomy, some are powerful, and some are stubborn. It gives people the feeling that there is more ugliness than beauty, and evil is greater than good. Once changed, as the cultural quality of the entire nation improves, this type of name will gradually be selected. Modern society is a society with beauty as its theme. We are pursuing a change in exquisite material life, and we are also pursuing an elegant spiritual life. Of course, we must also pursue a civilized and beautiful name. Being rude is a sign of being uncivilized and unelegant. I believe that as a parent, you also don’t like a rude personality, let alone changing the name of your child with a rude word.

3. Avoid excessive words when changing names

Changing an excessive name for a child can easily cause the child to have a mentality of bragging about himself, degrading others or devaluing himself. There will be adverse effects on physical and mental growth. Therefore, when parents change the name of their children, they should avoid using excessive words in the name.

Excessive means exceeding the appropriate degree and exceeding the standard. There are two common situations: First, when renaming a child, one is overly boastful, which constitutes bragging and boasting, and the effect is not good. For example, if the child is renamed: Chen Wance, Bu Wanke, Guan Wandi, Wan Guoquan, Li Wanshou , these tens of thousands of words obviously over-exaggerate the children's deeds and strength. If one's own children are regarded as so unique and powerful, how should the position of other people's children be placed? Obviously, praising oneself and putting others down go hand in hand. The name Li Dujian makes it very clear. A single character indicates that the person who is healthy is the only one who cares about me, and others are not worthy of enjoying the character. It's exactly this: everyone in the world is sick and I am only healthy, everyone in the world despises me and I feel at ease. This is the mentality of those who are self-contained.

The other type is self-effacement that goes too far, resulting in self-abasement and self-deprecation. Humility is good, but it should also have a limit, that is, it cannot violate the principle of conscientiousness. Violating this principle will lead to bad things: either self-reliance and self-abasement hypocrisy, or disguised pride. The excessive self-dislike here constitutes self-abasement and self-deprecation. In fact, even if it is a kind of hypocrisy, it is difficult for a simple and upright person to accept it. Such as: Wang Zhuo, Liu Yu, Yuan Chi, Yu Yu. Do they really think they are stupid, old-fashioned, stupid? Of course not. I don’t think so in my heart, but I want to use it as a name and a sign to promote the world. What kind of behavior is this? It's not hypocrisy or fraud, it's not conscientiousness anyway.

Whether it is self-praising or self-deprecating, it is abnormal and excessive behavior. Therefore, when parents change their children's names, they should focus on beauty, abandon those unhealthy practices, and proceed in the direction of taking truth and kindness as the beauty of life.

4. The names that are mixed together are very serious.

Some parents change the names of their children in a very serious way. It was created by choosing a combination of words, but randomly changing a few words together. The result is that the changed name looks like a platter, not only does it not have any deep meaning, but it is also very unheard of. You know, changing a name is not just a combination of characters.

Hashed names have the following characteristics:

(1) The central meaning is unclear;

(2) The distribution of words is not harmonious;

(3) There are signs of hostility and dissonance between words.

For example, Tianchuanliu, the center or main body of this name, does it mean Tianchuan or river? Or is it a field or a river? It's hard to tell. The central meaning is unclear and confusing. Where is the cause? The relationship between Tian and Sichuan is difficult to figure out. It is unclear whether the relationship is complementary or incompatible, resulting in ideological imbalance. This is a common problem of changing names with mixed characters.

Another example is Chen Miaohan. Miao and Han in this name are very incompatible: Miao is generally used for women, with feminine beauty; Han is generally used for men, with masculine beauty. These two are gathered side by side, how can people know? Does it mean a man with feminine characteristics, or a woman with masculine characteristics? It's hard to say whether it's true or not. Previous page 1 2 3 Next page