Did your boyfriend take the initiative to provide you with the bride price?

Yes, it was my boyfriend who offered me the bride price, and I was very happy. My boyfriend took the initiative to mention the bride price, which is his sincerity and respect for me.

My parents took the initiative to mention the dowry, which was a sign of their love for me and recognition of my boyfriend.

We don’t want betrothal gifts because we think happiness has nothing to do with betrothal gifts.

My boyfriend doesn’t want a dowry because he cares about my parents and is truly grateful to them.

That’s it, there is no betrothal gift or dowry, but it does not affect the happiness of the two of us.

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To add, I don’t know if my boyfriend’s family has money or not, because even if we ask for a bride price, it is the savings of my boyfriend and me (whether it is a car, a house, or anything else, I will not ask for money from my parents, on the contrary. Occasionally I give some to my parents), it has nothing to do with my boyfriend’s parents. My boyfriend and I keep our money together, so we both know how much money is in it.

There is controversy in the comment area about some words used in the description of the article. For example, "saying that I am too old, or trying to give my parents some credit" is a joke, and according to me According to the custom in my hometown, this kind of gossip has always happened. Not wanting a bride price will not be said to mean that the parents are enlightened, but it will be considered that the girl cannot get married, or it is maliciously speculated that she got pregnant before marriage, so the bride price is not required. Customs vary from place to place, so don’t focus on the 300,000 disputes and speculations.