My ex-boyfriend still has feelings for me and cares about me. I also have feelings for him. I am going to go to college soon, but he won’t tell me. What should I do?

The following are personal opinions and are for reference only.

First of all, it can be seen from your question that you and your ex-boyfriend live in the same place. You are going to school, but he is not in the same place as you whether he is going to school or working. Secondly, you love (like or appreciate) your ex-boyfriend, or at least care about him. But I still have questions for you: 1. How old are you and him? 2. How many years have you been dating your ex-boyfriend? 3. Do both parents know? 4. How far is the place where you go to school from?

Of course you can't tell me this quickly, but I advise you to think about your future based on the questions I mentioned above. The following are my opinions and suggestions. If there is anything bad to say, I hope you don’t mind.

I am a boy. I think boys nowadays fall into three categories when it comes to love. The first category is falling in love based on feelings. If it doesn’t feel good, break up. If it feels good, just continue. The second category: the philanthropic type, who cares more or less about every girl around him, including his girlfriend. The third category: He really loves his girlfriend. If the girl breaks up with him, he will sacrifice something to try to save her.

You are a girl who is about to go to college. Whether he is in school or working, you probably don’t spend a lot of time together. This is quite troublesome because people change, especially when they go to college or work. Working, living outside, being very free, and having more men and women around you, it's hard to tell that he still likes you. I still have a lot of opinions to give you, but I don’t understand the situation. If you have time, you can send me an email, karl_jy0728@yahoo.com.cn

To make a long story short, I will give you two opinions on your question:

1. You can ask him directly when you are eating, playing, or shopping with him, whether your future will be a letter or a phone call.

2. If he doesn’t answer, then don’t ask again and slowly become friends with him. If you really want to be with him in the future, stop dating in college and keep in touch with him. , according to my analysis, one-half of the boys cannot fall in love in four years of college, and I won’t go into the reasons. If he works, I think you should slowly come out of your feelings, because the gap between those who work and those who go to school will soon widen.

In short, I am more interested in the psychology of love (please don’t laugh at me). I have experienced a lot of love affairs myself, helped others solve them, and heard a lot about them. Let me give you a sentence: People change. Yes, the only thing that can be grasped is now. Love is about fate. If he really loves you and wants to be with you, he will find a way to be with you. You don’t have to take this matter too seriously, because some Things cannot be achieved by human power. It is true to make yourself feel better and happier! If you think what I said is a bit official, then I have another sentence: work hard to get what you want. After all, it’s not time to talk about marriage yet, so there are opportunities! It’s just that to get good material things, you have to endure loneliness and fatigue!

I hope my words can give you some inspiration, and I wish you can be together as you imagined, and I wish all lovers in the world will eventually get married!