I took my daughter back to her parents' house, and my mother kicked us out!

On the weekend, the sun was shining, and I took my daughter back to my parents' house.

My daughter is four years old, and she is very happy all the way, clamoring to see her grandmother soon.

I am also very excited. I haven't been back to see my mother for three weeks. It's really anxious to return.

It was almost home, but my mother didn't hug and kiss her daughter as happily as before. Instead, she glared at us through the door and threw out a sentence: "Don't come in the future, just pretend I don't have you!"

At some point, my mother pushed my daughter and me out. My daughter burst into tears with fear. My mother's face is still ugly and she doesn't look at us. Her eyes are very firm.

"Why? What happened to me? " I was caught off guard. I asked with tears in my eyes.

"Why? How dare you ask me? We Zhang family are not such unreasonable and shameful women. If you can't handle things well at home, don't come to me again! " After that, my mother closed the door without saying anything, and my daughter and I separated.

I made up my mind to drag my crying daughter away with tears in my eyes.

I know, my mother must have listened to other people's ears again. Our two families are neighboring villages, and it takes more than ten minutes to walk. My every move at my husband's house will soon reach my mother's ears.

But mom can't just listen to one side of the story! My grievances at home are very depressing, and she doesn't care at all. She just scolded me. I think when I want to marry Qianggen, she strongly opposes it, but it will always be for that family, regardless of her daughter's life and death. Is this still my real mother?

My heart is wronged, and my tears are flowing freely. My daughter panicked and stopped to wipe my tears and said, mom, don't cry, mom apologizes to grandma, and grandma won't be angry!

I felt a surge in my heart and held my daughter in my arms, and the past came to my mind one after another. ...

2

That winter, I took my boyfriend of two years, now my husband Qianggen, home to meet my parents. To tell you the truth, I'm quite uneasy. Qianggen's family is poor, his father is sick all the year round, and there is a younger sister and a younger brother at home. Such an object does not meet my mother's standards at all, and she should not agree to our being together.

As expected, my mother objected on the spot, saying that she and her father could not marry me into such a family to suffer. Father didn't speak, but his expression showed that he and his mother had the same attitude.

Qiangen's face was so anxious that he broke away from my hand and left. I won't let him go, pull him back to me and solemnly tell my parents that I won't marry him in this life!

After that, I pulled Qianggen and turned to go out, but I heard my father shouting behind me, "What's wrong with you? What's the matter with you ... "

I turned my head and saw my mother leaning against my father, pale, her eyes closed and her body wobbling.

I was a little scared, so I ran back to hug my mother and motioned for Qianggen to leave.

Qianggen hesitated to leave. My father and I helped my mother back to the back room and lay on the kang. Before leaving, my mother spoke. She said weakly, "Baby! Mom is totally for your own good. In their home, who wants to jump into the fire pit? "

I'm a little deaf. In the face of love, I think my mother is so secular and ridiculous!

But in order not to make my mother sad, I didn't refute it, but my heart became more determined.

In the next few days, my mother refused to let me go out for various reasons, and then took every opportunity to even move my uncle menstruation to do ideological work for me, hoping that I would change my mind.

My heart is like a rock, I am silent and hunger strike to show my resistance. In more than ten days, my father sighed, and my mother Lacrimosa, the whole family was overcast.

Finally, my mother gave in. She was afraid that I would try too hard to do something stupid. She promised me to marry Qianggen with a drop of blood.

three

According to our local custom, my mother received 30 thousand pieces of bride price from Qianggen's house, and gave it all to me the night before the wedding. She also told me in tears to plan my money and live a good life!

When I got married, my dowry was far richer than my sisters in the village. The moment I left home, I suddenly felt a little sad. Tears came out, and my mother hugged me and whispered, "The person you choose must be better than others. Don't let people see jokes! "

The day I just got married was very sweet, and my mother-in-law's family was very accommodating to me because I didn't dislike their family conditions. Qianggen loves me very much. He said he would try his best to spoil and love me and make me feel like a princess.

I am glad of my persistence and believe that I have found true happiness. But not long after, my mother told me that a daughter-in-law should not be too lazy to let people gossip.

I am angry with my mother-in-law's duplicity and behave like a good mother-in-law in front of me. Every morning, she cooked the meal before I got up, but she never accused me and explained to me that it is normal for young people to doze off more. Usually, she never forced me to go to the fields together, let me watch TV at home and eat melon seeds, and often asked Qianggen to take me to town to buy more delicious food.

