Humorous speaking skills

No matter how many cola jokes and humorous language are stuffed into your stomach, you can't pour them out to show your humor. Humor in language must be used according to specific objects, specific situations and specific contexts, and the words cannot be outdated. Otherwise, not only can the conversation not get the desired effect, but it will bring trouble, even hurt the feelings of the other party and cause trouble. When telling a joke, every pause, every special tone, every corresponding expression, gesture and posture should help to exert the humorous power and make it a humorous punctuation. Important words should be emphasized, and the skills of conveying meaning by sound such as stress and pause should be used to promote the audience's thinking and deepen their impression. When you tell an interesting story, don't rush to show the results, just hold your horses, show the power of humor with a unique tone and dramatic plot, and create a suspense for the audience before the most crucial sentence is said. If you can't wait to tell the result, or show it through the change of expression and action, it's like the breakup of a spoiled child, and humor loses its effectiveness and can only disappoint people. So how do you make yourself more humorous? First, read more jokes. Humor is inseparable from jokes. You can read more jokes when you are free. On the one hand, you can tell it to your friends, on the other hand, you can laugh at yourself. We are teenagers. Second, learn more about American spoken English. Americans are very funny and often tell some irrelevant examples to illustrate. It sounds humorous, but if you think about it carefully, you will find it very meaningful, philosophical and humorous. Third, we should understand that humor gives people happiness. Humor brings happiness, not harm, but it doesn't mean that humor can bring happiness. Some people can't accept humor, so we should respect others and don't force them to accept it. Fourth, we should learn humorous tone and expression. If you want to learn to speak humorously, you should not only learn the content of your speech, but also learn the tone and expression when you speak, otherwise it will become "cold humor". Fifth, you should have a humorous heart. Without a humorous heart, we can't convey a happy sense of humor. We should have a humorous heart. Humorous speaking skills. Contrastive principle: say a normal sentence first, then a sentence with reverse thinking, subvert the previous sentence and create a humorous effect. This is a very useful way to chat again. Today, let's take a look at the powerful usage of "contrast" in chatting. (1) Create a feeling of love and hate. E.g. W: What do you think of my eyes when I go shopping recently? M: It's really good (pause). You can't really think that. I think you're joking. This is the simplest use of "contrast". Through the topic, girls can instantly change from being praised to being dissatisfied, and their expressions will change accordingly. I want to give you powder boxing, but I don't think you did anything wrong. This is the ideal effect we hope to achieve. (2) highlight some of their own characteristics through comparison. Ex.: W: Many boys are very playboy now. Will you be philandering everywhere after you have a girlfriend? Man: Don't tease me. How can I be that kind of person (pause)? But if the object of philandering is you, I may consider whether to give you a chance to succeed in the upper position. See, this can not only save yourself, but also show your humorous side. Is this kind of chat afraid of bad atmosphere? Second, the principle of misinterpretation: give the sentence a new meaning from another angle, so as to achieve a humorous effect. Example 1: Female: Where are you from? Man: We haven't known each other long, and you care where my home is? (With a shy expression) Example 2: Female: A boy has been pursuing me for a long time. Do you think I should promise him? Man: If you want to be with me, just say so, although I don't particularly want to be with you (with a smirk). In attractive situations, misinterpretation is an effective way to quickly close the relationship. When you misinterpret a sentence, the girl will definitely explain what she said. Please click here to enter a picture description. 3. Exaggeration principle: deliberately exaggerating rhetoric to achieve humorous effect. Ex: M: Do you know what I felt when I first met you? W: What's the feeling? Man: My heart is about to explode and I'm about to jump out. Female: (shy expression) Male: Hehe, I am Doby, and you really believe me. The combination of contrast skills makes girls feel a strong emotional roller coaster. The use of "exaggeration" will help you implant emotions in the chat, enhance the uncertainty of interaction, and thus produce humorous effects. Fourth, the principle of rhetorical question: ask girls with the same sentence pattern or the same principle to achieve humorous effect. Ex.: Female: There is a boy who is very kind to me. Do you think I should like him? Man: You are very kind to me, too. Do you think I should like you? (Laughter) Using rhetorical questions in chatting can achieve humor and flirting. Please click here to enter a picture description. 5. Avoidance principle: Avoid her questions by answering irrelevant questions. Ex: W: You haven't said that to many girls, have you? M: I'll call you next time I go out to play with my friends. Just ask them. Many times it is difficult for us to answer some questions of girls, and this way is not good, and that way is not good either. In this case, we can skillfully use the method of "avoidance" to shift the focus of the topic to our advantages. Sixth, the principle of ridicule: use ridicule to suppress the original intention of the other party to ask questions. Who do you think is more handsome, Yifeng Li or Karry? Look at her eyes carefully and stare at the man: "I am curious about how bad your eyesight is, so I associate them with handsome" to suppress her anthomaniac and taste. Seven, the principle of contact: all topics are interrelated and interrelated. Who do you think is more handsome, Yifeng Li or Karry? Man: In my eyes, only you are handsome, and other men are weaker than you. Humorous speaking skills 3 1. When chatting with others, you must learn to praise others. Sincere praise can make the other person feel that your sincerity will bring the relationship between two people closer. 2. If you have a humorous personality, you will become very harmonious when communicating with others, so everyone should learn to have a certain humorous personality and infect others with their optimistic and cheerful personality. 3. When communicating with others, you can tell some jokes appropriately, which will cause the laughter of the other party and make the speaking atmosphere of the two people more relaxed. When chatting with others, you will meet people who are not lovers. At this time, you should learn to forgive generously, don't haggle over every ounce, and you can use some humorous jokes to resolve it. In fact, if you want to have a humorous chat atmosphere with others, you must keep an optimistic spirit, and the language should be sunny, so that others can feel your positive energy. 6. Chat with others humorously, don't care too much about other people's language, be tolerant and know how to find the right topic. 7. If you want to chat with people humorously, you must find a topic that others are interested in, thus arousing others' interest. 8. When communicating with people, you must talk less, learn to listen, give the other person a chance to talk and make the other person feel comfortable. 9. Choose the right time when you speak. If the timing is wrong, sometimes words will be misunderstood. 10, when communicating with others, you can add some body movements appropriately, which can make your words more specific.