Why do some people say that they can try to hide a serious illness, and the less people know, the better?

That's true. Try not to tell the patient.

One of my husband's cousins has terminal lung cancer. At first he didn't know it himself, and neither did outsiders. Only his wife and son know. His wife said, "it's okay to check." The doctor said to take some medicine and go home for a few days. "

He is also very at ease, he can eat and sleep when he goes home, and occasionally he doesn't think much.

Later, his son told his classmates that several classmates who were usually very good went to see him. When his classmates learned about it, they told their neighbors that more and more people knew about it and went to see him one after another.

Sister-in-law learned that he was very ill, and when she went to see him, she began to cry as soon as she saw him. Eldest brother hid out and didn't dare to come in. More and more people look at him, some sad, some sorry, some crying.

Knowing that he was seriously ill, he began to fidget, unable to eat or sleep.

People have obviously lost weight, and more people have made suggestions. This suggestion is to go to a big hospital for surgery, and that suggestion is to find remedies. All this is well-intentioned. It costs a lot of money to listen to their opinions, and the whole family is nervous and under great economic pressure.

After more than a year of tossing, my condition is getting worse and worse, and my family is very tired. I don't want to toss again, and I have no money to toss. Let's keep it at home.

People visit from time to time, so we have to take them to other rooms to talk. For seriously ill patients, the less people know, the better. The patient himself needs a rest, and he is exhausted in serving the patient, so he really has no energy to deal with people.

After more than a year of tossing, people are gone and money is gone.

Many people know, some regret helping, and some even gloat.

Therefore, if you have a serious illness, you can try to hide it. The fewer people you know, the better.

Being seriously ill is not a good thing. There is no need to preach happiness. Most people choose to hide, let nature take its course and fight for it secretly, which is the normal performance of most people to avoid others gossiping behind their backs. Once it's good, it's very different. You can't help telling everyone.

If you have a serious illness, you must hide it. First, hide it from the sick to avoid mental stress, giving up treatment and mental breakdown; Secondly, hiding from relatives, many relatives sometimes inevitably show their feelings and cry when visiting, which will complete the psychological gap for patients and bring more serious consequences; Third, hide it from neighbors or acquaintances to prevent some people from disturbing patients' treatment or saying something frustrating.

This spring, two people died in the village, both of them died of cancer, but before they died, no one in the village knew, not even the deceased himself.

Both families have adopted the attitude of giving up treatment for patients, and now people are more and more aware that even if the cancer reaches the advanced stage, even if the treatment is futile, it will even die faster.

These two families are very confidential, and no one in the village knows about it, which saves a lot of words. There is no denying that giving up treatment like this will be criticized in the village, but for the family members of the patients, the result of treatment is that people go to the building, and the family hollows out their money and spends all their savings. Not only can't you save the patient, but your family will be in trouble in the future. On the whole, it has to take this inhuman way.

In order to avoid the gossip of the villagers, this way of blocking the news is also a last resort, which is also very understandable and sympathetic.

Compared with the practice of another family in the village, it is condemned or even cursed.

The male owner of this family suffers from tuberculosis, which is an infectious disease, but the family blocked the news. This man still has some medical knowledge. No one in the village knows about his perennial treatment and medication, so no one pays attention. I don't know what the mentality of my family is. The only explanation is that he is not afraid of infecting others, and he also wants others to be infected.

What's more, there is a female teacher in the primary school in the village, and there is a child unattended at work, so the hostess of this family actually takes the initiative to look after the child for the female teacher, and the female teacher has a certain salary every month.

What this family has done is really immoral. A family with infectious patients has to look after their children. Aren't they afraid of being punished by God?

Finally, the tuberculosis patient in this family vomited blood, and the family was frightened. He called the doctor in the village, and the doctor knew at a glance that it was tuberculosis! In the late stage, there was no treatment at all, and he died in a few days. Only then did people know that the family had been hiding for many years, and they talked about it one after another, cursing the evil of the family.

The subject said that if you are seriously ill, you can try to hide it. The less people know, the better. It really depends on what disease it is, such as tuberculosis, hepatitis and other infectious diseases. Don't hide it.

The human heart is complicated, and the attitude towards diseases is also complicated. Sometimes it's really hard to say.

Got a serious illness. Afraid of being infected by others. I have a deep understanding. I have terminal lung cancer and don't like going to other people's homes. I will hold my cup carefully when I go out. My neighbor gave birth to a baby, and I feel that his grandmother is afraid that I will get close to him. I went to the physical therapy bed. Two old couples saw my bald head. I don't know what they think. They all have their own rooms. Both husband and wife dare not go to that physiotherapy shop! I don't like people knowing that I'm sick and then looking at me with colored glasses!

After all, being sick is not a good thing. I remember a relative in my family had lung cancer, so he didn't tell anyone. She said that telling others would affect the child's marriage and finding a partner, and she didn't tell her relatives until her death.

I agree with this view. If you have a serious illness, you can try to hide it. The fewer people you know, the better.

Because a person is seriously ill or incurable, it is a heavy blow to himself or his family. Who doesn't stay in the world with his lover and live longer? However, knowing that someone is seriously ill, it is better to keep it from me. The patient knows that he has an incurable disease and has a heavy burden in his heart. He can't bear the huge psychological pressure, and his immunity drops because he is afraid of getting sick. He was scared to death all day, thinking that he was going to see "God".

As for suffering from a serious illness, the less outsiders know, the better, to avoid some people in the society making irresponsible remarks and becoming hot news to spread everywhere. In addition, individuals who gloat and laugh at jokes may also exist in life. Moreover, the more outsiders know, whether they are concerned and curious, or even look at patients with strange eyes, they are tangible or intangible, which strengthens the seriousness of the disease. Therefore, after a serious illness, you will be safe when you come. Life and death are determined by fate, not by yourself. Therefore, there is no need to involve outsiders in a serious illness and make things worse.

This phenomenon also exists, but it seems unnecessary. You can do whatever you want, and you can't keep a secret. Anyway, you don't want to advertise or publicize, just wait and see.

In fact, if one person knows, it means that everyone else knows, and everyone else pretends not to know. I have such an example around me.