I didn't expect all this to be superficial, but I made irresponsible remarks behind it. Isn't this ruining my reputation? What a pity!

I told Qianggen about these complaints. I never thought that he would believe what his mother said. He said her mother-in-law was not that kind of person. Not only did she not speak ill of her daughter-in-law, but she often praised me in front of outsiders! Those rumors must have been caused by some people in the village sowing dissension and undermining our unity. He advised me to ignore them and live a good life.

But I can't shake off the shadow in my heart, and I begin to feel that there is ulterior motive behind my mother-in-law's smiling face. Everything she said is meaningful. She must be dissatisfied with me. I won't tell Qianggen again, lest he be in a dilemma. Besides, as a dutiful son, he won't turn to me for help. I decided to put away my previous enthusiasm and sincerity. After all, those are my youth and ignorance. I must learn to be rational.

So, I separated from my mother-in-law intentionally or unintentionally, and I can no longer simply get along with her. Mother-in-law is also a sensitive person, and the disharmony between us is growing slowly. She cooks, and sometimes she stops calling me and makes me sleep in or even skip breakfast. When I came back from the outside, I didn't greet her as sweetly as before. I entered the door silently and went back to the bedroom without saying a word.

four

This situation lasted for a long time, but fortunately we were tolerant and never quarreled. Our mother-in-law and daughter-in-law remain calm on the surface, but in fact, they have accumulated a lot of grievances in their hearts. Many times, I listened to my mother-in-law sigh, but only snorted in my heart, secretly saying that I asked for it, so I ignored it.

Later my mother asked me many times how I got along with my mother-in-law. I vaguely said that we were fine and asked my mother not to listen to others. Mom still doesn't believe me, but there's nothing she can do. She sighs every time, saying that this is your own marriage, and you should know how to cherish it!

I think it's not that I don't cherish it. I get along well with Qianggen. As for my mother-in-law, this relationship is not easy to get along with, and I am too lazy to waste time on it.

Later, I was pregnant, and my mother-in-law was very happy and enthusiastic about me, but I knew she was just happy that she was going to be a grandmother, and she didn't have much affection for me, which was not as good as her family's, so I continued to remain indifferent.

I had a difficult birth when I gave birth. It is said that Qianggen and her mother-in-law are very anxious outside. Fortunately, mother and daughter are safe. Her mother-in-law always put her hands together to thank the gods for blessing, and I laughed at her feudal superstition.

During confinement, I wanted to ask my mother to come and take care of me, but my mother refused because she could not live without her family. She said that most rural people have no mother-in-law to take care of their daughters, only mother-in-law! I know my mother did this on purpose, in order to close the distance between my mother-in-law and me.

My mother-in-law didn't say anything, but I could see that she didn't want me to have a daughter, but on the surface, she lived well, but she seldom held children.

My mother-in-law cooks food every day, but I always feel that she is careless and not enthusiastic enough, and it is always not timely to wash diapers for her children. She said that saving one more piece of laundry would save time. There are enough diapers anyway. I've heard so many excuses that I don't want to argue. I just asked her not to put dirty diapers in my room.

Shortly after giving birth, Qianggen's sister got married. I am very unhappy to see a computer in the dowry my mother-in-law gave her daughter. I told Qiangen that your mother gave your sister what you always wanted. It seems that you are not your mother's own!

Qiangen explained that her sister bought it herself. I don't believe it. I talked to my mother-in-law that night. My mother-in-law was silent for a long time and replied, I have money to buy you a computer in the future!

five

A week later, my father-in-law was hospitalized with cerebral hemorrhage, and life was even more difficult. The computer that my mother-in-law promised to buy for us was gone. I was annoyed, but I couldn't speak, so I had to put up with it again.

My father-in-law's illness has always required medical treatment, and it is difficult to improve the situation at home. I want Qianggen to go out to work, but my mother-in-law said to wait until her daughter is older. In fact, Qianggen said that her mother-in-law wants us to have another son soon and then go out to earn money.

My mother-in-law thinks that my mind has been fixed that I have no son at all. I want to talk to my mother-in-law, and tell her that I am determined not to have a second child. The roots stopped me and earnestly advised me not to get angry, saying that it was unrealistic not to have a son in the countryside, and I would regret it in a few years.

I cried and scolded Qianggen for being worthless and hated myself for being blind. Genqiang smiled apologetically and coaxed me with good words. I pushed her out of the door and cried alone for a long time.

