What kind of people are reasonable people?

Confucius said that a person who can listen to your reason but you don't tell him is called "losing someone", and you missed this person, which is not good; On the contrary, if this person is unreasonable at all and you insist on reasoning with him, it's called a "slip of the tongue", which is not good either.

If you want to be a person who is willing to communicate with you and can communicate with you, the most important thing is that you have an open mind. This is the "magnanimous" state of mind advocated by The Analects of Confucius.

This state of mind and mentality can not only make up for your innate regrets, but also make up for your acquired faults; At the same time, it can make you have determination and real courage, enrich your life, make you feel good, make your life have the greatest efficiency, make your daily cycle lively, and channel these fresh nutrients to others.

As Confucius said, a reasonable person must be an "open-minded" person. First of all, they are peaceful and won't haggle over every ounce.

I don't think a reasonable person will deliberately reason with others, because reason is felt with heart, not with mouth. He will explain the truth in simple and clear language so that you can understand it easily. When you think differently from him, he can still listen ... knowing how to listen means knowing how to respect others. ...