If someone you can't let go wants to take you away at the wedding, will you go with him?

I feel impulsive sometimes, but I will definitely miss something big, so if someone I can't let go of wants to take me away at the wedding, I won't go with him.

First of all, I think I can't let him go, not that he can't let me go, so why should I choose that kind of uncertain happiness? I think everyone may have someone who can't let go, but that doesn't mean he will take me away, so I have to go. After all, there is no guarantee that he will give me happiness. Before, he knew I couldn't let him go. Why didn't he say anything at that time? Now that I'm getting married, you can take me away again. I feel that such a man is not good, so I will not go with him.

Secondly, marriage is not a child's play. Now that everyone has promised to get married, it should not be changed for some reason. I think getting married is a big deal. Although it is said that the person who loves me will be very happy with the person I love, since I promised to get married, I should give up hope on my previous feelings and let go of what should be put down! If you don't have feelings, just cultivate them slowly. If you get used to things that don't suit you, just run in slowly. Everything will change with time. So I think if I decide to get married, I won't make irresponsible decisions again.

Finally, I think getting married is not a matter for me alone, but for two families. I can't ask others what to think of you and how to behave in the future for an uncertain person regardless of two families. When rumors spread everywhere, I feel particularly uneasy. For everyone's sake, I won't go with him.

I think this is a matter of principle. At that time, you couldn't make a decision. Now I'm getting married. If you come again, please bless me!