Do girls like men who are at the forefront of everything?

During the period of love, the other person always shows his best side and attracts your attention, which is normal. I always feel that my girlfriend is all right, and I may not have a deeper understanding of all aspects. In addition, because the two sides were in love at that time, they were naturally very polite to each other and would not lose their temper, put on airs or be too willful. So you may think that your girlfriend was fine before marriage, but she seems to have changed after marriage. That's not true. After marriage, entering the real life state, the original attitude of respecting each other will no longer exist. You may be disappointed in some aspects of your wife.

Empathy, mutual understanding.

Conversely, your impression of your wife is also a mirror of yourself. Your wife may have the same view of you, thinking that you are not as kind to her as before, your attitude is not as gentle as before, and you are not as careful and considerate as when you are in love. Not only that, but small problems that have not been discovered before have been revealed. Therefore, if you have a bad impression of your wife, you should also look in the mirror. Since it is mutual, don't be picky and care about it.