Why is the divorce rate of female teachers in our school high?

Male teachers are hard to marry, while female teachers are easy to marry.

I believe many girls have been taught since childhood: being a teacher is stable and easy to find a partner.

In fact, female teachers are indeed the most sought-after occupations in the marriage and love market!

Have a stable job, can guarantee the economic source;

Two extra-long paid holidays a year can take better care of the family;

Having a higher educational level than ordinary people is helpful for children's future education;

The living environment is simple, except for children who rarely come into contact with messy people and things.

All these make female teachers occupy a great advantage in the marriage and love market!

But now, 44% of teachers say that it is difficult to find a partner because they are too busy at work!

A friend's child met a girl who was a teacher on a blind date at the beginning of the year. They get along well and talk about everything. The only fly in the ointment is that although they are both in the same city, they seldom meet each other. Every time the boys ask to meet after work, the girls always shirk that they should correct their homework and prepare for the next day's class. Little couples who have known each other for half a year add up to less than a dozen times.

This is the normal state of teachers.

Busy preparing lessons, correcting homework, tutoring students, writing papers, and upgrading their studies, teachers concentrate more on their spare time after class outside the day's courses, and it is difficult to have much time to meet people, let alone fall in love.

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And those female teachers who have entered marriage, their marriage life is as orderly as their work.

A female teacher I know is a very energetic woman, and occupational diseases make her look stronger. I thought her relationship with her mother-in-law would be tense. After all, at home, both husband and son have to look at her face. But she said she got along well with her mother-in-law. When I asked her what she had, she smiled and said, "She is an old man, so why bother with her?" ? I'll let her say what she wants and listen to what she likes. Naturally, there is no dispute between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law ... "

Teachers sometimes seem to be strong based on occupational diseases, but because of their generally high educational level, they know how to give in properly in marriage, and there are few "disputes between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law", which greatly reduces many unnecessary points in life that are easy to cause contradictions. Although winter and summer vacations are the most intense period of family conflicts, both male and female teachers still cherish their families, are willing to cherish family relationships and will not divorce easily.

But when a marriage relationship can't be maintained, teachers often make more decisive choices and decisions.

I once received a client who was a teacher in a university and asked me for a divorce because her husband cheated on me. Compared with some clients who are confused and don't know what to do, she is very rational and clear in the whole interview and consultation process.

We didn't discuss too much whether her family life was happy or miserable, but went straight to the subject: the advantages and disadvantages of divorce.

After I gave her a detailed analysis, she said that it would take a few days to think and prepare the materials, and she came to me for entrustment on the third day after the interview. She said: Although divorce is really painful, if you make a decision earlier, you can get rid of it earlier.

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According to statistics, the divorce rate of female teachers is very high, because they are independent in work and thought, so they can accept divorce.

In fact, a couple walked from their daily life of caring for each other to the trial site of divorce proceedings, and no one could know exactly what they went through. But the data tells us that divorce does not mean denying the past, but wanting to be loyal to one's heart and discover the possibility of another life.

According to the statistics of family law firms, 73.4% of divorce cases in China are actually initiated by women, because women are becoming more and more independent, no longer dependent on men, and they are confident to propose and accept divorce.

I always believe that marriage or divorce is for a better life!

When you enter marriage, you should cherish it doubly, because the beginning of marriage must be beautiful. Only in the process of marriage, both sides keep hurting it, and marriage will collapse. When marriage is difficult to maintain, letting go is also a kind of wisdom.