What kind of experience is it if life is just like the first sight?

"If life is just like the first time, why draw a fan in the autumn wind? Waiting for leisure to change is so popular, but it is easy to change. " From "Drinking Words" by Nalan Xingde. It means that when we first met, everything was beautiful, but after a period of time, it became unpleasant, and there was autumn wind-like sadness. At the beginning, the vows of eternal love became a sea change. The most difficult thing to grasp in the world is the human heart.

? In fact, from a psychological point of view, this is also logical. When we meet for the first time, we look forward to infinite beauty, everyone is looking forward to the best, and they will also show their best for each other. After a while, with a deeper understanding, some bad things will begin to appear, and there will be a sad feeling of autumn wind sweeping away leaves. In fact, it's not that vows of eternal love don't stand the test of time. It's just that people's hearts are changeable. We should believe that people are sincere when they say it, and they really think they can do it, but when they can't, they are also true and really impossible. That's why we are looking forward to things as we first saw them.

? We can imagine how wonderful life would be if it was just the first time. Lovers will always have each other's beautiful, gentle, handsome and handsome appearance, one is reasonable, the other is generous, the other is gentle and considerate, and the other is warm and caring. There will be no worries and pains caused by emotional changes in the future, and all they can see is the gentle and sweet smiles of both sides. Now, for example, things are the same, everything is new and looks good, and the old always makes people feel a little messy or lifeless. Like the dining hall in our school. Last semester, the restaurant was not well decorated and the table was very old, so I felt that eating was not fragrant.

? This semester, all of them have been renovated, and slogans have been posted on the stairs. It feels brand-new, and the same meal tastes different. I really hope it will always be what we first saw it, and it will become shabby after thinking about it, so I don't feel sad.

People are really strange creatures. I have been thinking about why there is such a thing as feelings. If there is no feelings, what is the difference between the first time and the future? However, there are some people, including likes, dislikes, sadness and excitement. In this case, we can only accept, accept the beauty at first sight, and accept the sadness of vicissitudes of life, but after all, we have experienced the beauty at first sight, and we can count on it. Suddenly remembered Cangyang Jiacuo's "First, it is best not to meet each other, so you can't fall in love;" It can be seen that meeting for the first time is really important and influential, so no matter what we do in the future, the impression we leave at first sight must be good, no matter what it develops in the future.