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How much harm does verbal violence between relatives do to people?

The harm is very great. For people, the language violence of outsiders may not care, but if it is the language violence of relatives, it is easy to destroy a person's faith or heart unintentionally.

First, verbal violence is like an invisible knife.

Although verbal violence seems harmless, it is often the invisible damage of this clock that is fatal to people. It's like a knife, which may give a fatal blow at some point.

The girl who lived in a dormitory in college was introverted from the beginning of knowing her and didn't communicate with people very much. However, she is also a very kind girl. Sometimes when she meets a stray cat, she will buy bread to feed herself.

However, talking about her family may be a little unbearable. After all, her introversion and inferiority are from her family. Because she is a girl, she has never been loved by her family since she was a child.

In traditional families, girls are always less attractive than boys. No matter how well she does, she will be despised in the end without any praise.

And her parents will scold her from time to time and ask her why she is not a boy. She has been trying hard to get her parents' approval, so she studies hard and wants her parents to know her goodness.

But her goodness has not been seen by her parents. In their eyes, she is just an unattractive girl. Everything at home is what she has to do, otherwise her parents will be cynical and even let her earn money to support her family when she grows up.

Once, she finally couldn't stand it, told her true thoughts and wanted her parents to praise her, but her parents still looked at her coldly, especially when the school had to pay various fees. It is difficult for her to speak at this time, because she will be scolded by her parents, saying that she is just a black sheep.

Second, verbal violence will crush a person.

Long-term verbal violence can make a person timid, and my roommate is such a person. Every time she asks her parents for money to pay tuition or other tuition fees, she will hesitate for a long time, and then she will tell her parents uneasily, because every time her parents will scold her first, and then she will not give her money.

What broke her down was what her parents said to her. Maybe living in a family full of verbal violence since childhood is nothing to her, and she doesn't care. But when she quarreled with her parents and their parents asked her why she wanted to live in this world, she had collapsed.

When she was so big, she quarreled with her parents for the first time and then cried in the middle of the night. I didn't know her difficulties and what kind of family she lived in until I heard her story.

Fortunately, however, roommates finally came out to comfort her and make her feel better. For people, external language violence may be nothing, but for the relatives that people care about, if it is the language violence of relatives, it will definitely crush a person and make a person suffer great harm.

Third, there should be no verbal violence between relatives.

As a relative, there is no verbal violence. Even when you are angry, you should not say those vicious words, which will hurt the feelings between relatives.

In any case, don't swear at the people we care about, and keep calm even if you are angry. Only when you calm down, you won't hurt people with words.