People who want to grow old together are gone: no matter life or death, it is a life course, only love lasts forever.

Death is not the end and result of life, but the continuation and inheritance of life. You can accept death and live calmly. -"The Best Farewell"

A few days ago, I was seen by a video and cried for a long time: a woman was crying her eyes out after a slowly leaving funeral car. The sadness contained in crying can easily hit our hearts through the screen.

Inside the car, Liu Zhiming, president of Wuchang Hospital, was buried, while outside, his wife, Cai Liping, head nurse of ICU of Optics Valley Hospital of Wuhan Third Hospital.

Dean Liu Zhiming, who was only 5 1 year old, died on February 8, 2020 after being infected with COVID-19 virus.

Since then, the wife has lost her lover.

When the epidemic came, Cai Liping, as the head nurse, went to the front without hesitation, even though her sick leave was still one month away.

After the husband's diagnosis, the daily communication between husband and wife has always revolved around the husband's illness.

When the illness is serious, the wife wants to take care of it, but the husband always refuses. He knows that this is the most dangerous place in the epidemic, and he doesn't want his wife to appear here.

On February 3rd, Liu Zhiming used a ventilator because of illness. His wife cried and said, "I'll accompany you."

what is love ? It's not "I love you", but even if it's a deep end, I will go on with you.

Liu Zhiming, speechless, shook his head at the other end of the screen, although he missed his wife very much.

Before the coma, he left a doctor's advice: "In case, don't intubate for rescue." In the face of life and death, everyone thinks that as long as there is a chance, they will not give up, but they are afraid that the virus will spread to colleagues through aerosol transmission during intubation.

Cai Liping did not expect that after this side, it would be farewell.

This person, who is called "cheapskate husband" in his wife's WeChat, who is obviously dying but always worried about the patient, who is still worried about his colleagues at the last moment of his life, left his "cheapskate" to his lover.

When the country was in trouble, you and I went to the front together. You didn't ask me to accompany you on the last trip, and you left decisively without even asking me to meet you.

What kind of sadness and pain will the living people face?

There are always some people who are helpless in the face of death even if you try your best to keep them.

Lin's biography says: People have to experience too much about where you will go in their life, and those sudden departures often make people unprepared.

Like love, death is overbearing.

But love is stronger than death. Although they have left this world, as long as we don't forget, the people we love will not disappear.

In ancient times, emperors and empresses were generally politically married and had no feelings at all. But sometimes, feelings are a wonderful thing.

The Forbidden City has a palace building that is "hidden in a boudoir and unknown" and has never been opened to the public. Li Hong (later Emperor Qianlong) married his beloved Fu Cha here when he was young.

From the series "Exploring the Chinese Palace" I am going to the Forbidden City, we can know that this is the residence of Qianlong when he was a prince, and it is hidden in the Chinese Palace north of the West Sixth Palace in the Inner Palace.

The grass, trees, bricks and tiles here have witnessed the lush years before Emperor Qianlong ascended the throne, and these once beautiful things have remained in his heart.

The Palace of China was originally the first, second and third place of the West Five Branches in the Forbidden City. The Fifth Hospital of Ganxi has been the place where the Prince lived and lived since the Ming Dynasty. 1727 Prince Li Hong moved into the Second Hospital of the Fifth Hospital of West Jiangxi. After he acceded to the throne, he changed the place where he once lived to China Palace.

Like ordinary couples, the emperor also has the heart to grow old with his beloved wife.

His wife, Fu Chashi, is not only of noble birth, dignified and virtuous, gentle and kind, but also extremely intelligent. She is not only the wife of the emperor, but also his confidant. The emperor also likes her very much. They have been very loving since they got married.

This was rare in ancient times, especially in the royal family. And Gan Long is undoubtedly lucky, and he also manages this happiness seriously.

Ganlong's name is Changchun layman, and the place where the queen lives is Changchun Palace in the Forbidden City and Changchun Immortal Hall in Yuanmingyuan. "Where you live is my name." What a romantic expression of love.

Unfortunately, the good times did not last long. Fu Cha's health went from bad to worse because of the successive deaths of two children. In order to comfort her who lost her beloved son, Gan Long took her on a cruise to relax.

Unexpectedly, just as she was about to return to China, Fu Cha caught a cold and finally died on her way home at the age of 37.

In the face of sudden illness, even if you are as expensive as an emperor, there is nothing you can do. The desire of the Qianlong couple to grow old together was irrevocably shattered.

The lover left, and in the years to come, the real biting grief struck again and again, and the yearning lasted for a lifetime.

In his later years, Emperor Qianlong turned China Palace into a "love museum" for him and Queen Fu Cha.

David Eagleman wrote in the Life List:

There is a kind of love, even if the road to reunion is bumpy and tortuous, it can cross life and death; Some people, even if they never see each other again in this life, have never really left.

Haruki Murakami said: "Death is not the opposite of life, but as a part of life, and human memory is the continuation of the soul."

It has been six years since Malaysia Airlines M370 lost contact.

From March 8, 20 14 to now, time has passed in a blink of an eye. 154 compatriots left home that day and never came back.

This sudden disaster claimed the most important person in hundreds of family lives.

During these 2 193 days, the netizen began to wait endlessly for fish shopping because her husband was on that plane.

She regards Weibo as her memorial hall, where she pours out her thoughts and records her deteriorating health. It seems that she has "died" countless times, but after repeated despair, she continues to live.

She said:

"Before going out in the morning, I got up the courage to measure my weight, 36.6KG.

Well, don't worry, don't get angry. I have started TCM conditioning, but where are you? "

"I can eat three meals a day on time, I can earn money while working part-time, and I can tell people at the other end of the network that I can get the package while crying.

I learned to pay utilities. I'm used to going home alone, but my strong disguise collapses every day.

What time are you coming back? Come back! "

Her last Weibo was written on February 5, 20 19.

She said: "The person who told me,' If you keep this promise, you will keep it all your life' may, really, not come back ..."

Although she never gave up hope, she actually knew that her lover's hope of coming back was almost zero. But she knows that even if her husband leaves, she wants her to get better than anyone else.

So, she gritted her teeth and insisted on living hard, but at the same time, she also melted love into her blood.

In the face of disaster and death, each of us is just a weak ant.

They came without saying hello in advance, and took their lover away without waiting for you to be fully prepared.

We can only accept it.

I will remember you, remember all the good things we once had, and then make every effort to take your share and start the next journey of life.

Seeing you again, I hope I can tell you with a smile that my life is safe and smooth.

Ten years of life and death are two boundless, disapproving and unforgettable.

Living people will never forget their lovers, even if they are made difficult by life. Time moves forward relentlessly. Although you and I live far apart, it doesn't matter Your gesture has long been engraved in my life.

Although those who leave can't come back, the living always try their best to live.

Although the person you love suddenly disappears in your life, "love" will never. In every day that has never happened, they will accompany you quietly with those once beautiful things.

Liang Jizhang, a famous host in Hong Kong, said, "There is only one fate in one's life, so we must cherish the time together. Whether you love it or not, you will never meet again in your next life. "

So, hug if you can. The years are not as long as we thought. Live every moment wholeheartedly. Cherish every minute with the person you love and discover the beauty in life together.

Live well, love well, and leave no regrets.

When it is necessary to be apart, we should not be afraid. Although we are all alone in the end, we live a warm life because of love.

Death is not the end, our souls will continue in the memory of the living and be eternal in love.

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