My husband and I quarreled about buying cosmetics and clothes. what do you think?

This problem actually involves the management of the salary of both husband and wife. Because every family deals with this problem in a different way.

In fact, two people should have a good discussion about salary management before marriage. Both sides should reflect deeply on this incident. First of all, whether the woman spends too much in this respect, whether the frequency of spending money is a bit too high, and whether the woman considers the actual situation of the family when spending money, so the man will object. The man should also reflect on whether he often spends money on his hobbies and does not allow the other person to spend money on things he likes. After reflection, we should come up with a better way to solve this problem.

In my opinion, we might as well take a better way to deal with it. Two people can each take part of their salary as common family expenses. The use of this part is supervised by two people and is transparent. When using this part of the funds, two people need to agree. This requires timely communication. As for the rest, we'll leave it to them to make their own arrangements, and the other party can't interfere. This can not only ensure the operation of the family, but also ensure that their hobbies are not restricted and give them some freedom and space.

Of course, every family has its own way of dealing with it, and we can't force unity. As long as it is suitable, it is the best. More importantly, two people should negotiate and communicate well. They should not spend money at will for no reason, but should consciously make financial plans. Once there is any unexpected situation at home, you can also deal with it economically and not be at a loss.