Some girls think their boyfriends are naive. Why?

Women are insecure, and mature men give girls a great sense of belonging, so girls in love usually complain that their boyfriends are immature. What if my girlfriend says I'm immature?

First, some girls say that men are naive because they think that men have not considered my needs, and this man has not considered things comprehensively. But it doesn't mean that this woman is mature, because from her own point of view, women are more likely to see their own needs. If a person has no experience, it is difficult to put yourself in others' shoes. Just like men say that women are selfish, because it is difficult for women to look at men's needs from their own perspective. After all, everyone has not read all Qian Fan's works. Sometimes, a man is irresponsible for a woman's desire, and he will also be called "naive" by a woman. After all, only old men can take the initiative to consider women's needs, consider them more comprehensively, and even lead women ideologically. Therefore, even if women themselves are naive, it still does not prevent them from saying that men are naive. Even if men are selfish, it won't stop them from saying that women are selfish.

Second, talk about targeted attacks. This angle is very interesting, such as the information mentioned above, but I just talked to my ex-boyfriend for a while, and my boyfriend couldn't stand it. Why is he so naive? This is a typical attack. Show your maturity and charm by attacking your ex-boyfriend. Indeed, what your current boyfriend said may be true. This is similar to that some girls will achieve their goals by evaluating the childishness of boys, which is similar to repression. By suppressing behavior, you can lower the other person's evaluation of yourself and make the other person feel that he is not good enough for girls, so naturally he will make some compensatory behaviors. Childishness mostly means that this person's vision is not broad enough, his concept is immature, his vision of problems is very shallow, he has always been unable to grasp the key points, and he has always loved subjective imagination, which is used by ordinary adults.

Third, when a woman thinks this man is naive, she should put it mildly. She thinks he is simple and put it mildly. She calls him retarded, but she is heartbroken and cold. She wants to break up with this man. Secondly, if she can or is qualified to say that he is naive, it should generally be that she is better than him in all aspects. She realized that this man is hardly better than her, in other words, he can help her. Men have different stages of psychosomatic development, and women are generally better than men. If a man's mental state is perfect, he needs to be around 25 years old, so there is a big difference between couples of the same age or older women and young men. So we need to distinguish the real purpose of each other's speech. People who stay away from repression and control are the best way to protect themselves and love themselves.