Why do the elderly in China generally spoil their children?

? Why do the elderly in China generally spoil their children? Bian Xiao believes that there are several reasons:

The first reason is the bondage of China's traditional ideas to children, who always think that children are still young. I don't understand this and I won't understand it. I don't trust my child to do something by himself, for fear that the child will be cheated and run into it.

The second reason is probably that the old people in China had poor living conditions, no good living conditions, poor food and warm clothes, so they didn't want their children to lead their own miserable lives. The first thing they want to eat and play is to leave it to their children, and they are responsive to their requirements.

The third reason is that most old people live alone now. They are lonely inside and their children are not around. After they have grandchildren, they will love their grandchildren more and place all their great love on them.

The fourth reason is that almost all the old people in China are from the 1960s. All belong to early marriage and early childbearing. They became parents when they were young, so they are too young to raise children. When they are old and have grandchildren, they will naturally give their love to their grandchildren.

People often say that when people get old, they will love and like children more. For example, when my parents become grandparents, they will take their grandchildren out for a happy day, so that they will not be tired of their children and will have greater patience to take care of them at a certain age. I really don't agree with what they do to their children: as long as they cry, they will coax them, and the children will say that they want something from buy buy. I said don't spoil children, they will say that children are still young and don't know anything. Maybe it's really a traditional idea in his bones. Children will always be children, and you have to take care of them if you are immature. In the eyes of parents, we will always be children. Of course, we don't want to be wronged. Tell us what you can.