Families who have a second child and families who don't have a second child don't have to wait for 20 years, and now the gap has come out. what do you think?

There must be a difference. First of all, from the original only child to two children, it may be two sisters or two brothers. If it is a young couple, the ages of the two babies may not be much different, and there is still some energy to take care of them or their parents. If a middle-aged couple wants a second child, the age difference between the two children may be too big. Although the husband and wife can take care of two children, their parents are old and may be willing to help but unable to do so. Moreover, Dabao has been sensible. If parents are found to be nicer to Bauer, they may be psychologically unbalanced. Therefore, parents should communicate with Dabao, don't hurt their younger brothers or sisters, and strive for family harmony, happiness and health.

Raising two children is more than 1+ 1=2. Parents who have a second child should have a deep understanding, and parents who don't have a second child should understand it themselves. But of course, we can't make the problem too complicated. It seems that having a second child is a big deal, and raising another child will make you feel that life has nowhere to live. I have seen a family with four children and five children. They live the same life. I still hope to have more children myself. Families are more lively, and children are often a sweet burden for adults. Don't think about raising children for old age. You should be content with each other. Everything has advantages and disadvantages. The happiness of having a second child is the same as that of having a child, but the difficulties and problems are different!

First of all, from the perspective of raising children to prevent old age, perhaps the second child is better at taking care of parents, but judging from the current social situation of the elderly, building a more perfect old-age medical system is an important guarantee for the future. Professional medical service institutions and old-age service models, most parents have old-age care, and children's old-age care models will be less and less. Children must survive first to take better care of their parents! Therefore, whether there is a second child or a family with children, good family relations, mutual understanding and mutual support, and a sense of security!

Secondly, in terms of education, the second child and the first child can naturally enjoy superior conditions in terms of economic and energy consumption, which is why many people dare not have a second child. Economic pressure is a realistic problem. However, there are not a few children from poor families who attack back. Let children know courtesy, benevolence, wisdom and faith, and it is most important to be an upright person!

When family planning was implemented in the 1980s, a wife could only have one child. At that time, as long as people in rural areas were unwilling to accept it, but that was a national policy. Up to now, our generation is old, and after 50, they are all 70 years old and have lost their ability to work. Even if you can take care of yourself, you can't meet the demand materially. Because there was only one child at that time, they are married now, but in front of them is a couple who have to support four old people and two students. It is conceivable that in this era of high consumption, how much ideological pressure there is! So there is an illusion that whether a boy or a girl gives birth to one. Two children can't afford it. Before the second child opened, it was similar. However, it is not good to have only one child in rural areas. We suffered this loss after 50, and we don't want young people to go this way now. It is an undeniable truth that as long as there are people in the world, there is everything. The progress of society, the strength of the country and the defense of the frontier of the motherland all require human efforts. If I don't look far now, I will definitely regret it in ten years.