As my daughter grew up day by day, the days passed slowly. At first, I refused to get pregnant again. Later, I didn't take any measures and nothing happened. The grandchild that my mother-in-law wants has never been seen.

I have a joy of revenge success, but my heart is also very anxious, my temper is getting worse and worse, and I often have conflicts with Qianggen. At first, my mother-in-law advised me to scold Qianggen most of the time, and then left us alone, which aroused my disgust.

My daughter is four years old this year. A few years ago, I advised Qianggen to go out and look for a job, or I could go to work with him. Qianggen is used to life in the countryside. Go to the mahjong room every day when you are free, drink if you lose, and brag if you win. He is a total lazy rascal.

I'm a little anxious, but it's not easy to change him. Watching him fool around, I hate my mother-in-law more and more If Qianggen hadn't stopped him from going out to work, would he have become like this?

I will scold my mother-in-law when I am in a bad mood. Later, my mother-in-law couldn't help it, and we started a noisy day.

six

After the New Year, someone introduced an object to my brother-in-law. After meeting, the two sides liked each other and soon settled the marriage. Mother-in-law is in a good mood and walks with the wind.

I was angry when I looked at her like that. I heard that my mother-in-law gave her brother-in-law a bride price of 60 thousand, and I immediately blew it up. I ran to my mother-in-law angrily, and I questioned her, why did you only give me a bride price of 30 thousand yuan?

My mother-in-law said calmly that 30 thousand yuan was the market at that time, and now the bride price of people around her is high, which is very helpless.

Can't help it? I think you are biased! You just don't love your eldest son, your daughter and youngest son are your favorite! I can't live this life, I want to divorce Qianggen!

My mother-in-law ignored me and turned out to talk to someone. I was so angry that I left my daughter and ran to the mahjong room, overturned the mahjong table and uprooted it to divorce him.

Qiangen didn't want to quarrel with me in front of outsiders, so he went home with a black face. I followed him back, packed my things when I came in and asked him to divorce me tomorrow.

Qianggen saw that I was serious and immediately changed his face and said, "It's all my fault. I will never play mahjong again. I will live a good life in the future. " .

I sneer, you love to fight or not, I am divorced from this marriage!

"It is better to leave a woman who can't even have a son!" Qianggen and I looked back, and my mother-in-law did not know when she had stood at the door.

My heart is like a needle. Is this still my fantasy life? Tears welled up in my eyes, I gave Qianggen a hard stare and made a dash for the door.

I didn't go home that night because I was afraid of being questioned and persuaded by my mother. Instead, I went to my best friend's house for one night.

The next morning, Qianggen came to see me. He hugged his crying daughter and begged me to go home. My best friend also advised me to go back with him for the sake of the children and said a few words for me. I'm disgusted with this ingrained way of Nuo Nuo's subservience to Nuo Nuo. But seeing my daughter so pitiful, I have to go back.

seven

From that day on, my relationship with my mother-in-law reached freezing point. I didn't say a word to her, and we kept a straight face when we met. I just hate that I can't move out They have spent all their money on their brother-in-law's marriage and can't build us any more houses. I can't let a house that looks clean go out.

Let's work together. I just hope Qianggen can live up to expectations and we can have our own nest as soon as possible.

Fortunately, Qianggen has slowly given up mahjong and is already looking for a job. I'm not going to force him. As long as he really works hard, our life will not be bad.

At first, I took my daughter back to her mother's house just to ask my brother for help, and asked the village foreman if I could ask Qianggen to find some jobs under him. Who knew that my mother would treat me like this as soon as I entered the door? I feel really bad!

"Tracy, quick go back. I made it clear to mom. Mom asked me to come to you! " Just as my daughter and I were holding our heads, a powerful voice came from behind. It seems that he has been to her house.

"I don't go back because of you and your family. My mother did that to me. Let's divorce! " I answered angrily.

"oh! How to divorce easily! I made it clear to my mother that she knew that you were wronged in our family, and she said that she didn't blame you! " Qianggen said quickly, and then threw me back to my parents' house.

My brother has contacted Qianggen about work and can start tomorrow. My mother advised me not to be angry with my mother-in-law because of the bride price, but she thought it was wrong for me not to have a son. My mother asked Qianggen to persuade her and let me get along with her.

Mother said, home and everything, since fate has become a family, then get along well! You are the boss. If you want to set a good example for your siblings, as long as you are diligent and get rid of bad habits, will the good days be far behind?

Mother never stopped nagging, but we listened carefully this time, and our hope and confidence in a new life gradually rose.